Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

My husband and I have been married for a year, we've been together for 6yrs. Its been rocky from the begining. He was separated when we met, the decided to try to work things out with his first wife. meanwhile he was still seeing me. i got pregnant and we had a son. he accused me of cheating and that the baby wasn't his, then when i said i'd had enough he wanted to be with me. the baby was his. and he begged for my forgiveness. he's used to put up personal adds and talk to women. as far as i know he's not doing those things anymore. we used to fight all the time, now we bicker all the time. i'm not happy. i don't know if its just me or if it's "us" should i try marriage counseling. or just walk away. I"m so torn. I love him, but I'm not sure that i"m in love anymore. i'm tired of hurting and wondering and being scared about what to do. i don't want to hurt him, or my kids, but i don't know what to do. any adice would be greatly appreciated. thanks!

2007-01-09 03:40:22 · 20 answers · asked by cinnamonngrl99 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 03:40:16 · 21 answers · asked by BUM 2 in Singles & Dating

That you are only as Old as the woman you are feeling......?

2007-01-09 03:40:05 · 14 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

I used to be friends with this one guy who i also used to lie...then i think he found out i liked him and all of sudden we started less talking until he started totally ignoring me...and the turth is i was so hurt i decided to ignore him back..and at the beginning i enjoyed ignoring him...and im also being mean to him because the thing is now these days he is talking to me a lot and im freaked out because the turth is that if i talk to him ill mess things up more..and all i want is for him to understand how much he hurt me and i just want to be friends

2007-01-09 03:39:47 · 26 answers · asked by SOPHIE p 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend got kicked out of his house, and he has no where to go. I still live with my parents. What can I do to help him? He hardly has any money...he works but it's all been put into his car so that he can fix it to get to work in the first place. I want to talk to my parents about letting him stay here at least until he figures something out but we haven't been dating that long and I don't know how to bring it up. I really care about him, hes like my best friend and I don't want anything bad to happen to him. I just don't know what I can do to help. I offered to move in with him and split rent so that he could afford an apartment but he said he didn't want to make it hard on me either. Although watching him struggle is hard enough. What can I do? Any suggestions?

2007-01-09 03:39:17 · 9 answers · asked by imperfectsimplicity 1 in Singles & Dating

look at my question in my profile from today, but it all ahs to do with the same women and im really tense and agrivated and frustrated and today i find out that my job is no more again, i feel like giving up all together! if it wasnt for my kids i might of....

So if anyone wants to chat with me and hear my long heart felt story of betrayal IM fretnoise21

2007-01-09 03:39:13 · 6 answers · asked by fretnoise21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I was at the airpot on way home. I was chilling at the terminal and I saw this dude was trying to make an eye contact with this hot chick. Finally after 10 minutes of confusion, he had a nerve to go and talk to that chick. Deep down inside I was laughing but at the same time I was feeling sorry for dude. He carried on some decent converstaion but his game wasn't good enough to seal the deal with that chick.He wasted 45 minutes behind that chick and his converstaion ended up shaking hands with that chick. I got good laugh out of it, he should have went to airport bar and get some drinks. Why do guys approach chicks when he knows he won't be able to get a lay?

2007-01-09 03:38:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 03:38:14 · 15 answers · asked by dev d 1 in Singles & Dating

do you initiate going down on him or wait for him to ask for it?

2007-01-09 03:38:02 · 27 answers · asked by sd_andrea86 2 in Singles & Dating

I didn't want to fall in love with you
one too many reasons to
keep you in arms length distance
tried my hardest
to resist and assist the doubts I had about this
but when I felt the passion in your lips
press against my soul and kiss
the iceburg tips
bliss
bliss
bliss
I tried I tried
I lied to myself
and cried tears of happiness inside
knowing I love the fact that it was a lie
and inside I knew I couldn't hide
so I succumbed outside
and cried inside as you let those three magic words fly
from your lips
placing me in a state of shock oh my
he knows the secret I have inside
I could no longer hide
now it feels pointless
because you're leaving and taking my heart hostage
unrestrained, I'm comletely in love
I'm no longer going to feel whole
with this hole inside of me where my heart used to be
if you leave me
I'm trying to be supportive, I am
I want nothing but the best for you and that goes without saying
I will always love you
but without you, I don't know what I am to do
I forever gave my heart to you
do I follow my heart
because my heart is with you
not trying to overbear or suffocate you
I'm so confused about what to do
My heart is leaving
and it's leaving with you

2007-01-09 03:37:38 · 3 answers · asked by shay 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been going out for only like a few days but i really want to do something cute for him!

2007-01-09 03:36:45 · 12 answers · asked by tiNkErBeLL 2 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy that works in a night club he no,s my mum.And my mum no,s his dad there friends.Everytime i go in the club he lets me in free and gives me free drinks he also always says hi.But when his dad and my mum said to him one day do u fancy melissa ( me)he went bright red and said stop it dad.i since went up 2 him and asked him out and asked if he liked me because every one says he is shy. when i asked him if he likes me he gos bright red or when i talk to him.he saidyes but never text me back to arrange to go out .he then text me one day out of the blue saying whos this and that he didnt no whos nomber it was because he put his sim in a new phone then he phone
d me and we chated i didnt
go in to his work,s again for ages and then last time i went instext i could see him looking at me and when i turn around to look at him he looks away.I text him thinks like happy xmas and he text me back but if i text him thinkgs like do u want to go out or how r u sexy he will not text bak

2007-01-09 03:34:20 · 10 answers · asked by melissababe000 1 in Singles & Dating

who is it with? what is the setting?

2007-01-09 03:33:54 · 8 answers · asked by sd_andrea86 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-09 03:33:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married to a good man for almost 4 years. He is a fair husband, lacking in the bedroom only. 15 years ago I was also married to a good man. We split up because he wanted to live 2000 miles away from my family-at 20 I wasn't ready to do that. Our sex life was awesome. I have dreamed about it for 15 years. My dilemma is this-my ex-husband is back in the picture. I still love him but don't want to hurt my current husband-who has done nothing but suffer from incureable ED. Sex isn't everything until you're not getting any. What should I do?

2007-01-09 03:33:10 · 29 answers · asked by cadjsm 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you have dreams about being romantically intersted in someone you know?Twice in the past 6 months I've had a dream about Leslie this woman we know.I've known Leslie since way before I met my wife and I always secretly wanted her but she always had a bf and now her and I are both married.Before I get too far off on another subject , how would your spouse act if you told them about dreams about other people in your life?

2007-01-09 03:32:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 03:32:18 · 16 answers · asked by vicky m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok there's this guy at the video store and when I was looking at the movies he looked like he wanted to talk to me. But as I was leaving the video store he started flirting with me. He was looking at me with goo-goo eyes and asking me how I was and stuff like that. I like him too but I hardly know him and he hardly knows me. What do u think I should do?

2007-01-09 03:31:42 · 17 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

My best friend of 21 years got convicted of murder from hanging with the wrong crowd at the wrong time. She is in jail and wants me to call her, but I dont want to im very upset, What should I do?

2007-01-09 03:30:45 · 6 answers · asked by Still Standing 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 33 and my husband is 42. We have a group of friends that we've been freinds forever with, but in the last few years have seriously outgrown them. They are all bunch of pot heads and we are over it. I feel guilty every time they invite us to do something (always at someone's house, so they can hang out and smoke weed all night) and we have to keep coming up with new ways to say "no thanks". we wouldn't mind so much if they wanted to go out and do something, but none of them have any money, since they spend it all on weed. I'm trying hard not to judge them; I really just wish they would grow up and get their respective heads out of their respective a$$es. Anybody ever dealt with this kind of thing, and if so, how did you handle it? Also, any ideas on where to meet new friends as an adult? We have about 3 freinds that we still hang out with, but we don't have kids and we're still kinda young to be such homebodies, ya know?

2007-01-09 03:30:42 · 5 answers · asked by divinationjones 3 in Friends

does anyone know of any way to wish and have it actually come true?

Have you ever made a wish and watched it come true? if so id like to know what you did.

2007-01-09 03:30:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

made up ... and then one day we want to get pregnant so i want to my doc to be put on so meds so i cd get pregnant and then a month later i got pregnant we were so happy when we got pregnant... then at my 11 weeek he told me to get out of his house where i was living at the time and he told me that he did not want anything to ever do with me again i think it bec of my anger problems so he told me to go get help well im getting help and he still does not want to tk to me why is this i love this man i dont think i will ever date again in my life in less it with him we were going to get married and everything ... i love him still he change his phone number on me so i can call him... but i still can email him in less he change it but for now i can still write to him.... i dont know if he is seeing someone or not but i know he love me i know that it just he did like me fighting with him all the time and now i have goten help and he still does not want to tk to me what do i do ????

2007-01-09 03:30:06 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i work out regular and take care of myself, but do you get tired of getting compiments on your body sometimes? or is it a boost? i kinda get tired of it sometimes, and i also get tired of guys checking me out, thats creepy. i know most arent gay but some you never know lol

2007-01-09 03:30:00 · 6 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

moved to Canada(his home country, where we had planned to get married) from UK (my home).
It came completely out of the blue when he called it off. We were one of the happiest couple's I have ever known. He gave his reason as 'it runs in the family, when things are going too well I get rid of them before it hurts me'!!
I couldnt honestly believe it. He told me how in love he was with me, and if it wouldnt work with me, it would never work with anyone. I just sat in complete shock. Since then even getting out of bed is a struggle.
He calls me a lot. It kills me, as we laugh and talk and cry because we're not together. I miss him, not just as my fiancee but as as me best and closest friend in the world.
Since we broke up, I moved back home, but have very little friends , and no one close to me. I have nobody to talk to, or who understands. I am so lonely, i pray to God he will come back every day.
I cant believe im still this broken after 4 months. How do be happy again? x

2007-01-09 03:29:42 · 5 answers · asked by Sophie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

did they ever do anything special for you??? any interesting stories plzz tell me

2007-01-09 03:29:01 · 13 answers · asked by confused 1 in Friends

2007-01-09 03:28:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ill be walking down the hallway and these guys will whistle at me and stuff like that and it gets on my nerves. why do they do it? its so stupid what should i do? i go to south central and its the worse school ever. ppl here are so dumb. newlondon schools are so much better than here. HELP ME PLEASE!!!!

2007-01-09 03:27:51 · 2 answers · asked by britt- britt 1 in Singles & Dating

any websites where to get help?

2007-01-09 03:27:27 · 15 answers · asked by bender 3 in Weddings

2007-01-09 03:26:57 · 16 answers · asked by ylandso7 1 in Singles & Dating

i cant stand bein away from my gf when she leaves i want to see her far away we live 20mi apart and its hard is this love or obsession

2007-01-09 03:26:44 · 9 answers · asked by headtomm 1 in Marriage & Divorce