Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

Hey! I've been dating my gf for just over a month now. During the xmas holidays we went out together quite a few times. But at school we barely see each other. and we haven't gone out that much over the past week or two. We leave school in a few months and starting to go to collage. We will be going to different collages so we don't be seein each other as much!

What do you think i should do? Shouldi tell her what i think? I hope someone can help me clear things up. Thanks

2007-01-09 04:16:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend used to be a prostitute and now she comes back drunk everyday at about 6 am...

She told me she stopped "working" but constantly asks me for money. She says that she needs money because her mother is sick and needs clothing for her kids..but when I asked her to see any pictures of her kids she spat in my face and walked out the door...

Is this a good woman or is she taking me for a ride?

2007-01-09 04:16:39 · 29 answers · asked by fantapattaya 2 in Singles & Dating

...after spilling curry all over me last night and trying to eat it straight from me.
He is obviously too busy chasing round after the Chambermaids again (mid life crisis?)
What punishment shall I give to him when he returns?

2007-01-09 04:16:16 · 13 answers · asked by Georgie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

which do u perfer?

2007-01-09 04:16:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 04:14:48 · 19 answers · asked by B_REAL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

wit the law i love her thats my best friend but i dont want them to get im trouble do u guys think they will im in tennessee usa

2007-01-09 04:14:28 · 39 answers · asked by lilmika615 1 in Friends

i am considering using loads as a nutritional supplement thanks!

2007-01-09 04:14:25 · 5 answers · asked by olzap 1 in Singles & Dating

what colour bridesmaid dresses should i have at my wedding???

2007-01-09 04:14:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-09 04:13:33 · 11 answers · asked by josh.. 1 in Singles & Dating

She is estranged from her husband but, still wants to be close to his family. She worked hard cooking them a big dinner (about 8 of them). They didn't even help with the dishes, then all left to go on a daytrip the next day, meeting at her house but, she was not invited to go with them as she used to be. She would do this again. Why does she put up with this?

2007-01-09 04:13:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I dont know what this meANS, Im not wiccan or atheist or a fortune teller....if it has to do anything with religion...i just wanna let ya'll know that Im christian. When my mom came to me to tell me that he died...my heart dropped because in my dream, he died of a heart attack...and in real life he died of a heart attack!

what does this mena??? help!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-09 04:13:01 · 14 answers · asked by Mimi 1 in Friends

Me and my gal are together for quite a while now.
The problem is that she knows i want her terribly and would like to explore her body and want to touch her B**Bs for quite a while now. But she just dont respond to my needs.

I feel very sad tht even when she is aware of me wanting to touch her B**bs she just ignore it.

I am not a total physical guy but then even i have needs coz i find her just so hard to resist.

Now, what should i do?

I dont ever try to touch her B**bs coz i think i shld not do anything without her consent, but then as she is not allowing me by herself shall i try it myself without thinking bout her reaction OR shall i break-off the relationship coz i cant stand a sexy gal like her not allowin me to touch tht ! and its getting me in depression!!

Plz help up

2007-01-09 04:12:33 · 21 answers · asked by Noel 1 in Singles & Dating

I know things are different all over and I thought it would be interesting for everyone to share their different views and experiences

Wedding Gifts

In New Jersey most every bride registers and we have a bridal shower that we give gifts at. At weddings there are no registry gifts given its all in monetary form, cash or check in an envelope. Usually the amount given is enough to cover the cost of your plate plus any additional plates that are in your party. This is by guessing though, it isnt told to anyone how much your plate costs, alot of times people wait to see the spread and then fill out their checks so they can give the appropriate amount. The goal is to help the bride and groom recoup what they spent on the wedding.

How is it done in your area?

2007-01-09 04:12:24 · 8 answers · asked by kateqd30 6 in Weddings

my boyfriend just found outi am pregnant and he wants to take me to australia, should i go???

2007-01-09 04:11:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out he was calling a girl (last week) that he went out with when we broke up last year. She is no good, she was married when they date and is now seperated 2 kids and sleeps around alot. She tells him anything and he believes her why??
Im scared shes going to get him wrapped and he will not talk to me no more and he will lose me. We do love each other but he is so dumb and believes everything she says. what can i do? why can't he think for his self?

2007-01-09 04:10:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend lies to me he goes to clubs even tho he has promised me so many times he would not go anymore , well just recently if found out form one of his friends that he has been going , im reaally upset so i broke up with him, but he tells me he never cheated on me he just goes to hang out with friends, i just turned 18 2 months ago and he never asked me to go, what should i do.should i beleive him or not ?

2007-01-09 04:10:50 · 13 answers · asked by pretty girl 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok me and my boyfriend for 9 and 1/2 months have been fighting just little things.Over the weekend he went to his brothers out of town.That saturday he calls me and says he when i get back we need to talk about our fighting and if we should take a break.Then goes on saying he loves me to death and always will.And our relationship has always been great.He loves me with all his heart and shows it 90% of the time.But he has broken promises to me and he lives with me and my mom and refuses to get his own place.Then all weekend i've been trying to call his cell phone and he won't pick up all i get if voice mail then i leave a bunch of messages a telling him to call me back.

2007-01-09 04:10:34 · 17 answers · asked by just me 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a stay at home dad...I work from home and take care of the kids. My wife works out of town most of the time. Since I stopped working outside of the home, I don't seem to have much of a social outlet on a day-to-day basis and it gets pretty lonely. I have been very tempted to have an affair. Are there stay-at-home moms out there who feel the same way? How do I make some sort of social contact with mothers who are in the same position as me?

2007-01-09 04:09:58 · 19 answers · asked by Robert A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This all happened because he has unlawful detainer on his record. My mom died alittle over a yaer ago and my grandmother had in her will put that the townhouse she owned that my mother lived in would be hers when she died. So anyways my brother wouldn't pay any rent so he got evicted. Now the the problem is i live here in this apt. and he started moving in a guy friend and in the next week his new girlfriend. I told hm no when i came home from my trip and he said they would stay no matter what i had to say. My brother and his friend and girlfriend sleep all day and are up all night watching tv until six in the morning. His friend uses my computer and has brockenn it. He also doesn't have a job eats all my food. THe worst part besides keeping me up all night when i have to work the next morning is how no one picks up after themselves,its disgusting. {I don't want to make my bnrother homeless, but i reall am miserable living this way.)

2007-01-09 04:09:43 · 3 answers · asked by shannon 1 in Friends

Men you could only choose one to have with you which would you pick...Punani, Beer, or Sports channel?

2007-01-09 04:09:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last week i told a guy friend of mine at work that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him since he's in a long distance relationship with another girl, as a matter of fact, she's in the Phillipines and he's here in the US. Before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad and hurt about us joking about it. I told him that i really wanted to do it since i like him, but he has a gf and that it wouldn't be wise if we did it. Anyway, i got angry with him since he didn't respond back to me after I texted him Happy New Year's and I ended up sending him another text calling him a "dog" and that i didn't want to have anything to do with him, then later i apologized via text. Then the next day , I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt hurt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals. He's ignoring me, no hello, excuse me, thank you, nada.

2007-01-09 04:08:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well meeting my ex next week to talk. how should i act? i still care for him dearly even when he really hurt me, he broke up with me because he said he didn't feel the same anymore. i know i can't force him to like me but is their anyway i can make him feel a little regret as he seems all fine about the break up. He left me heartbroken and didn't even break up with me in person but on msn! he's a coward but i still have feelings for him

2007-01-09 04:08:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend lies to me he goes to clubs even tho he has promised me so many times he would not go anymore , well just recently if found out form one of his friends that he has been going , im reaally upset so i broke up with him, but he tells me he never cheated on me he just goes to hang out with friends, i just turned 18 2 months ago and he never asked me to go, what should i do.should i beleive him or not ?

2007-01-09 04:08:17 · 16 answers · asked by pretty girl 3 in Singles & Dating

I got married last friday to my boyfriend who is in the army. He just left on sunday to germany he is still in reception over there but I think he will be going to baumholder army base, does anyone know how long approximatley it will take for me to get into his orders so i can be with him. Also he is in infantry, i am sure thats not a good thing because of his probability of being deployed. but if he would not be deployed how long would it take?

2007-01-09 04:06:37 · 7 answers · asked by Lunar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 04:06:19 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Long story short...my roommate and I do not communicate anymore. We signe our lease in july, her boyfriend came to visit for a week (he's still here). He doesn't work and they eat my food. One of friends had housing issues so we agreed she could stay for a few weeks (shes still there) and now her boyfriend is always there to. The Friend's boyfriend has a dog, but he ahs to move back on campus so he has nowhere to put the dog. Recently I just came home from our winter break to find out that My official roommate and her boyfriend told our other friend that it was ok to have the dog at my apartment when previously we agreed that we would not have animals if they couldn't fit in a tank. I guess at first i wasn't really saying anything becasue I was late with my rent once and she paid it (havent paid her back for the late charges). I have tried to tell her how I feel but she got defensive and I hate to argue. What should I do.

2007-01-09 04:05:50 · 11 answers · asked by fedup* 1 in Friends

We hooked up night before and second morning she called me. She told me that she wanted to go to mall with me. Being a nice, honest, fun gentlemen that I am, I told her that I will go with her to the mall. I picked her up and drop her at the parking lot, I told her to go inside, I will join her after parking the car. Instead of joining her to boring mall session, I ran away. That chick didn't understood that aaibmiester don't want to see a chick again after a lay.

2007-01-09 04:05:38 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 04:04:13 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You love the person, but you still have thoughts of cheating. You don't want to break up but you don't know what to do because these are constant re-occuring thoughts that are coming through your head! You sometimes even dream of cheating too, what would you do, or as a matter of fact what should I do?

2007-01-09 04:04:12 · 9 answers · asked by Sexy Shay 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, here's the deal. There is this guy who basically toyed with my heart. He acted super romantic, told me all this B.S... then once he got me in bed he pretty much stopped talking to me. He would call like once in a blue moon but just enough so I would not feel like he just used me. Which I know he did because I got a myspace message from one of his "girltoys" telling me she got told the same story. Pretty harsh. But here I am totally in love still even though I think he's an ***. Why? Donno. lol. But I really wish he would turn into all the things he said he was. I guess I am in love with the idea of him, but not him. But I want the him I was presented. It hurts pretty bad being in love with a character that doesn't exist in a way. So could someone do a spell that either turns him into the person he presented to me, or find me the right person who is the character he presented... because whomever he acted to be, he was totally Mr. Right. ..and yes I know about the responsibility.

2007-01-09 04:04:04 · 9 answers · asked by kuni_and_aivy 2 in Singles & Dating