when u like someone - ru supposed to tell them? even though it isnt love and urnt sure wat exactly it is :s?

Question

help! wat if they dnt like u back? does that matter?

Answer 1

if you don't tell em then u'll never know!! don't live life regretting things..... find out for sure .. if he likes u yeahhhhhhh!! if he doesn't then unlucky for him!
you go get him tiger!!

Answer 2

Being open and honest can sometimes be hard as there is the risk of rejection. If you like someone though isn't it better to tell them so that it is out in the open and then you will know how they feel about you too?

I don't think it has to be love and as long as you are honest from the start it could develop into more when you have spent time getting to know this person. If the idea of telling them freaks you out though I would go for spending more time with them if you can so you have more of an idea what you want from them first.

Good luck finding out what you want and telling this person as and when you are ready if that is what you decide.

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Answer 3

You don't "Have" to tell him anything. Sounds like you're afraid of being rejected though. You could try playing games & flirting with the guy, if he flirts back he might like you. Sounds like you're still in school, so randomly start a conversation in the hall with him. Go sit with him at lunch sometime. Just get to know the guy, then find out if you want to tell him you like him.

Answer 4

You don't "Have" to tell him anything. Sounds like you're afraid of being rejected though. You could try playing games & flirting with the guy, if he flirts back he might like you. Sounds like you're still in school, so randomly start a conversation in the hall with him. Go sit with him at lunch sometime. Just get to know the guy, then find out if you want to tell him you like him.

Answer 5

no it dosent matter ur probly to gud for them anyways so just move on and find someone who is there will b mr rite out there for u sum were u just have to keep looking and if ur not sure it is love and just a crush then tell them and then see what u feel and what that person says back but to me it sounds like a crush

good luck

Answer 6

Yes you need to let him know. If you don't, he may never know. And it's ok if it's not love. If the relationship is suppose to be, love will eventually grow. You should tell him even if you're not sure that he feels the same as you. Like I said, you never know till you try.

Answer 7

You have two choices hun...you can tell him and if he responds that's great, however be prepared to be rejected if he doesn't...that can be harder than never knowing.......good luck....i tried it with a mate i had known for 5 yrs...he rejected me and i was left heart broken...our friendships never been the same since and now he's emigrating in march......

Answer 8

Yes you should tell the person but not immediately. Give it a little while and see how things go. if you then tell the person that you like them and they don't like you at least you will know

Answer 9

just try and let your presence be known but dont push it it takes a long time dont look as if you are hindering them try the touchy stuff just nudge them ask them a question by getting their attention by touch but not to often or go in daft mode abit of clowning can help it worked for me

Answer 10

firstly, take a lil bit time and observe the one you like, you will know if he is interested in you or not. secondly, good timing is important. :) u know... and the last one, if you get rejective, don be silly, he is just one passager of your life, plenty of nice guys out there. there s one door closes, another door opens ;)

Answer 11

Honesty is always a good start, that way you find out if it's a mutual feeling and if not find a way to get around it.