I've been having a no strings sex only kinda relationship with somebody now for 6 months things are great at moment, when we are together its all great sex, company. This is first person i've been with since splitting from ex 18 months ago, i'm more than happy with how things are but, friends are constantly knocking us, they dont believe i can be happy with this, or it can continue to make me happy in future. No we are not bf gf but neither of us sleep with other people, this suits us and makes us happy but, can/will it be able to last like this???
2007-01-10 04:02:12 · 11 answers · asked by mommyfairy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who makes up the rules about relationships besides yourself. No one else makes the rules for me. You can be happy with whatever you decide. I think that it is hard to be in a sex only relationship without eventually either party becoming more attached. It is human nature when you spend time with a person you eventually start caring for them. Do what makes you happy. If this is making you happy right now then leave it at that. Things always change between people. You will either get tired of this or the two of you will eventually become more.
2007-01-10 04:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by heaven o 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think we are built to permanently be in a sex-only relationship. Women certainly at some point need more than that. What interests me though is that you say you have great sex, great company, no other partners, so it sounds to me like you are dating. Not every relationship has to be 'going' somewhere or take a serious turn at first. I say if you're both happy enjoy it and if you want to stop your friends from labelling it them maybe you should also stop trying to label it yourself and just relax and see how it goes...
Good luck and enjoy whilst you can!
2007-01-10 04:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really because if you ended up falling in love with one of those sleep buddies than what are you going to do if that one buddy doesn't want something more, or it can be the other way around what do you do than.
That's my feelings towards that situation, but I could be wrong so people are very happy just by having a sex Buddie. So it all depends on you and what you really want out of it.
P.s. feel free to email me with more questions.
2007-01-10 04:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by jessicamarie_wilson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may take some time but one of you will soon want more. There's a reason why your having sex together you're just not being honest with each other. The only way it would be OK would be if you were both psychopaths with no feelings whatsoever for each other.
2007-01-10 04:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by simon m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so...
but hey u guys talk obviously?
find somethin u both like doin other than it
and i m sure things will get better
the fact that ur havin doubts shows u want more than just sex... and r doubtin the relationship
in any relationship communication is imp!
ask urself - DO u want it to last ? and if so, like this? or ru looking for more than just physicall attraction?
2007-01-10 04:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by YabbaJabba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you got a fck buddy then yes it can work out but 1 or the other might have deeper feelings and thats when things start to get complicated i hope it works for you
2007-01-10 04:10:02 · answer #6 · answered by robertboozychic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're happy and it suits you both then why worry what anyone else thinks.
2007-01-10 04:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should you ask yourself if there are differences between what u have with this guy compared to a "real" relationship
2007-01-10 04:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you havent realized that you truly like/care/love this person
2007-01-10 04:18:00 · answer #9 · answered by diesel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventually one of you will start to catch feelings for one another
2007-01-10 04:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋