Maybe i want to do this cause it will make me feel better.Dont tell me that its wrong or whatever.I'm going to meet my ex this week its just going to be hi hello maybe.we usually chat a bit online.
How should i make him feel that i'm not a bad person.we broke up cause he thought im too bossy and like to take control how should i make him think that i have changed.I just dont want him to have a bad impression of me
2007-01-09 04:21:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just make sure that you are relaxed when you see him and go with the flow.
2007-01-09 04:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is the type of person you are, than that is just you. If you want to change and not be so bossy and controlling, only you can fix that, and obvisously you haven't really changed that yet, but you can't make someone be with you, it's not going to work out. If you still want to be his friend then that's ok but don't try to make him feel bad just because he broke up with you, that's just life and you need to move on. I know it's easier said then done but what you are doing, in a way, that is controlling. Good luck
2007-01-09 04:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jazz21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't boss him around if he thinks your too bossy, and you will have to practice on how to stop yourself from telling him what to do. Just be cool and don't make any ripples in the pond. Tell him your sorry for being bossy and controlling (if you really were). You know what you did wrong. Since he broke up with you, I would say he has already gotten a bad impression. Make a good one by apologizing.
2007-01-09 04:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you changed? Or do you just want to "make him think" that you have?
I believe if you have changed, you won't have to do anything. He will notice it.
If you haven't, and you are only trying to give that impression, I guess the less you say the better, because otherwise your true personality will come through and he will still see you as controlling.
For starters, perhaps you could defer to him about where and when you meet. If you have the urge to be the one to make these decisions, don't, and he will see that you don't have to control everything. Also, when you are there, don't dominate or steer the conversation, and don't be the one to decide when the visit is "over." Just take it all in, and when he gives the cue that it's over, follow his lead.
2007-01-09 04:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people just aren't a good match. You have to accept that and move on. You cannot "make" him feel or realize anything and trying to convince him you've changed probably won't work (esp since it's unlikely that you've changed anything).
Find someone who is a better match for you and your personality...or if you agree that you are too bossy then work on that issue for yourself, because you think it will help you be a better person, not because someone else doesn't like it.
2007-01-09 04:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure u look reallyyy good when u see him, and then just talk to him with a lot of confidence and act as if u dun care too much that u guys broke up
2007-01-09 04:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you do to try to make him feel bad, he's only going to feel more justified in his decision. The best way to mess with his head is to leave him alone completely. That will show him that you have truly changed. Although it sounds like you really haven't.
2007-01-09 04:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your broken up why do you care what impression he has of you. You didn't when you had him and were too bossy! Move on, learn to be less controlling next time.
2007-01-09 04:26:10 · answer #8 · answered by sw312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any attempt to make him jealous will just reflect badly on you. The best thing to do is to be disinterested. Move on and let him move on as well. End of story.
2007-01-09 04:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by sothere! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
permit it bypass, she will know it and the worst punishment you would be able to offer her is making her sense like she now not exists. Get your self a warmer, smarter, nicer female and once you run into the two one in all them introduce your ex as your "buddy". it is going to piss her off extraordinarily.
2016-10-30 10:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋