Do you have dreams about being romantically intersted in someone you know?Twice in the past 6 months I've had a dream about Leslie this woman we know.I've known Leslie since way before I met my wife and I always secretly wanted her but she always had a bf and now her and I are both married.Before I get too far off on another subject , how would your spouse act if you told them about dreams about other people in your life?
2007-01-09 03:32:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband has told me about naughty dreams he has had. But they were face-less people so I don't care if has those kids of dreams. He's never told me about dreams with a certain someone. i probably wouldn't care because a dream is just a dream. If I told my husband I had naughty dreams he would say "COOL" "Can I watch?" So maybe you can tell your wife about your dream but say the person didn't have a face or it was a nobody. If she gets mad at that then you probably shouldn't tell her who it was.
2007-01-09 03:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by cranky_gut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in the case of dreams, most people can't control them, and so I think that it's something that doesn't always need to be shared with your spouse; it would probably cause more harm than good. Dreams are so random and can be about anyone, even something romantic with the ex you never wanted to think about again! Twice in the past six months is not excessive, I wouldn't say. Some things are just better left alone. Focus on your wife and letting her know how much you love and care for her. Every time you get thoughts about the other woman, take that energy and re-focus it onto your wife... It will make you feel closer to her, and she will love it too. : )
2007-01-09 11:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband told me once of a dream he had with another man - but in the dream he joined in the activities.
2007-01-09 11:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by Confussedhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save you wife the worry and don't tell her. Also, you are cheating in your heart, but I think you already know that.
Just ebcause the woman you like and want to be with is already involved, doesn't mean you get to marry someone else as a second choice and still have feelings for this woman.
If your wife is not number 1 in your heart, you should tell her so she can decide if she wants to live that way.
2007-01-09 11:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by lookinforanswers 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should keep it to yourself, its only a dream....right. If I told my significant other that I was having dreams about someone else his feelings would get hurt a little.
2007-01-09 11:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by Tab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A dream is a dream, and dreams don't mean much. However to spare a fight or the insinuation that you are cheating or going to cheat, keep your dreams to yourself.
2007-01-09 11:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive actually had this happen a few months ago and it was about my husbands friend (I know) But when I told him he flipped out and told me that he couldnt beleive that I had a thing for his friend...the funny thing is I never knew that I did!
2007-01-09 11:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by Pretty Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop yuo dam dreamming abd goi to bed wiht your wife, lessie isn't wha tyou think,.
2007-01-09 11:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say not favorably but that may depend on how secure your wife is.
2007-01-09 11:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I didn't know souse could have a reaction......except maybe to your digestive system--yikes!
2007-01-09 11:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋