My girlfriend used to be a prostitute and now she comes back drunk everyday at about 6 am...
She told me she stopped "working" but constantly asks me for money. She says that she needs money because her mother is sick and needs clothing for her kids..but when I asked her to see any pictures of her kids she spat in my face and walked out the door...
Is this a good woman or is she taking me for a ride?
2007-01-09 04:16:39 · 29 answers · asked by fantapattaya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-09 04:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by stop it 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reguardless of what your girlfriend has done it is not wise to call her names and degrade her, whatever she has done in her past she needs to work on it. There is always room for improvement. If it bothers you that she is always asking you for money then tell her you would like if she found another job and the fact that she has not shown proof that she has kids, maybe she can't afford to have pictures made of her kids to show people. I don't agree that it was right for her to spit in your face, she could have given you a chance to talk to her, this is a catch 22 situation. Ask yourself if you want to help this girl and work on your relationship and stop degrading her with words or do you want to let her go because you don't think it will work out. Everyone has the potential to change but it is up to them to see it through. I am sure your intentions are good, it would be a good idea to talk to her and find out a little about her past and see if there are any problems she is having trouble facing, if she won't talk to you find out of she will talk to someone else, there is more to this that meets the eye.
2007-01-09 04:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that she has gone down the wrong path in life and she might be trying to good for herself..but she doesn't know exactly how to do it. But with her coming home drunk everyday that's not good, she might still be "working", i would find out everything you can about her and see exactly what she is doing.don't be a stalker type but ya know just kinda nose around a bit and if she is still doing what she was doing then i would tell her you are done..and if not then maybe give her a chance but tell her what's what ya know. but you never know what could be going on with her life, but from what you say i think maybe she is taking you for a ride. Especially asking you for money all the time, but go with your gut about what you should do about her.
2007-01-09 04:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kylie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all i dont think you should be calling your girlfirned a "whore", but i suggest just talking to her, really tell her what you feel, without being rude or yelling at her, i definetly would not want to listen or open up to my boyfriend if he was doing that. Also,ask her how she feels and see what she has to say,being understanding and listening are good virtues to have in a realationship, so i suggest swallowing your pride and takeing that step
jamie
2007-01-09 04:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are being used and mistreated and doing the same to her. THIS IS NOT A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP! If you use the above adjective(wh_ _ _) to describe the woman you are to cherish above all others it seems unlikely you will ever fully trust her. Each of you need to find another person to treat with respect and love, including treating yourselves with love and respect....in my opinion. Good luck to both of you!
2007-01-09 04:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your girl was trying to use you as a springboard to get out of "the life," but it didn't take. And now, until you stop putting up with it, she's going to bleed you dry. Her sob stories are most likely that -- just stories.
I'm sorry that you had such a bad experience with a woman. Don't get discouraged -- there are good ones out there.
2007-01-09 04:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you think she's a whore, why are you with her. It doesnt matter if she is or isnt cheating on you because you apparently don't trust her. For whatever reason it is that you dont trust her, go with it and leave her the hell alone. You'll both be miserable if you dont.
2007-01-09 04:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by Los 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely females don't love being called that haha. yet once you've apologized and from what you're saying you somewhat love her...i imagine you should attempt chatting with her...yet when she isn't the kind that likes speaking about that stuff and receives mad, it really is your decision. yet i imagine in case you both are unable to trust one yet another totally, i imagine you should search for suggestion from from her. do not accuse her of something. basically share your concerns and tell her you want her and that you want this to paintings and and also you purely favor to search for suggestion from from her. in case you purely favor her to forgive you and basically bypass the total speaking then get her plant existence haha.
2016-12-02 01:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by huehn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're dating a prostitute, and a ***** of a prostitute too. How about you just go to a bar and find a woman there.
2007-01-09 04:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by Joshua 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The best advice someone gave me a couple of years ago was this. If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, IT'S A DUCK! Good luck man, I've been there before.
2007-01-09 04:21:52 · answer #10 · answered by Andy 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
SHES USING YOU...GET YOUR HEAD OUT OF YOUR A SS AND OPEN YOUR EYES! first of all...she USED to be a prostitute....idk why u even went out with her in the first place
2007-01-09 04:20:18 · answer #11 · answered by Tina C 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋