my bf and i have been together for almost 2 months he is my second bf. he and i have talked about sex and we both agree that we are not having sex until we are sure that what we have is the real thing (this isnt bs, we have been in many situations that he could have taken advantage of but he didnt). we went out and we were in his car making out and he took my top off we had talked about doing that for a few days before actually meeting up so i knew what was going to hapen and i was ok with it. he told me i shouldnt tell my best friend what happened because of how she is constantly trying to break us up but i was upset when he dropped me off so i told her what happened. the next day she tells one of her friends who doesnt know me and has only had one bf this girl said that he only wanted sex. but when i told my very close friend (who has had many bfs) about the situation and she said that what happened was nothing was nothing to be ashamed of. who's advice should i take on the situation
2007-01-10 03:23:17 · 10 answers · asked by sweethyedreamer213 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but my first friend has only had 1 bf and she was ok with everything i did until that other girl told her that it was wrong
2007-01-10 03:29:23 · update #1
im a junior in hs by da way.
2007-01-10 03:33:20 · update #2
The close friend who said it is nothing to be ashamed of. I have an older boyfriend and we decided to wait (We are still in highschool) But we do fool around, my shirt came off too. We make out and do stuff like that, not sex. DOn't worry...
2007-01-10 03:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but my point of veiw is that you should have not have told ur bf!! Because what if this got out to your mother? And you know what? by the why it sounds it sounds like he didnt just "want the sex" because if he did he would have tryed befor when he had the shot.
2007-01-10 11:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by ~sweatypie~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong. It's not like you had sex in the car.. it was passion.... Don't listen to your negative friend ! If she can't be happy for you then... maybe the 2 of you shouldn't discuss any details about your relationship w ur bf! Hope all works out for ya !!
2007-01-10 11:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first friend with only one bf. This guy is leading you down the garden path sweetie. He's trying to get into your pants. Next time you meet up he'll want to go a little further and so on and so on. Don't be taken in by him.
2007-01-10 11:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From what it sounds like you may be too young to be having sex to begin with. But I definitely commend you on discussing this with your bf and waiting to see if you two are going to stay in a committed relationship. If you are discussing your actions beforehand and do not feel bad about them then you shouldn't be ashamed. You may just want to keep your sexual activities to yourself or to be shared with a friend who can be more open to these discussions.
2007-01-10 11:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by jaws1013 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
listen to what your friends say. just listen, just listening doesn't mean you have to do what they say. as your friends they are trying to protect you and don't want to see you get hurt. you need to do what you think is best, they aren't the ones dating this guy and they don't feel the same about him as you do so do what you think is right, it might be a mistake but thats just a lesson in life you have to learn, even if it's the hard way. good luck!
2007-01-10 11:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by ~karma~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Niether if you are comfortable doing whatever with your boyfreind then do it don't feel pressured into bc then it could end up messy,
2007-01-10 11:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to listen anyone. You have to trust yourself and think how its right or wrong. Just follow your gut.
2007-01-10 11:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by MissGal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen to your friend of multiple bf
2007-01-10 11:29:09 · answer #9 · answered by anis118030 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur first friend
2007-01-10 11:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by mike 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋