Ok me and my boyfriend for 9 and 1/2 months have been fighting just little things.Over the weekend he went to his brothers out of town.That saturday he calls me and says he when i get back we need to talk about our fighting and if we should take a break.Then goes on saying he loves me to death and always will.And our relationship has always been great.He loves me with all his heart and shows it 90% of the time.But he has broken promises to me and he lives with me and my mom and refuses to get his own place.Then all weekend i've been trying to call his cell phone and he won't pick up all i get if voice mail then i leave a bunch of messages a telling him to call me back.
2007-01-09 04:10:34 · 17 answers · asked by just me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why does he lives with you and your mom?
Does he live there for free? That would explain why he refuses to get his own place.
Also, his behaviour with you is unacceptable and not loving.
I believe he is using you.
Pack his belonging and through them in the street, then ring him and leave the message to get to pick them up.... I am sure it won't be long before he turns up!
You deserve better than him.
2007-01-09 04:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why Oh Why Oh Why!,are people having all these problems & it isn`t even the half way point of a New Year!After 91/2 months if you don`t know whether he will change I don`t think the rest of us will either? Take the advice given & maybe this time next year you will be reporting on how well all is?
2007-01-09 04:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound great - and it sounds like things have changed for the worse. Him telling you that he loves you does not excuse him from behaving badly - he isn't showing you the respect that he should either.
It's simple - ask him if he wants to carry on with the relationship and if he says he does and keeps letting you down then I'm afraid you'd be better dumping him!
2007-01-09 04:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by Boo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave you?? He NEEDS YOU! He is living with you and your mother and is too lazy to get his own place, you think he wants to leave being able to live in luxury?
You need to leave him, I know it hurts to know this, but he has to be using you, a real man would want to have his own place.
It seems to me, he tells you that you two need to talk about if you need to break up or not because he wants to keep you right where he has you.
He wants you to worry if there is another girl in his life, by not answering the phone and things, so you can see that you "need him", but in reality, he needs you!
Be strong and drop him there is someone way better out there for you. Good luck
2007-01-09 04:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by My Name 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop pesterin him, hell get in touch, after all he does live with u, mayb its just all 2 much n he needs a break afer all hes livin with ur mum aswell that has 2 b stressfull
giv him his space n go out with the girls
itl make u stronger n hell love it or hate it either way he wont b expectin it so hell *** runnin bck
2007-01-09 04:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by geordiesteph 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is his stuff in your house? or does he live out of a suitcase?.if you haven't heard from him take that as a maybe bordering on a definate that hes left you
2007-01-09 04:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it. Just stop calling him and see what happens.
2007-01-09 04:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Sean 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i completely agree with Pimprenelle...very well said
2007-01-09 05:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by jeneric803 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple try his bro house if that doesnt work
im single:)
2007-01-09 04:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by ray k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him and yourself some space. then simply ask yourself will i be happier without him.
2007-01-09 04:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by plinny i 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋