i am very stress, sad and confused.i dont knowwhat is happening to me. i need help.
2007-01-10 02:41:20 · 5 answers · asked by Ms. Skellinton 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He must be in love with someone else who really has a hold on him. To suddenly not want his kids, he must be infatuated with someone and doesn't want ANY interference for fear of losing that relationship.
The other possibility is he is very depressed and is trying to escape his current state of being, thinking all will be better if he leaves everything behind.......It never works that way though...try to get him to talk and some help if this is the case.
either way..good luck
2007-01-10 04:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by DAD_to_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's not much you can do if he doesn't want the children but however he will have to pay child support regardless. Yeah, children are going to be sad about this situation. That is why I suggest that you and the kids go into counseling to help you ease through this transition time. Take a deep breath, this is not the worst thing that could ever happen to you. It takes time to heal the wounds of a broken heart. Get counseling asap!
2007-01-10 02:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stay in Scotland and purely had to attend 2 years. go finally end up a felony expert and discover out,. i do no longer understand if Irish regulation isn't like Scottish, if it relatively is not any longer then 2 years is all you are able to desire to attend, and if there is not any babies below sixteen or any belongings in touch then you truthfully can do the quickie on your guy or woman. sturdy success.
2016-12-16 06:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by roedel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to the children it is not them that has the problem or the cause of the problem that it is something going on with the adults in their life. sometimes staying were it is familiar is good for the kids at this point in time church and family are the ones you should turn to for guidance .there is no cure for a man who thinks he needs something more /better or just different in his life don't beat yourself up over it ,it is a waste of your energy and you need all of that for your kids.
2007-01-10 02:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by Gina N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't quiet ubnderstand what you are saying but if he don't waont all of the children, he shouldn't have none of them. Divorce him and take your kids.
2007-01-10 02:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋