i have a poblem with men they afraid of making any relation with me because iam respectable . i dont know what is it mean? they can make a perfect job relation but not love relation.
2007-01-10 02:34:49 · 22 answers · asked by perfectvisitor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel for you in the social climate of much of the world today.
It is a sad world of immediate gratification, lowered moral standards and self centeredness when a woman feels unable to find love in a relationship that respects her purity.
There are still some men out there that not only respect but desire your attributes. Don't give up! Resolve to evaluate where you are looking for that relationship. Chances are you may be looking in the wrong places. In general the social dating, club, bar, scene is not where you will find a partner that will value the things you hold dear.
Through family, friends and social organizations that do good works and share common interests would be a more likely avenue to find your long term romantic relationship.
(I may be wrong in my interpretation, forgive me if so but for many of the other answerers who obviously have no concern for the asker, reading the phrasing of the question would indicate that the asker is likely of asian decent, without a firm hold on the way we gramatically structure our words in English. If I am correct in that assumption then it follows that "respectable" does not mean better than others, uptight, or the many other references given by answerers here. It simply means she has a high moral standard and does not want to sleep around.) cut her some slack.
2007-01-10 02:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by MtnManInMT 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People tend to feel challenged or maybe even afraid of people who are respectiable and have respect. They're afraid of feeling less when around the person or on dating thought, don't want to be rejected, a fear that most people have. Look at the way you present yourself, ask your friend how you come off to people. Maybe you might be making yourself out to be just a little better than everyone else. Not hard to do when you've worked so hard to get where you are, but it's not always a good thing either. I wouldn't tell you to change the way you act because it's who you are, and someone someday will approach you. Just be patient, take life day by day and enjoy every second of it. Fate will bring that person to you when the time is right, and nothing about you will scare him!
2007-01-10 10:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Steve S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try not to take this personally...
It could be your attitude.
By your comment '..i am respectable.', you imply that you have an arrogant view of yourself, which further implies that you look down on other people - specifically, other women.
Now, there's something to be said for having self-respect. But, to be desribed as being 'respectable' is something that is better heard from other people, not from the person being talked about.
There might be other reasons. If you come across as 'cold' to these guys, then of course they will not approach you about a relationship. No guy wants a cold-hearted partner. And in the nicest possible way, you do come across as cold over this text medium.
It has been my experience in life that people treat you in the same way that you treat them. So perhaps you should lighten up a bit, smile, and stop pre-judging others by how they live their lives. Perhaps then, people might stop pre-judging you too. :-)
Hope this helps.
2007-01-10 10:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by ♂ « Hybrid » ♀ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you're not picking the right men. Most men want an all around respectable women. Try focusing on a different type and see what happens.
2007-01-10 10:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by tHEwISE 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that isn't true, we just know that we can't play games with the respectable woman, so we aren't going to waste her time with sex like we would other women. so why you'd want that from us I don't know. you either need to commit to the relationship and stay with the respectable woman or leave her alone, you know respect her the way that she does you. you're just meeting a bunch of men who aren't ready, or aren't committed, to being in a serious relatoinship with you. there are some men out there that do want more, it's just a question of being where they're at so they'll see you.
2007-01-10 10:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have no idea what you just said so i will go with the comedy answer of "MeckaLeckaHighMeckaHineyHo!"
Other than that i would say that you are looking in the wrong place for someone "respectable". Why not try to find people more on your level?
2007-01-10 10:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by Prof. Timpo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most men like women who need them. Not the other way around. Or they like to be smarter than women. But don't change, there are men out there who would love a woman like you. Let it roll off your back and move on.
2007-01-10 10:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
probably,u are too respectful.or jus that the guys u go around are looking for nothing but a one night stand with you.so they dont care if u are respectful or not.any guy that wants u to show them respect are definitely into u.i suggest that u keep looking.the right one will come sooner than u think.
2007-01-10 10:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be patient there is a man who will cherish you because you're respectable in public but a freak at home. I waited for my wife. She is very conservative when out but at home ....
Most men do not have the patience.
2007-01-10 10:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
R u more respected than god .when man can love god u r not more respectabel than god R U?
If u r talking about love game>>> than you are right .if u want that type of love than u have to change .U have to mix up with us with no ego .just like a woomen and u will get what u want./sure u will/1000%
2007-01-10 10:44:14 · answer #10 · answered by suraj s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋