do you initiate going down on him or wait for him to ask for it?
2007-01-09 03:38:02 · 27 answers · asked by sd_andrea86 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I initiate - on birthdays and anniversaries.
2007-01-09 03:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by Militant Agnostic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can ask him if he wants you to go down on him in casual conversation but don't ask him before you start to have sex its a turn off. If you want to go down on him then do it and don't ask any questions he won't complain. He's probably been waiting on you to go down on him anyway. So just take it if you want it and if your not comfortable taking it then ask him in casusal conversation. Good Luck and Hopefully Good Sucking lol j/k.
2007-01-09 11:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always initiate.
2007-01-09 11:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With me it's kind of a "go with the flow" thing. Sometimes I just have an overwhelming urge to be a sl-ut puppy and suck dik where ever and whenever. I've never had a refusal, a little hesitation,or reluctance . . . until my hot mouth wrapped around him.
2007-01-09 11:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him. I don't initiate anything.
2007-01-09 11:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
initiate it. they think that's so much hotter.
he shouldn't just be asking for it though. if he initiates getting it on, then that's one thing, but if he's just asking for it and you're never getting any in return, that's not fair.
i don't know if that's the case or not but just make sure you play fair! :)
2007-01-09 11:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by john_deeregirl07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your relationship, most guys would be just fine with you initiating the move. others maybe not so much. but take the lead and keep his ques in check
2007-01-09 11:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by Gage's Mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initiate since you want to- if he's one of those rare cases that doesn't care for it, or doesn't feel it's time yet, he'll let ya know.
2007-01-09 11:41:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a guy's perspective, I don't mind when she initiates it. I would be her way of letting me know she's horny
2007-01-09 11:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally get extremely turned off when my guy asks. Usually things just flow and it happens.
2007-01-09 11:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by latenightdrives 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋