Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

I have all these wedding bills......... $15,000 to pay off in 10 months.... and we were doing just fine until I just found out.
My fi owes $1,000 in unpaid parking tickets, which we are having a screaming fight about. Because he doesn't think it matters..... like they won't do anything if you don't pay them.
And I just found out my work goofed and didn't take out enough taxes and I owe $3,000!!!! I feel like crying!!
Anyone else freaken out?? I wish I didn't get out of bed.

AND DON'T COMMENT ON HOW MUCH MY WEDDING IS..... I AM FREAKEN TIRED OF PEOPLE TELLING ME (on here) YOU CAN HAVE A NICE WEDDING FOR $3,000!!! in NJ that wouldn't even cover the cost church and pictures!!!

2007-01-09 04:26:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-09 04:26:04 · 17 answers · asked by yazmin o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend that I professionally sing with. He is really nice and we are good friends. He lives 2 hrs. away and none of my other friends have ever met him. They all think he's my boyfriend and They won't listen to me when I tell them he's not. They are going to one of our shows and they are meeting him next month. I am afraid they will mess up our relationship. How do I make sure this doesn't happen?

2007-01-09 04:25:55 · 3 answers · asked by Uruk-Hai 2 in Friends

its not sometimes, but all the time

2007-01-09 04:25:54 · 5 answers · asked by california girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 04:25:45 · 17 answers · asked by Tanya 1 in Singles & Dating

him an email asking why?our last date was perfect just perfect.he called the next day and then nothing.he answered the email saying: do not hallucinate -in the sense don't think i won't call you !,i'll call you when i have a chance! such a cold message for such a hot last date! what is wrong with this idiot?

2007-01-09 04:24:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been in a relationship with her for about 3 years now, and she is a great girl, she has an awesome personality but I am just not physically attracted at all. I mean for the longest time ive told myself that I can just get over that part and move on but as much as I hate to admit it I dont want to be with her any longer because im not sexually attracted. I see women at the beach, at the malls, in public in general and they all look at me and I look back and I dont do anything, I feel tied down.

I hate to admit it but as shallow as it seems I just cant love her.

2007-01-09 04:24:45 · 4 answers · asked by Afro-Joe the American Hero! 2 in Singles & Dating

I need to stop myself from loving my ex. I think im obsessed to a certain extent. I still look up to him at admiration and feel proud of him. Although i know that he's not mine anymore. We're friends now, still hang out like friends. Which sucks. I trying to numb myself. But it hurts when u get back at home alone.

2007-01-09 04:24:18 · 22 answers · asked by Mimi P 1 in Singles & Dating

what has been the most memorable moment in your life???

2007-01-09 04:24:17 · 19 answers · asked by lalala 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is he acting like this?
Last week i told a guy friend of mine at work that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him since he's in a long distance relationship with another girl, as a matter of fact, she's in the Phillipines and he's here in the US. Before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad and hurt about us joking about it. I told him that i really wanted to do it since i like him, but he has a gf and that it wouldn't be wise if we did it. Anyway, i got angry with him since he didn't respond back to me after I texted him Happy New Year's and I ended up sending him another text calling him a "dog" and that i didn't want to have anything to do with him, then later i apologized via text. Then the next day , I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt hurt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals. He's ignoring me, no hello, excuse me, thank you, nada.

2007-01-09 04:24:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want my brothers to be groomsmen but my fiance doesnt......Do i have a say in this??? I have two brothers....one that i'm extremly close to and the other not so close to..i was in my brothers wedding that i'm not too close to...Help...and if he lets my brothers be in the wedding do i have to have his sister in the wedding?

2007-01-09 04:23:46 · 22 answers · asked by adzlovesu84 2 in Weddings

I'm a father to a wonderful 4 year old. My marriage is over and we're going through the divorce process. My question goes out to the experienced Single Moms and Dads out there. Should I just stay single for a while, or put myself out "in the market" and try to find women in the same situation (probably single moms) to start dating again and stuff... Which would probably get me in a new relationship quickly. I'm just wondering if it's better to let that go for a while and get it together, or if getting involved with someone new helps ease the pain... Any thoughts?

2007-01-09 04:23:40 · 14 answers · asked by Allinone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you were in to a girl and ya was talking and later you found out how old she was and she was 16 and you were 18 would you still talk to her or would not talk to her any more?

2007-01-09 04:23:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boy friend (well, now ex) killed a man over the weekend and now i keep having nightmares that I am riding down the road and someone shoots me because of what he did (a revenge type thing), and in another one they shoot my kids. How can I stop it?

2007-01-09 04:22:46 · 17 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Singles & Dating

please no jokes!

i need to know what a girl desires most in detail please

in detail if it follows these catagories

Sexual
Love
Friendship
Laughter

2007-01-09 04:22:42 · 41 answers · asked by JC MI 38 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 04:21:22 · 18 answers · asked by claire 1 in Singles & Dating

Maybe i want to do this cause it will make me feel better.Dont tell me that its wrong or whatever.I'm going to meet my ex this week its just going to be hi hello maybe.we usually chat a bit online.
How should i make him feel that i'm not a bad person.we broke up cause he thought im too bossy and like to take control how should i make him think that i have changed.I just dont want him to have a bad impression of me

2007-01-09 04:21:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend (well, now ex boyfriend) was arrested saturday night for killing a man. I know that means he is possibly never getting out, and even if he did, I do not want my kids around that kind of person. I was so in love with him. I mean, he was "the one." Now that I've lost him, I don't know what to do or how to move on. We have been looking for each other for 7 years, and now that we finally found each other, he has to do this selfish thing. it was selfish, because he promised me he would just let it go. How do I move on? Please don't judge me because of what he did...he lead me to believe he was better than that.

2007-01-09 04:20:22 · 20 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Singles & Dating

Below is an email this guy sent my friend:

"OK, eso es que quiero oir, muchacha

vamos a hacerlo manana en la tarde, despues de tu classe o

que vamos a hacer
tu me digas, porque yo, no lo se.

tengo tiempo manana a ir y hacer todo lo que necesito.

y, si tu me preguntas, es muy simpatico de ti, me duele en mi cuchanarras donde
mi novia se cinta y cuando me ir al bano, no es muy bonito. es como, cuando
estoy listo a hacer el pintaca de mastercidad no queria goncharnacerse y lo
pruebo asi

digame"

What does it translate to in English?

2007-01-09 04:20:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 04:19:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is your definition of LOVE. In your own words and thought and feelings not the dictionary. What is LOVE to you.

Have a LOVING 2007!

2007-01-09 04:19:57 · 10 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Singles & Dating

I tend to do this quite often, esp when he's not around, but will this have a long-term effect on my phone? could i damage it? thanks. i use it directly, without any wrapping or stuff like that. i am concerned esp with wet orgasms...issit enough to damage the phone?

2007-01-09 04:19:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex is an azhole, I wrote him a letter last week that I actually regret mailing after I did it but I could not undo it so anyway I wrote him a letter telling him how I wanted to be with him and I loved him and he probably received it yesterday so today when he got to work he logged into yahoo messenger and decided to change his avatar to pic wic this rather pretty girl kissing him on the cheek, I wasn't hurt b/c he is talking to someone b/c I pretty much figured that I am hurt b/c he deliberately tried to hurt me by putting it in my face like that mind you he has not called and said anything re: the letter and I really did not want him too b/c like I said I regret sending it b/c I really do not want to be with him I am just lonely we have far too many hurt feelings between the both of us to get past. My 1st instinct when seeing the pic was to IM him and say somethin but I did not know if I should, I feel so STUPID b/c he thinks I want him and he threw that in my face. WTF ? Should I?

2007-01-09 04:19:17 · 2 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 04:18:19 · 26 answers · asked by deceiverII 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if I don't give it to her 3/week, she gets antsy

2007-01-09 04:18:15 · 31 answers · asked by itsyouandmebb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to hear from heterosexual and same sex couples. It is sort of a project I'm working on. So, I'm looking for some really good really insightlyful answers.

2007-01-09 04:18:09 · 7 answers · asked by Debra J 3 in Singles & Dating

between a $!ut and a p!mp ??

2007-01-09 04:17:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is 18 to old for a 16 year old???

2007-01-09 04:17:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance this last weekend went out with his best friends. One of them kept pushing him to do it. His best friend of like 20 years went out and bought the stuff and I guess put it in his face and he did it. I had an idea it happened but didn't want to believe it until he told me the truth. I was so upset! I yelled at him calling him stupid threw things at him and even hit him a couple times. The next morning when we woke up he acted like nothing happened. I was still upset about the whole thing. I talked with him and he promises he will never do it again cause he now knows how upset I can be over this. He kept saying he loves me and he wont do it again. He just said lets let it go and move on. Should I forgive him? Should I trust him? What should I think about all this?

2007-01-09 04:17:28 · 13 answers · asked by BlahBlahBlah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-09 04:16:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating