Why is he acting like this?
Last week i told a guy friend of mine at work that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him since he's in a long distance relationship with another girl, as a matter of fact, she's in the Phillipines and he's here in the US. Before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad and hurt about us joking about it. I told him that i really wanted to do it since i like him, but he has a gf and that it wouldn't be wise if we did it. Anyway, i got angry with him since he didn't respond back to me after I texted him Happy New Year's and I ended up sending him another text calling him a "dog" and that i didn't want to have anything to do with him, then later i apologized via text. Then the next day , I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt hurt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals. He's ignoring me, no hello, excuse me, thank you, nada.
2007-01-09 04:24:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not acting.
2007-01-09 04:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by IMA SUCK@SS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its cause your being all crazy?
your sending him insane signals and messages and be really confusing..
you probably put the idea up he thought it was funny and joked around.. so you had to joke around to make it seem not serious.. and got upset that he thought it would be funny... then you got even more upset once you found out he had a gf.. and he couldn't go out with you.. and got upset because he probably didn't respond quick enough..
maybe he doesn't have time to text you back at a drop of a hat.. so calling him a dog probably didn't make him all that happy.. or pleased. i certinally would like getting called a dog by a girl i thought was my friend..
so yes.. i can see his point of ignoring you
2007-01-09 04:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta forget about gim. right away. he's not worth your time, trouble or pain. There's someone out there waiting to find you...how can you get together if you're pining after this callous person. Besides, the more you annoy him, the meaner he'll get. Let go of him and find a nice guy...one who can deal with things as an adult. Good luck!
2007-01-09 04:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Iseult 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd try to talk... He may be confuse just like you!! I don't think relationships last long when the person is not close to you!!
2007-01-09 04:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by Hi!! :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll... you're stocking him... he has a girlfriend .. stop throwing yourself at him.. obviously he doesn't like you like that... so leave him the hell alone...
thats why he's acting like that.. maybe he's hoping that if he dont answer maybe just maybe you'll get the hint and stop texting or calling
2007-01-09 04:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by JACKIE M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.. stop embarrassing yourself further and quit acting childish.. hes not into.
2007-01-09 04:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by Fashionista 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is too long to read...I'll just take the 2 points please.
2007-01-09 04:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
let it flow ... let it flow ... he will come around ... dont puch yourself on him ....
2007-01-09 04:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋