I have a serious question, so try to read everything before responding.
My wife and I started dating in college. She was a virgin and I'd slept with one other woman. Feeling shy and inadequate, I lied to her about my sexual history in an effort to help her trust me sexually.
Of course, the truth eventually came out. About 5 years later, she says she doesn't hold my lies against me, but it has changed our sex life somehow. I'm back to being not all that confident in things and she wants me to be more aggressive and initiate more often.
After talking about it last night, we decided that we got off on the wrong foot sexually speaking and that we need to "start over" somehow. I thought this was a good idea, but how can we build a new sex life from the ground up? Is this an impossible dream, or has someone had a similar experience?
See the details below for a more complete telling of our sexual history. Thanks in advance for thoughtful answers
2007-01-10
03:37:11
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