My boyfriend got kicked out of his house, and he has no where to go. I still live with my parents. What can I do to help him? He hardly has any money...he works but it's all been put into his car so that he can fix it to get to work in the first place. I want to talk to my parents about letting him stay here at least until he figures something out but we haven't been dating that long and I don't know how to bring it up. I really care about him, hes like my best friend and I don't want anything bad to happen to him. I just don't know what I can do to help. I offered to move in with him and split rent so that he could afford an apartment but he said he didn't want to make it hard on me either. Although watching him struggle is hard enough. What can I do? Any suggestions?
2007-01-09 03:39:17 · 9 answers · asked by imperfectsimplicity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do not want to hear this, but if it were me...I'd tell him "See ya'."
I think your b/f has issues with responsibility and you need to rethink staying with a man like this.
Noway should you ask your parents to take him in, you just started dating.
Let him start being a man and get out on his own.
2007-01-09 03:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by Taffina_Girl 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A age would of have been nice..30 year olds live with there parents these days. If he is a minor, I am sure he has other family he can turn to... If not then he could just get his own place and start a new life w/o the parents telling him what to do like a child.
2007-01-09 03:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by ksk_05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, i'm guessing that your probably over 18. So talk to your parents. See if there's extra room. If your parents say no than you should try finding some homeless shelter, or motels until you'll find him a place. Moving in together might take some time so you should look for other options.
Good luck!
2007-01-09 03:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by shay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sad story but so old.
The real question is why he got put out in the first place?
Do you really think he will rise up out of the funk to become successful. Throwing money at a junker car, that is wise!
Move in with him, split the rent, dream on.
Ask to look at his check book and finances and bills.
Aghhh just move on until he proves himself.
This story usually ends with the girl has a baby all the money is gone credit cards bills up the yang yang and she has to move back with mom and dad.
And your story is different "you still luv him"
Give us a break!!!
2007-01-09 03:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa put the brakes on! The first thing your parents will ask is "why did he get kicked out of the house" Apparently he was up to no good, doing something he shouldn't have been doing for someone to kick his out on the street! Think about what you're saying here, kicked out, no money, blah blah blah...I think it's time you found a more responsible boyfriend dear. It sounds to me like this one could drag you down with him
2007-01-09 03:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by perkadittle 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Let him find his way. It will make him stronger and appreciative of what he accomplishes...you around him is extra baggage to deal with and he may want to go elsewhere for a time to see where the jobs are numerous and his skills can be increased or utilized. The saying goes...if it is meant to be let it go it will come back to you...
2007-01-09 03:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by Patches6 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how old you both are and how long you have been together!!! Just ask you mom or dad whichever you are closet to. If they say no then you just have to move on from there!!
Good luck!!!
2007-01-09 03:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No......do not move in with him!!!! Let him fall on his face. That's sometimes the only way young people (or anybody) learns responsibility. That's how I learned.
2007-01-09 03:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmm he should try to find a room mate.
A friend or family
Maybe you have a family member that needs out too.
2007-01-09 03:43:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋