Me and my gal are together for quite a while now.
The problem is that she knows i want her terribly and would like to explore her body and want to touch her B**Bs for quite a while now. But she just dont respond to my needs.
I feel very sad tht even when she is aware of me wanting to touch her B**bs she just ignore it.
I am not a total physical guy but then even i have needs coz i find her just so hard to resist.
Now, what should i do?
I dont ever try to touch her B**bs coz i think i shld not do anything without her consent, but then as she is not allowing me by herself shall i try it myself without thinking bout her reaction OR shall i break-off the relationship coz i cant stand a sexy gal like her not allowin me to touch tht ! and its getting me in depression!!
Plz help up
2007-01-09 04:12:33 · 21 answers · asked by Noel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her how you feel..
If she still doesn't let you lust over her body then ask her if she is dike.. Then tell her azz to hit the road...........
2007-01-09 04:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should respect her enough to leave her be until she's ready...ask her why she's that way...could be religious beliefs or moral preferences...you won't know unless you ask. Communicate your need for intimacy. If you two have been dating for so long and that part of the relationship is simply not there, maybe it's time for you to move on. Don't focus on the fact that she's hot, and has a great set of b**bs...because being hot is just a perk of the relationship, and a fairly temporary one in the grand scheme of things.
2007-01-09 12:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, you are pressuring this woman and you shouldn't be. If you don't give her space and allow her to make her own decisions, then she will come to resent you (if she hasn't already).
How about getting to know her as a person before you put all the emphasis on your sexual relationship? A woman's needs are important too, and women need to feel secure enough to trust you before they can even consider taking care of your physical needs.
Women are not put on this earth to serve our libidos. I think you'll find that if you take the time to get to know this person, the relationship you'll have with her will be many times more rewarding than a clumsy back-seat fumble.
Earn her trust, my friend, and never -- ever -- abuse that trust.
2007-01-09 12:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice, masterbate and be patient, if she knows what it does to ya then 1 of two things going here.
1. she is waiting till she feels comfortable enough to get physical with you.
2. she is waiting till you give up on it and then will jump your bones.
hang in there guy, if you like her just be patient, some women need the right mood motivation, if it feels right and it's a nice romantic situation i'd say go slow and go for it, if she pulls away talk to her about it, some women havn't got the courage to tell you they want you to touch them but once you do they are generally receptive. just go easy so she doesn't feel threatened.
2007-01-09 12:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by nightmare_gorilla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love and respect your girlfriend, then respect her decision. It is her body after all. She may want to wait until she is married, very commendable. If it is making you depressed then you are in the wrong relationship, she would need a man that believed in the sanctity of marriage and one who would be prepared to wait and someone to respect her views.
2007-01-09 12:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all girls are different
1) some go phy in first meeting.
2) some take some time.
3) some never allow.
so you have to find out her nature. And plz don't hurt anyone feelings. Be natural with other person.
2007-01-09 13:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by Sandeep G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey like cummon... u really wanna brk up jus cuz u cant feel her????? like how mean is that... jus think of all d otr ways in which she makes u happy... dont u luv this gal?? dont u respect her??? start with a sexy convo on d phone... see if it gets her all turned on... but dont put pressure... jus let her know dat u r feelin a bit naughty n all... tell her how much u'd luv her to feel ur bare chest... give her ur bod... she mite jus b insecure... make her feel more confident... i guess its cuz shes too self conscious..
2007-01-13 11:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing as how you don't respect her body and her refusal to allow you to touch her, you should break it off with her. Allow your girlfriend the chance to meet someone who will treat her with respect.
2007-01-09 12:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG ...first of all...if u care about her and love her, U SHUDNT BE AN IDIOT AND DUMP HER...have some human decency and just be patient...at least u know shes not easy and doesnt cheat on u
2007-01-09 12:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by Tina C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am coining out a phrase like 'boobomania' for you. And you tell her about your mania and get ready for either bouquet or brickbat.
2007-01-09 13:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by leonardo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just not ready! She needs to get over the "trust issues" first!!
Start looking at/hitting on other girls in front of her!! She'll get the picture hopefully...............
Mr Happy
:o)
2007-01-09 12:18:41 · answer #11 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋