my boyfriend lies to me he goes to clubs even tho he has promised me so many times he would not go anymore , well just recently if found out form one of his friends that he has been going , im reaally upset so i broke up with him, but he tells me he never cheated on me he just goes to hang out with friends, i just turned 18 2 months ago and he never asked me to go, what should i do.should i beleive him or not ?
2007-01-09 04:08:17 · 16 answers · asked by pretty girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are too young for this drama, walk away and let him have his clubin' if he is lying to you now, he will continue to lie to you. Period.
2007-01-09 04:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he should lie to you, but he could be telling the truth, just because he's going to the club dosen't mean he's cheating, however how old is he? he has to be older (sounds like) And just because your his girlfriend dosen't mean he cant hang out with friends, just like you should be, 18 is pretty young to put demands on anyone male or female unless there is a ring involved, and at your age i hope not,, i know you don't like to hear it but it is way to young. Go out and have fun somewhere with your friends.
2007-01-09 12:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump Him
You are better than that and you need to be treated like a queen you are too young to worry about that kind of stuff girl go have some fun!!!! Live your life and trust me Mr Right will come to you.
Once a Liar always a Liar
2007-01-09 12:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by candydrops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he shouldn't lie to you at all. Nut I think that he can go to the clubs. Think of it like this...Say that he likes the strip clubs...He goes to watch naked women and he comes back to you! If you tell him to go, it shows trust and he WILL come back to you. If you tell him that he can't go...it makes him want to more and then he lies so you won't get mad at him. He is a man! All in all though, you need to go with your gut feeling!
2007-01-09 12:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by baybedoll1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is committed to you. he should not go to clubs with out you. clubs are "meat markets" where everyone puts their goods on display....for one reason only! the fact that he is going, and lying about it, and NOT taking you, points to the fact that he either is cheating, wants to cheat, or will cheat, due to his lack of committment. even if you trusted him, and allowed him to go to clubs, why would he want to? its direspectful to you and your relationship, and love. if you need to give him another chance, give him an ultimatum. if he does it again, or lies about it, etc..its over. done. my lady has no problem letting me go to strip clubs, and she trusts me, but i don't go for the fact that I find it direspectful to her, even if she does not. plus, i don't want to put myself in a situation where i could cheat. so, if i go, she goes with me! and we both have fun! kid rock said "a man is only as faithful as his options". i don't want to test that theory.
2007-01-09 12:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by beechjb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with a relationship there has to be trust if there is none then forget him and go clubbing you will end up exchanging numbers with some lucky guy
2007-01-09 12:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he lies, why should you believe him in anything? Trust is a foundation. You might as well give up on liars.
2007-01-09 12:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by Uruk-Hai 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no dont believe him he is cheating guys go to clubs to watch girls shake there asses trust me i been to many clubs and all the guys have girls and they still hit on me all the time. he is not gonna go to the club and dance with guys thats gay. dont be blind realize it before its to late. or go to the clubs with your freinds and see how he likes it.
2007-01-09 12:15:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 18??!
2007-01-09 12:12:55 · answer #9 · answered by White Shooting Star of HK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously can't trust him and don't,so you need to decide if that's the kinda relationship that you want to be in.In my opinion without trust you have nothing.
2007-01-09 12:15:10 · answer #10 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He goes to the club to be w/ his friends..............that's a good one!!! He's probably drilling some x'd out, rave-ho, like you wouldnt believe.
Mr Happy
:o)
2007-01-09 12:12:49 · answer #11 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋