aNYONE KNOWINGH ABOUT DEBT, DIVORCE DISADLED CHILDRENS RIGHTS PLEASE CONTACT. mY EX PARTNER IS TRYING TO TAKE MY HOME FROME ME I HAVE A DISABLED DAUGHTER WHO REQUIRES A ROOF OVER HER HEAD I AM NOT GOING TO GIVE UP. I HAVE PAID EVERYTHING HE HAD NOTHING WHEN HE MET MEAND RAN AWAY WITH ANOTHER WOMAN. I GAVE A GOOD START. iS MY DAUGHTER ENTITLED TO ANYTHING I HAVE WORKED FOR, wHAT DO I DO? ANY GOOD IDEAS NO IDIOTS PLEASE SOMETIMES LIFE IS SERIOUS AND INVOLVES MORE VUNURABLE PEOPLE THAN OURSELVES. PLEASE GIVE YOUR SUGGESTIONS?
2007-01-10 03:49:40 · 11 answers · asked by linda s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am sure you wont be put out on the streets because of your daughter...you need to speak to a lawyer and get professional help.....I will be praying for you both.
2007-01-13 20:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about this, Linda. You must see a solicitor straight away. Hopefully since your ex contributed nothing, if he is entitled to anything it will be minimal. It may also depend on your daughter's age and the extent of her disability, which may mean that the court would refuse to grant an order for sale. If you owned your house before you met him, and it was bought with the intention that it would be a home for you and her, then that created a "trust" and that trust continues. Your lawyer will explain this better for you.
Just take a deep breath, Linda, and try not to panic. He's a lowlife trying it on, and he's probably hoping you'll be scared. Whether just upsetting and frightening you is all he wants to do, or whether he really is planning to extort money from you, you must just stick to your guns and refuse to give in whatever he says.
Go and see a solicitor as soon as you can get an appointment. It would be a matrimonial solicitor even though you weren't married.
Good luck, Linda, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.
2007-01-10 06:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Calm down firstly,is the house in joint names? Is he the father of your daughter?Can you afford the house on your own?
If the house isnt in joint names he has no claim what so ever.If he is the father he will have to pay maintenance,any judge in the world would let you stay in the house with your daughters needs,so dont worry there.Lastly,if you can afford the house,stay there and get an injunction against him from contacting you or coming anywhere near the house or yourselves.
The law is definatley on your side when it comes to a disabled child,get in touch with this company,childsupportsolutions.co.uk They are excellant and will help you as they did me when it came to advice about the CSA.Good luck,remember,what goes around comes around.
2007-01-11 01:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by freddy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as long as you can prove that he contribute nothing toward the house and bills and you daughter welfare then you shouldn't worry about it.
even if he entitled he won't get as much as you worry about. especially that he ran away with someone and just leave you like that. if this go to court then you'll see that there many good people around that will take your side but don't use yous daughter disabled situation to get their sympathy. you need to show them that you are an independent woman who entitled to your hard work on that house.
good luck...!
2007-01-10 07:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by daniiisme!!! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have children get in touch with a solicitor, any court will put the children 1st., they will not give your home away, and if you can prove that you have paid most of the bills then there's little chance of you ex getting his hands on your place. He would also be expected to pay maintains for any children, if he doesn't then that's even more ammunition for him not getting his hands on your money's./house. good luck
2007-01-12 05:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you can prove in court he put NOTHING toward the house or bills then you will be fine. But you will have to prove that. If he paid the bills and you paid the mortgage then he is still entitled to his share. It also really depends on how long you were married, what state, etc...
2007-01-10 04:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-30 13:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing you can do is seek legal advice,have you tried citizens advice bureau or any type of soliciter.
secondly i cannot for the life of me believe what a arsehole your ex is being trying to take your home away from you and your daughter,has the man no heart.i have a disabled relative so i despise idiots like your ex.
best of luck with your battle.
2007-01-10 04:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by upthelions 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to a lawyer.
2007-01-10 04:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by hotgramma 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you married there is mutual property adn he is entitled to half of the available equity in the home.
2007-01-10 03:56:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋