You love the person, but you still have thoughts of cheating. You don't want to break up but you don't know what to do because these are constant re-occuring thoughts that are coming through your head! You sometimes even dream of cheating too, what would you do, or as a matter of fact what should I do?
2007-01-09 04:04:12 · 9 answers · asked by Sexy Shay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take some time to analyze what is causing this desire to cheat.Is it something you aren't getting in your current relationship?Think about what it is you feel is lacking in your current relationship and if its something that you can fix then try.
If however its something you feel isn't fixable then you may want to go speak with a counselor who may be able to help you find the root cause of this desire...
I Wish You Luck,
M.Gard
2007-01-09 04:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by Malia G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There you have it. you are a naughty kitty. the question is, do you dream of cheating with anyone in particular or just in general?
Because if you dream of cheating on your boyfriend with the same guy, you have a crush and/or also may not be completely happy in your relationship. Figure out what you want. Maybe you need a break. To be alone and single for a while, get your thoughts in order, or get everything, including a bit of partying single style, out of your system.
Good Luck
2007-01-09 04:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont cheat on him. You can cheat on him in your dreams. If it was me, i can't answer that because I never had boyfriends yet. If you want to have fun. Let him go and start have fun whatever you want.
2007-01-09 04:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you want to be dating other men than your boyfriend. Tell your boyfriend that you need some space to sort out your head and start dating other men.
2007-01-09 04:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..it happened to me too, but I've only been with him for 5 months. Do to know what I did? I tried to clear to myself what I felt for my bf. And I found out I truly loved him, and hurting him would me hurting me too, his sufferance would bring mine too. So I gave up. You know? If you need to know how it feels without him, you don't deserve to be with him.
2007-01-09 04:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by iunona_33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not love. You need to move on if you feel this way. It is not fair to the other person.
2007-01-09 04:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cheat on him then i really hope that you will tell him. cause whats worse then cheating is lieing about it.
2007-01-09 04:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
REFRAIN FROM SMOKING , ITS HURTS YOUR HEALTH.
2007-01-09 04:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by Lighter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get away
2007-01-09 04:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋