to have loved and lost then to never loved at all if so why does it hurt so bad
2007-01-10 03:39:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It isn't "better". It's just life. I know you're tired of hearing that . . so am I. The concept that you will "get over him" is illogical. Though, one day you will meet someone else. You will love them in a different way. While this person will always be on your mind, the new love will be in your heart.
Sorry to hear about your pain. Eat chocolate till you feel better.
2007-01-10 04:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think one or the other is better...i mean if you lost a love..you atleast felt it..but to lose something that means so much can hurt just as bad. But to never ever feel loved..to have nobody who cares for you..would be horrible..absolutely...and im sure theres not a person out there who doesnt have someone to love them and care for them..
2007-01-10 11:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by RiRi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better yes and it hurts. That is part of experience and growing to become a better person. Without feeling hurt you can't learn and understand. Learn from your hurt. You will love again!
2007-01-10 11:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you think it hurts at the time that it happens butthen you actually learn from it and learn to care and love more when you find something else and all i promise i know i thought life was oover and then it got better a year later and i got married and have 2 kids and it is not the person i lost.
2007-01-10 11:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by crystal b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never loved better, inorder not to be hurt and to hurt.but I think hurt teaches u to be more wise the next time and not falling in the same mistakes with other guys. sometimes , i think that there is no love , it s just game played to take something and it s over.
2007-01-10 11:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by gentle whisper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because you learn from your experiences. If you never loved at all those feelings you felt once would have never been, and it's always great, even for that moment, though it might not have worked out. You always make mistakes, but learn that you can't change the past and have no regrets.
2007-01-10 11:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by ×RIP Morgan× 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is better either way..... to love some one and loose it gives you the opportunity to know what it is that you want in a person compared to never being loved at all. To never love you really don't know what to expect and also how to deal with it when you actually are in love.
I, personally prefer to have had love and to loose it........ it is better that way for you and also for the next person!!!!
Enjoy!
2007-01-10 11:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by Mye 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think it certainly is better to have loved and lost.. i have done so myself plenty of times.. i know right now you prob feel you wont ever love again.. but you will, believe me and when you do you will be glad that you had loved before.. as the new love will always be so much better!!!!
2007-01-10 11:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by lollie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving is what makes you alive. I never felt anything until I fell in love, but ALL of my emotions kicked in when that one did. The pain will subside. Good luck.
2007-01-10 11:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by Milana P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts because you cared, you loved. Think of how wonderful you felt when it was at its best...would you want to miss out on ever feeling like that, to protect you from feeling hurt later?
We can prevent ourselves from loving, and thus from getting hurt when the love ends...but think about what we'd be allowing ourselves to miss out on.
2007-01-10 11:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋