Im sorry but that question didnt sound right! well im with a guy and hes babys mamas is being a *****! about us being together she even goes to my job and talk ****! im just so confused cause he'll tell me one thing but then again i see another thing happening like she goes to our job to visit but he says its cause of the baby! i dont know im so confused! (thanks for all the answers before! i love ya guys!)
2007-01-10 03:29:30 · 3 answers · asked by Jacquel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
insert knife in back
2007-01-10 03:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, Please read and meditate on this answer.
HE IS NOT FOR YOU!
If he is not backing his words with actions, then you know he is NOT the person you want to invest your life on.
Also, you don't mention your age.
But I am sensing that you are a very young and naive person, who is not ready for a real relationship.
Go back to school, get your degree, get a some real maturity skills and you will be able to make the proper choices when it come to dating someone more suitable for you in the future.
If he has a child with another female, this shows he is very irresponsible when it comes to safer sex.
Be smart, be safe, be selective you are worthy of a real man, not a loser.
2007-01-10 11:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by manna8888 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Jacquel...
Sounds like he is still dealing with her. One thing that I have found about dating men with kids is that there is ALWAYS an opportunity to bed her again. They share a kid and there is (no matter what either parent says) is a bond there. I'm sure you've had "segueway sex" before, right? Segueway sex is when you kinda just happen to screw. No one intended for it to happen, but it kinda just does because there is a familiarity there.
That's what it sounds like. As difficult as I am sure this is going to be, to protect your heart...start loosening your ties with him. Date others. You deserve to be happy too you know!
Good Luck!
2007-01-10 11:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋