Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

What would you say or do if she was your Mom???

2007-01-10 02:44:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 02:44:00 · 6 answers · asked by Sachin 1 in Friends

I went away to college in September (it's about an hour away) i live there all week. Friday I drive straight to work 4-11...then saturday i work 2 jobs 10-4 then 5-11 and sunday go back to school. I barely even get to see my family. I am also in Dance Company at my school. Well my supposed "best friends" are mad at me because according to them i didn't talk to them enough and that they've tried "hundreds" (yeah ok...i didn't even receive 1 phone call) of times to talk to me *online* and I either ignore them or just don't care. Now that I'm home they won't even talk to me....I just got my wisdom teeth out yesterday,not even a good luck or get better. Aren't friends supposed to be there for you no matter what??? According to the one girl I could have said "hi every once in a while" which i did when i was online and they were. Do you think i'm a bad friend or that they are wrong and should support me and put their jealousy aside that I went away to school and have some new friends?

2007-01-10 02:42:46 · 13 answers · asked by xox1sexyangeloxo 2 in Friends

Im going back to work tomorrow after 2.5 years staying home with my sweet little boy...HOW DO I STOP FEELING SO GUILTY AND MISSING HIM SO MUCH ?? I know school is going to be good for him but I feel so sad....

2007-01-10 02:42:28 · 4 answers · asked by DRD 3 in Family

Hi friends, i was in love with a girl for the past 8 years. we were not having a kid. Thatz all. life was wonderful. Suddenly she got a job in a city and she left me a year back..things changed...she moves out with all sorts of guys..allows guys to stay with her over night and come home drunk..and have started smoking too (We are in India!!!!)..and so she has changed a lot. She screams at me, even for my slightest mistake. She says, that she is not any more interested in me and want to settle her own life. She was also not loyal to me sexually. But in sex, she always said, that I satisfied her the most. She is now going out with many guys and is totally leaving me..rather deserted me. I did so much for her. I can never explain it in words. I DID MANY THINGS..WHICH NO ONE ON THIS EARTH CAN BEAR OR DO FOR A GIRL WHOM THEY Love. I have also decided to leave her. But I WANT HER TO COME BACK TO BE BEGGING AFTER YEARS. I KNOW THAT NO ONE CAN KEEP HER HAPPY. I WANT HER AFTER YEARS..WILL SHE?

2007-01-10 02:42:09 · 13 answers · asked by Klizzi i 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 02:41:39 · 31 answers · asked by lisa_legs_uk 1 in Weddings

How many of you would lose weight for your husband? My husband would actually like me to gain some weight (I've lost about 25 pounds since we met). Please let me say he doesn't say anything mean about my appearance or anything like that. This is just a rhetorical question. How many of you would gain weight for your husband?

2007-01-10 02:41:21 · 26 answers · asked by Lady in Red 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i am very stress, sad and confused.i dont knowwhat is happening to me. i need help.

2007-01-10 02:41:20 · 5 answers · asked by Ms. Skellinton 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i 'm not looking for a virtual lover or a sex partner on the net when i can get that real stuff outside the net, but a person you can exchange ideas, cultural beliefs, have a nice time talking too,get advice etc.

2007-01-10 02:40:37 · 7 answers · asked by tender2 1 in Friends

I have just found evidence of my husband having an online "friendship" with several women whose profile pics are half naked. I also found more porn DVDs after he promised me many times over 5 years he wouldnt do it again. I explained to him it makes me feel unloved etc. He cant "get it up" for me and says its his medication but as I have put on weight due to severe fibromyalgia, I have my doubts. He also tells white lies and every now and then I catch him out. I wonder if this is leading to more betrayal or its just in my head. He swears he would die for me etc and does a lot for me but I still dont feel I can t trust him. I brought it up with him today trying the be adult about it, he told me he is lonely becasue he never goes anywhere, yet the one time he has gone out in the last 6 months he was AWOL, phone off etc, he came home late 6 hours and stinking of beer, yet our religion says we do not drink. What do I do now the trust is gone? Its just one more thing in a huge list of lies over a long time. Today I felt like a part of me died for good! Please help. I have been in tears all day and didnt know how to ask this question. If it offends you, I am very sorry.

2007-01-10 02:39:40 · 15 answers · asked by LostInCyberSpace 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i think some mught hav emisunderstood me, he use to watch porn, not since we married. i am just concerned taht he is still really wnting to do it again. ome time htere was one ot those X rated girls gone wild comercials and he got all turned on and left the room. i just cried. i dont think he gets turned on by me because if im in the mood (rarley) he pushes me away. somtimes if i notice that he is turned on i just go along with it and get rejected. i think he is think of somone else. one time (while i was pregnant) i cought him goin over to another girls house. i talked to both of them sepratly and they both said they never had sex but my hubby is a lier. i cant ever trust him. he lies about eberything. i catch him alll the time. we didnt get married out of love either. yeah i do love him very much but he is very controlling. i cant evern have friends without him yelling at me. i just dont think my husband is really into me for love but as an object that he can control. PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-01-10 02:39:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So, my baby daddy left me because I gained too much weight during my pregnancy. This was about a month ago. So far I am down 15lbs with about 50 more lbs to lose by the summer. I really want revenge and I don't know if its wrong. I mean, I want him to see me one day looking really good and doing my thing because I really want him to notice me again....not so we can get back together, just so I can tell him no I don't want you.
He really hurt my feelings the way he broke up with me, he tells me he needs some space, and then three days later he's got a new girlfriend driving his car around while my daughter and I are stuck taking the bus everywhere. The girl he's with is totally opposite from me; and I am shocked he's even with her. I thought I was his type, but I guess not. I love him so much, and he hurt me so badly, I lost my best friend......and I just don't know what to do any more. I am so damn frustrated with my situation!!!!!

2007-01-10 02:38:57 · 23 answers · asked by Stefi13 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 02:38:44 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

." Men work for their families, duh. And most women WANT the men to work overtime and/or a second job. Women "bury" men. They don't care how many hours some schlock has to work as long as the house is paid off, etc. Then he dies and she's "retired." But to say guys actually prefer to work in their slave envirnoment (90% of people HATE their jobs) is to deny men of having human feelings. The Untermench today is men and our male offspring. Lies, misinformation, anything to keep women from facing the truth. Most women don't care about the guy they are with. They only care the bills are being paid. Lose his job and most women divorce the poor sap."
Well, the truth is that an avarage, woman live longer then men. Then you ***** why men does not want to marry you. I wouldn't want to marry you either.

2007-01-10 02:38:07 · 9 answers · asked by Jola 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex told me that if i break up with my boyfriend we will get back together and i love both of them and i just dont know what to do and i need help choosing stay with the virgin boyfriend or the nonvirgin ex-boyfriend?

2007-01-10 02:38:00 · 9 answers · asked by sexy bubbles 2006 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 29 attractive and educated. I would actually prefer a woman a little older than me..say 35-38. Is this strange? What do you think?

2007-01-10 02:37:43 · 8 answers · asked by Jared 1 in Singles & Dating

me and her r classmate now... she is from china... i can tell u i truely fall in love for her in my heart.. but she got a bf now.. i got try tell her that i love her.. but too bad she rejected... i got try forget and giveup on her.. but i cannot.. my heart inside dun let me do that.. because i understand i am really liking this girl very much.. i am trying many ways to get her heart and hoping she can accept me and let me got the chance to take care of her and give her happiness for the rest of her life.. some of my friends even tell me that i can able to find a better girl then her and even introduct girls for me to know.. even they like me.. but somehow i only can accept them as my good friends.. because love this person is not only by look but is by heart.. and i hoping someone.. can tell me truely a way to keep me on loving her.. because i just cannot forget her.. i true to her very much...

2007-01-10 02:37:40 · 4 answers · asked by Dan_question 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok. My wife cheated on me 2 years ago. We then tried to make it work out and I just found out after christmas that she was doing it again. As soon as I told her that I can't be her husband anymore, she started getting serious with her new boyfriend. He offered for her to move in with him. We have a 4 yr old daughter. We were going to do 50/50 custody, but I don't want my daughter to go from a mommy and daddy environment to all of a sudden living in a stranger's house (my ex-wife knows him for barely over one month) and getting attached to a guy who could disappear any minute, besides the fact that I know nothing about this man and do not trust him with my daughter. I want to know if you think I am being reasonable to be asking my ex-wife for this: You want 50/50? Ok, then get you own place and we'll work it out... You want to move in with your boyfriend? Ok, then I will do whatever I can to get 100% custody of our daughter.

What are your thoughts? I want to know if I'm alone or not

2007-01-10 02:37:16 · 4 answers · asked by Allinone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 44 and single. Is dating a 28 year old woman breaking any sort of moralistic rule or anything? If not, what is the youngest I could date without being labled strange? Will girls in their mid to late 20's even date 44 year old men... or is a 44 year old man considered antique or crusty?

2007-01-10 02:36:06 · 44 answers · asked by builderchris 1 in Singles & Dating

as in a relationship.....

Is it a scary feeling....I Am scared cause I dont want it to end....I am not scraed of the the future cause I know that I am able to live without anyone I just want him in my life and I dont want every little thing he does to annoy me.......I want to grow old with him....am I scared or falling out of love? What does it feel like?

2007-01-10 02:35:37 · 13 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been living tog 8 months,he has never told me he loves me,he says he don't know if even loves his family.I have been paying for all household bills,trips,going out,bailed him out jail,etc.I think he is using me. I asked him to tell me how he felt about me,he said "I like you",you know me better than anyone,I care about you.I feel like I am in onesided relationship,he picked up his son and went to his mom's for xmas and did not even invite me.I stayed home alone. We live like a married couple except I don't know what he does w/ his paycheck,He don't never have any money. And he makes decisions that effect household with out discussing w/ me or even telling me until last minute when he has to.We trust each other but he has no consideration for me or my feelings.Very disrespectful, Don't discuss anything w/me. I am the last to know anything, unless I overhear him telling someone.My car has been broke down and after telling him many times,I have to pay someone 2 fix,he's a mechanic

2007-01-10 02:35:18 · 8 answers · asked by ur2kewl8 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a poblem with men they afraid of making any relation with me because iam respectable . i dont know what is it mean? they can make a perfect job relation but not love relation.

2007-01-10 02:34:49 · 22 answers · asked by perfectvisitor 1 in Singles & Dating

" u re living a complicated love life", plz, examples abt what does complicated means if we combine it with love?"

2007-01-10 02:34:47 · 13 answers · asked by gentle whisper 3 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-01-10 02:34:44 · 13 answers · asked by newoldnew99 2 in Singles & Dating

My hubby had an affair, and up until last night, i was willing to try to forgive and try to work on it. All because of what he said. He said "he had the perfect set up this summer, he had the woman that he loves and 'her'". My mind processed that like this: He finds perfection in having his cake and eating it too and THAT is the prefect life for him, that just him and me are not good enough for him. He explains it like this: That at the time he had the affair, that was a good situation for him. We were having a very bad marriage at the time and he did have me and her, and she was a woman who never argued with him, he didnt have to fight to get sex. He says it was a temporary perfect situation, but his perfect life is me and him. I just dont know how to deal with that statement. My fear is that if he finds that behavior 'perfect', he will do this again. He says i misunderstood him and there is a difference between a perfect temp. situation and a permanent perfect life......

2007-01-10 02:33:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok in chruch i go shake 3 girls hands then i go shake everyone hands and hug everyone. and when i go back to sit i hear a girl say to her firend a lound wisper hes cute then the firend looks at me forl ike 10 secs. then the girl look at me when i look back she looks somewhere else fast. then nextweek she saw me at chruch she keep on looking at the ground and one more time like 2 times. then she stand up and look at me why?

2007-01-10 02:32:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK guys I'm really stuck with this...
My mum has 10 brothers and sisters. She lost contact with all of them. In July 2005, my Mum SAYS she had a phone call claiming the oldest sister was dead. The one she was most close too. It was the icing on the cake for her and she had a breakdown. I went looking for the family recently and my found my Aunt who is well and truly alive in the USA!!!!
Do I tell my mum or let sleeping dogs lie??
I have had contact with this Aunt through someone else and she's horrified that my mum has told her family that she's dead. My mum's not a *****, she loved her sister dearly I can't see areason why she would say this unless she throughly believed it. What should I do?

2007-01-10 02:30:51 · 17 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

doing or who he is talking to will he care?
If I act like I don't care - what Will he think?
I want to be his friend and talk about certain stuff but if I pretend stuff doesnt bother me, ex: other girls, etc.
what will he think?

2007-01-10 02:30:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A question for the girls? Am I tiny?

I am a 28 year old East Indian male and I was at a sorority party where some of the guys stripped naked. When I took off my underwear, I had 3.8 inch erection or just under 4 inches. Am I real tiny? And also what does it mean when a girl waves her pinky finger at me? This girl Dawn did that to me?

2007-01-10 02:30:01 · 5 answers · asked by baureddy 1 in Singles & Dating

i got a good man but i am having sum issues wit him so i am cheating on em help me plz

2007-01-10 02:29:51 · 24 answers · asked by lil-bit 1 in Singles & Dating