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2007-01-10 04:27:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on the date... I don't think there should be a "push" for sex on the first date - but if the two people "click", I don't see why they shouldn't be able to enjoy each other.
2007-01-10 04:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, maybe a good night kiss. My husband and I dated for a month before we even had out first kiss, then about a year and a half later we were each other's firsts. Something is working, I suppose because we dated for two years and have now been married over five for a total of seven years as a couple, not to mention the year we were friends before dating.
2007-01-10 12:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by lvminole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know about on the first date but i've changed my opinion on having it late in a relationship. Sex is very vital to a relationship. I now think it should be gotten out of the way with early instead of late. The reason why IS because i believe that the sex should be good for both partners. Thinking about this very thing the other night i realized this because if you turn it around and have sex after the two of you start to have feelings for each other and the sex isn't good then youre kinda stuck. Yo udont want to be with someone whom you dont enjoy being intimate with yet you dont want to end a relationship and feel shallow about it or confused by your feelings.
2007-01-10 12:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
On a first date? I know that in today's society the prevalence of sex has escalated, but a few questions for thought:
Can you trust this person to be safe for sex after only one date?
How would you feel if you gave yourself to someone on a first date and then never heard from them?
What would you do if your liaison resulted in pregnancy?
Please don't confuse "making love" with "being in love". Sex has been altered to become a counterfeit substitute for true love, and love does not happen after one date, no matter what the storybooks say.
2007-01-10 12:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by Fergi the Great 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no sex on the first date if the topic is brought up by the guy then you know what is he looking for in you just do it after the third or fourth date try avoiding the topic of sex and let him bring it up and see if he only wants to have sex with you or continue a true relationship
2007-01-10 12:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a old fashion person and don't even kiss on the first date. I personally believe that he would think me as a easy access.
Even some of the guys are tell you never on the first date. You should listen!!!
2007-01-10 12:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think that sex should be a part of your first date! What happened to getting to know my mind, thoughts and beliefs, not my body! Sex is something that should be kept in the confines of a marriage. Sex should be something that is enjoyed by both partners knowing that they share their bodies between themselves and themselves only. How on earth is a guy to take you serious if you offer yourself so freely. Don't get me wrong now, I'm not saying that he won't take the bait, but while fishing, he's wondering who else is caught so easily. Don't sell yourself short, - good things comes to those who wait.
2007-01-10 12:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever makes you comfortable. Whether it is one day or one year, its something that is up to you. There is no such thing as a three month "rule". What makes you think you can date this person for three months and say " Oh its our 3 month anniversary. I'm totally ready to spread my legs"? If you want to give it up, then give it up. Sex is not a weapon or a bargaining chip. It's a mutually pleasurable act that is of value to both parties.
2007-01-10 12:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Laynee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOO!! No sex on the first date. You can kiss and that's as far as it should go. You don't want to move to fast and have that ruin a relationship that you COULD have some day!
2007-01-10 12:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ LISSA ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No sex on the first date unless that's all you're interested in. It may be a double standard, but your date will assume it's your usual M.O. Good Luck
2007-01-10 12:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋