I found out he was calling a girl (last week) that he went out with when we broke up last year. She is no good, she was married when they date and is now seperated 2 kids and sleeps around alot. She tells him anything and he believes her why??
Im scared shes going to get him wrapped and he will not talk to me no more and he will lose me. We do love each other but he is so dumb and believes everything she says. what can i do? why can't he think for his self?
2007-01-09 04:10:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
being a pot smokin fool and guy u probably wouldnt expect me to anwser this but i had similar events happen to me. so here goes,
u probably need to just go hang out with some friends and just see what the single life is like, maybe you realize u dont need someone to make u complete. i read that in a book once so maybe it will help u. or u could take up a new hobby like 'ganja' or not....
2007-01-09 04:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Knox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, see, six years and still nothing good coming out of it. You think you know somone these days, and they always prove you wrong. What is this world coming to? Does anyone have a good sense of morals, and if so, why can't more people. I know i did not help you out any, but i do feel for you. Six years is a long time to be with someone and to have it all thrown down the shitter by some whore....tragic but common ending.
2007-01-09 12:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about what he is thinking. Worry about yourself! do you really want to be with someone that is easily "confused" by what another women tells him? I doubt that he believes everything she says. What really comes to mind is that he has decided that you are not the person he wants to be with 100% He wants to be able to pick and choose when he wants you and when he wants another girl. If he did love you he would not have any contact with this women at all. He is not in love with you, he might like you and enjoy spending time with you. But what you have is not love. move on and find someone who wants to be with only you.
2007-01-09 12:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For heaven's sake woman! If you've been dating on and off for six years then obviously neither of you are remotely interested in committing to each other, you get together out of habit rather than out of geniune love. Either get yourselves sorted and make up your minds to be together and STAY together - or just let him get on with it and make his own mistakes. Sorry to sound harsh, but if you let it carry on it'll just end up messing with your head far too much, and you DEFINITELY don't want that. Hope you sort it out.
2007-01-09 12:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by Spev 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me, you would be better off without him. He moved on with his life, when you split up and start dating around, why shouldn't you? It sounds like he needs to grow up and you need to let him. You sound more like his parent, thinking for him and worried about him. Let him go and find someone who cares about you and will love you. Why spend any more of you time dating someone off and on, when you could have someone special and treat you right.
2007-01-09 12:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by pysmith429 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is obviously something missing in the relationship. Maybe he is just seeking attention if after six years there is no security for him. If you feel so strong maybe you should confront him and give him an ultimatum and stick to your guns. Life is short.
2007-01-09 12:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by Andy N. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've wasted 6 years of your life on someone whose not going to commit to you because if he was then you would have been married with kids by now.
Cut your losses and move on. I tell it like it is.
2007-01-09 12:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u seriously need to get rid of him..if he's dumb enough to believe her then he's not smart enough to be with you. u deserve better. if ur going through this after six years the somethins not right. let him go...maybe he'll realize just how good he had it w u...that or u'll find someone 10X better than him
2007-01-09 12:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by XxForever&EverxX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u deserve a lot better than this...find someone else who will treat u with the way u want to be treated, let go of all the feelings for him, and a man as ignorant as that wud not last long with anyone...
2007-01-09 12:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by Tina C 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that nonsense and get your life together.
Why do some of you girls feel so comfortable being doormats.
Invest in a therapist.
Let her have him he sounds like a donkeys behind.
2007-01-09 12:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by P&B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋