My best friend of 21 years got convicted of murder from hanging with the wrong crowd at the wrong time. She is in jail and wants me to call her, but I dont want to im very upset, What should I do?
2007-01-09 03:30:45 · 6 answers · asked by Still Standing 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start off by writing her a letter. This may make it easier to communicate your anger without getting carried away the way you can on the phone. Write her and let her know that you want to call her but don't feel comfortable doing that just yet so you are writing her. Writing allows you to express yourself much easier because you can think about what you wnat to say first. Be blessed and I'm so sorry for your friend.
2007-01-09 03:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by candyred1999 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she is truly your friend and you care about her theni think you should give her a call just to see how she is doing i mean i can see your upset but she really needs a friend right now but not for bail money lol. i think she got enough trouble for hanging out with the wrong crowd she jsut needs someone to really talk to. you should deff tell her that you are upset over this and it will not go away easily but dont blame her for everything =]
2007-01-09 11:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by hippiegurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is your friend of 21 years, when you feel better, you should call her and see what she wants and tell her that you won't forget all the time you spent together but after that, live your life and be good.
2007-01-09 11:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her. This is the time that she needs ur support the most. You should go and visit also. People sometimes get suicidle in jail. You should really help. How can you call her when she is in jail anyways? Doesn't she hav eto call you?
2007-01-09 11:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by shashana2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well depending on what she did, i mean if she was my BESTfriend then i would call her, but if you are mad or something, just wait a little while until you cool down, then give her a call. I am pretty sure she needs her best friend to talk to, now that she has nobody.
2007-01-09 11:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by PrinCipeSSa ItaLiAnA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call her when your ready, where are the friends she was hanging out with when she commited murder?? i think you should call her but when you feel ready to
2007-01-09 11:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋