My friend keeps calling me a s1ut. && I dont know why. He won't answer me at all. He got mad over me talking to another guy, but me && him don't go out. What's his deal?
2007-01-10 03:59:29 · 26 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's so funny, the double standard. You're damned if you do and damned if you don't. The guy obviously likes you but since you hooked up with someone else he's angry. And since you didn't pursue him yet pursued someone else you must be a slut. How many times I turned a guy down only to be called a slut. Strange.
2007-01-10 04:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Try To Ignore Them . They Are Probably Jealous, Cause You Are Better than Them. If He Is A Mature Male He Should See Right Through Them, And See You, For You!! Be Patient, Let Him Know That The Other Man Is Just A Friend, And If He Cares For You, He Will Except That!! I'm Sure He Talks To Other Girls, And Your Mature Enough To Think Nothing Of IT! Hang Tight Girl. Realationships Take Time!!!! Communication Is The Key To Success!
2007-01-10 12:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by Darryl H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im afraid that your friend likes you as more than a friend. and he is too immature to act in a civilized way, or to just tell you face to face. that's why he got mad whe he saw you talking to another guy. but i think he crossed the line by calling you a slut. it should tell you that your friend is possessive. imagine if you were his girlfriend! it would have been way worse. so confront him and tell him to cool his horses. he cant talk to you that way. tell him to tell you whats going on. and if he cant handle you talking to other guys, then he's going to have to make a choice between respecting you or stop being your friend.
by the way if you feel like you may like your friend that way, i suggest you quickly forget about him and talk to other guys.honestly he sounds like he would be a verbaly abuser boyfriend. good luck!
2007-01-10 12:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by ursNonlyUrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously likes you and cares about you and is just extremely jealous that some other guy talked to you...u need to tell your friend how you feel about him...whether you see him as just a friend or a potential for something else...if you tell him a friend he should get the point...and not be soo jealous and find someone else
2007-01-10 12:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's jealous ! he really likes you and when he found out you were talking to another guy he lost it...not the best way to get you to like him though...i know if a guy called me that he wouldn't be my friend anymore much less a bf
2007-01-10 12:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by just curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friend is not your friend. My friends don't insult me; my friends support me and encourage me and make me feel good about myself.
However the reason he is behaving that way is that he wants to be dating you but he's too chicken to ask you out, so all he can do is react negatively to you behaving the way that is true to you.
Avoid this guy like the plague; he's bad news.
FP
2007-01-10 12:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that he likes you and has a little bit of a jealous side! Have fun with it..ha ha!
2007-01-10 12:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by mascadine2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you and is jealous. regardless, he shouldnt call you that. Let him know you appreciate his friendship but you are hurt by his words. If he respects you and your opinion he will stop being so immature.
2007-01-10 12:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is jealous and either wants to be with you or is afraid to loose you as a friend.
2007-01-10 12:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealous maybe... Maybe he wants to go out with you.. Might want to tell him how you feel about him........ He didn't need to name call you!!!! Tell him you won't tolerate being treated that way..
2007-01-10 12:05:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋