how can i increase my confidence?

Question

i am very shy and find difficult in communicating people

Answer 1

TALK WITH ANYBODY WITH CONFIDENCE.

Answer 2

that's a very common question,we all have,however the only thing i can suggest u is believe in urself. never let anyone demotivate u. if u talk and find people laughing just ignore it,i know its tough but u have to. becoz i firmly believe that untill and unless u start talking u won't know where u r going wrong and if anyone corrects ur mistakes always take it sportingly and try not to repeat it. one more thing whenever communicating never get conscious always try to make a comfort zone around u,like think about ur home where u r most comfortable and free. however all these tips r absolutely useless if u don't believe in urself. another very good tip is increase ur knowledge as much as possible,don't be unaware of anything. once u have materials in ur head to talk on any topic,believe me u will find urself confident. so the first thing u should do is promise urself not to say "I DON"T KNOW". try this out and i'll keep telling u other tips too. BEST OF LUCK!!

Answer 3

confidence is not something someone can tell you to have... its a hard thing to achieve.. im not very confident myself, to be honest, but start with a few small simply things like going out with friends more.. trying new clubs and pubs.. that way you will meet new people in new places, also try calling friends more... mobile phone have taken 1st spot on the communication side i feel people txt more than talk, when talking is the best thing ever... even if its just ringing a family member, do it, you will be surprised to find the more you talk the more you will have to say!!! and it will get easier every time!!!

Alternatively try a make over... change your hair style/color, get new clothes pamper yourself!! and the complements you get form friends and family will help you build confidence in yourself.

Answer 4

try this: reach at a height where things look pretty small.B careful and stand on the edge of the terace and shout loud.Do it for about 10min a day.
2 thing u can do it sing loud in front of people with whom u feel confortble.
both Work Wonders

Answer 5

Do volunteer work and try to find activities that will get you around people a lot. The more you talk to people, the easier it will be.

Answer 6

confidence can be raised by itself, do the things in which you feel comfortable, start meeting different peoples, don't care about what anybody is saying about you, start loving yourself, most of the times we are not able to recognise the hidden caliver inside us, so be positive always.

Answer 7

all what you have to do is trying to over come it and you will.. i used to be but I'm not any more....maybe because you think too much of what people think of you or of your opinion, well don't do that, just be your self don't thinks of any thing but what you want to say.... if some one tried to ask you some thing just answer it and keep reminding your self this." what's the worth is gonna happen, me is me, answer it and just don't mind to what they will think "
also always get dressed in things you feel comforted in, just be you .. I'm sure you are a good person
Good Luck