Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

my husband works and i do not (i am unable to work and currently appealing my disability claim which can take over a year)....so i have absolutely no money....i do housework and cooking, etc....my husband is in charge of ALL the money, i have not a cent to my name.....if i go to the grocery store i have to use HIS atm card to pay......i'm getting really sick of it....if there is an emergency, i have no money....if i need something, i have no money.....if i want a small treat (small, i mean like if i want to buy something at the art/craft store, or a book or something), i have no money.....i feel like a completely unequal person and it's really really upsetting me......
how do i talk to my husband about it in a way that will make him receptive to my ideas/concerns??

2007-01-10 03:24:43 · 8 answers · asked by SNAP! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 03:24:25 · 14 answers · asked by Waldo Y 1 in Friends

Our son is trying to find him since he disappered and i can't stand in the way of him being upset, personally i'd have him shot but we can't choose our parents

2007-01-10 03:24:09 · 5 answers · asked by redfraggle 1 in Friends

2007-01-10 03:23:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf and i have been together for almost 2 months he is my second bf. he and i have talked about sex and we both agree that we are not having sex until we are sure that what we have is the real thing (this isnt bs, we have been in many situations that he could have taken advantage of but he didnt). we went out and we were in his car making out and he took my top off we had talked about doing that for a few days before actually meeting up so i knew what was going to hapen and i was ok with it. he told me i shouldnt tell my best friend what happened because of how she is constantly trying to break us up but i was upset when he dropped me off so i told her what happened. the next day she tells one of her friends who doesnt know me and has only had one bf this girl said that he only wanted sex. but when i told my very close friend (who has had many bfs) about the situation and she said that what happened was nothing was nothing to be ashamed of. who's advice should i take on the situation

2007-01-10 03:23:17 · 10 answers · asked by sweethyedreamer213 3 in Singles & Dating

I have not see my son for 5 yrs because of his mother always hiding because she had warrants for her arrest. I had no contact with him and he is 10 now. She wants her husband to adopt him now and I had a paternity test ordered to be sure and then i thought I would talk to him and see what he wants. Because honestly , he doesn't know me and he lives with his new family. Just don't know what to do and I don't want to be selfish. If he loves the guy he lives with now, maybe I should let it happen. so torn about this.

2007-01-10 03:22:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

plz help!

2007-01-10 03:22:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-10 03:22:22 · 29 answers · asked by Me 5 in Singles & Dating

If your husband was to buy you a toy, would you want one bigger or smaller than his penis?

2007-01-10 03:21:54 · 12 answers · asked by mvas800 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I beleive that these 2 things are oftern confussed. I know I lusted after many girls but only loved once or twice.

2007-01-10 03:21:09 · 29 answers · asked by david c 2 in Singles & Dating

..makes them do without?

2007-01-10 03:21:07 · 5 answers · asked by Cas 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

The other day my boyfriend asked me to lick his a**hole. please tell me that I am not the only one that has done this. I have never seen this done before in my life. Or have heard of this.

2007-01-10 03:20:59 · 24 answers · asked by April W 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 03:20:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everytime he calls he acts up,this one time he told me he needed a break.my son father lives all the way in trinidad and my boyfriend an i lives in america.do u think that he should act up like?

2007-01-10 03:20:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What can I do about my Dad? He is the biggest control freak going. He never lets my Mum come from Sheffield to visit me in Leeds, even though they visit my sister all the time. They hardley ever visit me - if ever. I'm due to have an operation soon. My boyfriend may not be able to get time off work to care for me, so I need my parents. My mum wants to look after me, but he won't let her come near my house and I says now I've moved out I'm not allowed to stay there even for a visit. Me amd mom get on great and I really need her, but she hasn't got the guts to stop my dad holding her prisoner. She isn't even allowed to go out without him - with her mates and stuff. What can I do? I tried to tell him he was being manipulative and selfish, but he didn't care. My relatives have tried too, and got nowhere.

2007-01-10 03:19:24 · 8 answers · asked by TEE S 4 in Family

alright, i dont want ne bs answers only genuinly respectable answers. . .
my boyfriend & i started dating a while ago and now we are expecting our first born in about 3wks. heres the delimma: he was married before for about 8mo and then they divorced. but when i was 4 1/2 months preggo he "disappeared" for 2wks and i found him at his best friends house with her. hecheated on me with his ex wife. i thought we were happy didnt think anything was wrong at all. 1miserable month went by and i couldnt kick the thought of how much i terribly missed himand the thought of raising our son by myself. exactly 1mo after cheating he called me and told me how sorry he was and that he left her (again) that he was scared and frustrated (sexually) and bc i couldnt stand the thought of not being with him i took him back. and now (almost 4mo later) everything is great again but everyonce in a while i completly throw it in his face & start a huge fight. dunno if its hormones or what. would you trust him?

2007-01-10 03:19:13 · 10 answers · asked by JENN 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my buddy double teamed a girl i really like. i was upset about it cuz i wanna date her. but then suddenly he tried making out with me! what should i do??

2007-01-10 03:17:37 · 5 answers · asked by bejakinit 1 in Singles & Dating

If I'm supposed to host the bridal shower for my best friend's wedding, should I ask the bride for a guest list or figure it out on my own and ask the family etc to help figure out the list (she's my college friend but we havent even lived in the same country for the past years so I dont know well enough on my own)

2007-01-10 03:17:29 · 15 answers · asked by chigaimasu 2 in Weddings

i need some advice..i live with my curent boyfriend in an apartment we rented ive been with him for 1 year..but im just not happy with him ne more he makes me feel worthless and depressed all the tyme and i kno that its not healthy for me to feel that way ..i still love my ex who i was with for almsot 3 years i call him off and on to cheer me up..he lives up north and yesterday he asked me a big question if i would move up there with him for a month and then we could come back and he would get and appartment together..but i jsut dont want to make another mistake ..but this is where my heart wants to be with my ex.please help..

2007-01-10 03:16:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I first conceived this question I meant in terms of presents for birthdays etc but actually would be quite interested in any thoughts that help to shed light on the male psyche as a whole!

2007-01-10 03:16:40 · 27 answers · asked by teary chocolate 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Living in Dublin, 29 Years Old, not much confidence but everyone I know keep on telling me you'll defently get a man if you go out and look. How do you approch well I know how to approch what I mean is I'm not gonna go over and say fancy me do you want to bring me out? Seem to attract scumbags after money, to buy them drink, drugs etc.. I want a nice decent hard working man who will love me the way I'd love him. Is there a man like this out there?

2007-01-10 03:16:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

freinds of mine (who are girls) ask me this at college sometimes and it would be really good if people ( both male and female awnsered this quesdtion with their opinions so the next time that i get asked i can actually give a proper awnser as opposed to "I don't know".

2007-01-10 03:15:56 · 29 answers · asked by ells19892005 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend has been with this guy for over 4 yrs..they are planning to get married in June...the thing is I went to see them and she had bruises on her arm and when I asked what they were from she gave the classic answer "I fell" yea right..anyways while I was visiting her fiance told me that I cant go to the wedding..I didnt say anything but...what do I do? do I go anyway do I tell her Im just lost...and Im hurting for her any advice

2007-01-10 03:15:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 03:15:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if a guy, non-bf, told you that he was avoiding going somewhere that u spent time at together bc he would miss you, what would you think???

2007-01-10 03:14:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, this guy is my best friend. He makes me laugh, he's very hot, and he might like me. Well, what people are noticing is that whenever I'm turning around he's looking at me. Or, when he's talking to someone else he looks at me for a second, and then well... I turn around... But my friends say that even when I turn around he's still looking. Does he just wanna get in my pants or does he want a serious relationship? Plus, there is one girl who's always telling him that im a whore and stuff.... She don't know what she's talking about... but please please please help me!

2007-01-10 03:13:11 · 29 answers · asked by So_Seductive 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 03:12:47 · 4 answers · asked by bandi 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 03:12:02 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

male name or female from what country

2007-01-10 03:11:32 · 2 answers · asked by chacra_1 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend's getting married but she's not religious... her friend is getting notarized to do the wedding... i dont think a tux is a good idea for him, he'll get confused with the other guys in the wedding . What should he wear?

2007-01-10 03:11:29 · 10 answers · asked by chigaimasu 2 in Weddings