i went to trinidad for 3mths,and when i came back i saw a tex msg on his phone saying.YES!BUT NEXT TIME SLOW DOWN,MORE PASSION LESS BANGING.THATS WHY U WERE SO TIRED.after i read it i asked him about it,he said that he and his friends was talking about how there partners like having intercourse.what do u think?
2007-01-10 03:41:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
3 months gone...you guy was fooling around on you. Dump the dude and find one that wont cheat.
2007-01-10 03:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by mjobrien10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds kind of weak to me. I don't want to come out judging that he cheated, but if any time he was going to cheat, when you left, it would be the perfect time. Loyalty is missing in this world, sadly enough. Distance yourself a little bit, when he calls, don't answer, then call a hour or so later. Make him think a little bit, don't let anyone walk over you or go behind you back, because your feelings are on the line, just as his are.
2007-01-10 03:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you left for 3 months, your boyfriend probably was not faithful to you.
I hate to say it but thats my honest opinion.
Guys cannot be faithful for 3 months without having some kind of sex, and not with their hand.
I think that you should question him incessently, but in the end if you feel it's right...you should leave him.. Who wants a guy that you can't trust if you go away again?
2007-01-10 03:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by GCTA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you hadn't ask him I'd have said they might have been talking about the two of you but you asked and it sounds like a lie. I'm one for giving someone the benefit of the doubt but I think he's friends were talking about them and him.
Sorry but I think you should start looking for a new boyfriend.
2007-01-10 03:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm, wow, you seriously need to check your man. That ain't cool. Is this the kind of convo him and his boys usually have or what? That doesn't sound like boys talkin to each other, but if you trust ur man, then you have nothing to worry about.
2007-01-10 03:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by Lil Sexy Biker Chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him!
i mean come on "talking bout each others partners"
no that should not even fly by you
dont be stupid
either break up with him,
or simply give him a taste of ur own medicine!
2007-01-10 03:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by Not Knowing What To Do 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not forget the txt for starters.... but remember that a relationship is based on trust.. if you don't trust him, there is no point in being with him
give it a couple of weeks look for signs.. you will see them if he is cheating... after that relax... enjoy the fun that you guys will have, because if your constantly worrying about him with other people and he is not.. your relationship will suffer!!!
2007-01-10 03:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what do u expect
u left for three years
u cant expect him to stay like that
a human being has needs
u would have done the same thing too
2007-01-10 03:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie. That sounds like your BF has been playing behind your back. Wake up!
2007-01-10 03:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by David G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yur stuid if you stay with him....it said thats y YOU were so tired...have a guy friend of yurs text you a similar thing and show himn and say " he just my friend and hes talking about other friends doing it" and see how he likes it....all in all dump that dude!
2007-01-10 03:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by ~Ohio State~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋