my boyfriend lies to me he goes to clubs even tho he has promised me so many times he would not go anymore , well just recently if found out form one of his friends that he has been going , im reaally upset so i broke up with him, but he tells me he never cheated on me he just goes to hang out with friends, i just turned 18 2 months ago and he never asked me to go, what should i do.should i beleive him or not ?
2007-01-09 04:10:50 · 13 answers · asked by pretty girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're 18, you have so much more living to do. You're young, and should be having fun. You shouldn't waste your time with someone that has no respect for you and lies to you. Dump him and go have fun. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and many of them are honest!
2007-01-09 04:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by chienduciel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend has given you some reason not to trust him and what he says and does since you have found out that he has been going to the club without you and your consent. Most guys tell lies to cover up the other lies and that is not good if they have a reputation of lying. This is a situation in which you have to figure out if you want to save the relationship and discuss what is going on, even get your boyfriend some help if you think he needs it, or if you want to break up with him and be sure to tell him you are doing it and why so he can't say you never talked to him. Whatever decision you make, be sure it is the one you want to make and the one you are comfortable with.
2007-01-09 04:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A liar is a liar is a liar. Sorry but I am biased. But if he finds you gullible to his lies, why should he stop?
On the other hand, everyone deserves a second chance.
You shouldn't expect him to spend all his free time with you. Both you and he should spend time with other friends. But, if the only place he can hang with his pals is in a club, then he needs new friends. On the other hand, why shouldn't he go clubbing with his friends occasionally?
It's hard to know.
If I were you, I'd have one of my male friends go to this club - not a mutual acquantaince - and check out how he's behaving there. If he's hustiling the ladies, drop him.
2007-01-09 04:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by txkathidy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are right. He shouldn't have been in clubs, because all lot of people go to clubs to meet other people. I think that you should talk to him and tell him how you felt when he lied straight to your face! But if you must trust what your heart says. If you think that he cheating on you, then continue on living your life without him. If he didn't cheat on you then try to get back together with him. But if he does it again (lie) then you should drop him.
2007-01-09 04:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if he lies plenty than how do you realize whilst he's telling you the actuality. it sort of appears like a trend with him. He has been with you for 6 years and maintains to mislead you. are you able to stay with a guy who lies to you each and every and all the time? you ought to respond to that question.
2016-10-06 21:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing. If he doesn't want you to go there is probably a reason.
He might be telling the truth and saying that he didn't cheat, but he could still be going out and dancing and feeling girls since it isn't technically cheating.
If you still want to be with him ask him to invite you, if he doesn't, then dump him again and find someone who won't lie to you.
2007-01-09 04:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by soccerpsychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theirs only one thing i cold say..... and that is if he's bipolar and is very stupid... he's probaly losing the best girl ever in his life and i could best put this as clubs are for idiots who like to have stupid fun and just hang with friends at times but also to get with others i think he should've tould you about what he did but....who knows what he really feels about you you never know he might have just went and hung with his friends and went home crying because he realizes what he did was wrong and all he wants to do is love you forever and treat you with the best he can give theirs only 1 thing to do at least try to work things out and seek him some help if he's like that because if you really love him you would at least try to like get him AA or somthing or help find better friends..........
2007-01-10 22:05:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were old enough to go to the club you should have gone with him
but your were to young and maybe that is you he never asked you
2007-01-09 04:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by cutecamille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmmm the club scene can be sleazy...........I wouldn't believe him because he shouldn't have to lie and also he should be taking you out and spending time with you instead of his boys!!!!
2007-01-09 04:15:42 · answer #9 · answered by Live.Laugh.Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get rid of him. If he will lie to you now about this stuff he will lie about anything to you
2007-01-09 04:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by Mac H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋