Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

2007-01-09 03:25:46 · 21 answers · asked by bender 3 in Singles & Dating

My kids and I moved and hour and 15 minutes to live with my ex boyfriend in June and at the end of July he told me that he wanted to go back to his 300lb ex wife. She and I became friends over the years and she called me a friend and family and then went behind my back because she got jealous I moved in with him. My kids and my life were destroyed for a long time and I am still having trouble getting back up on my feet. Do you think God will pay them back for betraying me?

2007-01-09 03:25:11 · 38 answers · asked by thewhalehunter12 2 in Singles & Dating

only to have in deleted? doesnt that piss you off?

2007-01-09 03:24:29 · 4 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

guess i'm just wondering if the person who does the dumping still thinks about thier ex, do they finding breaking up just as hard or can they just move on like nothing ever happened. Has anyone ever regreted it because they realised that person wasn't as bad as you made them out to be.

2007-01-09 03:24:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lately i've been haveing problems getting my boyfriend to open up to me and share his feeelings, i want to be able to reach to him on a better level, advice?

2007-01-09 03:24:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 03:23:49 · 31 answers · asked by 12345 1 in Family

if u are 14-16 years of age.
and could possible make u mad and angry.

2007-01-09 03:23:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

An essential part of our family,
an angel sent from up above.
Allee, you are our little miracle,
made from Mommy and Daddy's Love.

You have Mommy’s smile,
and you have Mommy’s nose.
You have your Daddy’s eyes,
and you have his toes!

You are a picture of the both of us,
a perfect mixture anyone can see.
You are a wonderful baby Allee Claire,
As beautiful as can be!

A year has come and gone,
so many memories in store.
We can’t wait for tomorrow,
when we can make many more.

Your smile has a way with us,
to make our blue days bright!
Recalling what we live for,
when things just don’t go right.

You are our little girl Allee,
no one will ever replace.
Remember we are always here for you,
when life’s too hard to face.

From your open mouthed kisses,
to your tiny little hugs.
You make us feel so lucky
with all your baby love.

We love you always Allee,
beyond all the rest.
We hope you have a great 1st birthday,
one that’s the very best!

2007-01-09 03:23:23 · 16 answers · asked by "ωнαтєνѕ!" 3 in Family

I am going out with this incredible guy but somehow I keep on dreaming about my ex, I don't know why. I don't think about him anymore or like him and I have called my boyfriend three times by the name of my ex, it just comes out of me mouth. When that happens I just tell him I have a friend name like that, he doesn't know that's my ex's name.

2007-01-09 03:22:27 · 16 answers · asked by ♥ Can you help me? 3 in Singles & Dating

homeless.But I feel guilty quite often.I mean she forgave me a long time ago but I still feel gulity.She honestly tried to keep things going for me in my life even when she was'nt mentally well, I mean we were kicked out but she found us a place to stay for a while and kept my educatio going for me.Am I cursed by god now for doing such a terrible thing?I know it was a few years ago and she talks to me and it was sorted out but I wonder to myself how I could have done such a terrible thing..What do I do now?Do I carry on I mean it was a messed up thing for me to do even if it was a few years back.What kind of a person am I?If only god can judge us how does he judge me?Imean I got in trouble for it naturally but I sometimes feel like I dont deserve to live even if the rest of my family did look in their hearts and forgive me.

2007-01-09 03:22:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've have agreed to go with my ex (as friends) to his military ball. This being my first one, what should I expect? Is there anything special I need to do? All answers are appreciated. Thank you!

2007-01-09 03:21:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel like i cant be without her, but i still need to keep up with my own life (work, family, friends, etc...)

2007-01-09 03:21:14 · 9 answers · asked by jugglaman 4 in Singles & Dating

wear to bed? does it change or just same each night?

2007-01-09 03:21:13 · 12 answers · asked by sd_andrea86 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres a girl who works in a different deparment from me who i think is very nice, she smiles at me when we pass each other. Can i just approach her and ask her for a date there and then or ask for her number first?

2007-01-09 03:20:53 · 14 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been on quite a few dates, but its always puzzled me as to when to try for a kiss. Sometimes you get a perfect moment and you just know it, other times its akward and you talk forever and then start worrying about it and it becomes a big deal. Ive got this hand holding method I use to see how she feels about me and if I can sense that shes ok with that after I while I stop and hold her other hand and kiss.

Anyone else have any kiss-breaking methods?

2007-01-09 03:19:42 · 15 answers · asked by Afro-Joe the American Hero! 2 in Singles & Dating

Myspace like got my fiance in so much trouble. Me and his X got into it on there and basically we exchanged #'s to see what's the problem. When we talked I found out that he was egging her on like he still wanted her. He basically told her that the only reason while he couldnt be with her cause i was pregnant and my baby was SUPPOSE to be his but he wasn't for sure.
I went out of town for thanksgiving and he went and met up with her @ Ihop. She called him a b*** and he got mad and walked out. Then he came back and told her he was sorry and huged and kissed her and told her he loved her.
I also went out of town close to New years and while i was gone he tried to hang out with her but I came back early.
This came from his X who claims shes happy in her new relationship.
when I confronted him about all this he said he told me but he reallly didnt go into detail when he told me. He denied kissing her and said he huged her.
how can I handle this?????? her stories make sense

2007-01-09 03:19:32 · 5 answers · asked by Miss KoKo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 03:19:14 · 8 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend will be 18 in april. i will be 15 this month. i know that he wants to sleep with me but i want to keep my virginity until i'm married but i am still curious. i am really scared! what's worse is that my mom doesn't know that we are going out and i don't know how to tell her. she isn't going to like the age difference or that he has tattoos. please i need help??!!

2007-01-09 03:17:59 · 12 answers · asked by happydorkus 2 in Singles & Dating

Having Sex and Dating A Man who has been in jail for 6 years?
I met this great guy but he has been in jail for 6 years for drug charges. He has made a total change in his life and he is working now as a truck driver. Today I slipped up and allowed our fondling to go a little father than it should.He gave me oral sex and then he made an attemp to have sex with me but he didn't fully penetrate me. I've only known him 4 days and this is not something I normally do, It just happend. I'm also getting over the death of my boyfriend he was murdered about a year and a half ago. I'm not sexually 'loose' Im almost 20 and have only had 1 real sexual partner(this guy I'm talkin about along with another really didn't penetrate me).My Q:
1)I'm so scared of dating a man who has been in jail for 6 years, cuz of the aids epidemic.He gave me oral sex, and even if he didn't fully penetrate me, should I be worried about it?
2)I feel guilty cuz I still love my last boyfriend, is this wrong as well?

2007-01-09 03:17:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a girl that has a shirt that shows her tummy or a low cut top that shows cleavage?

2007-01-09 03:16:28 · 52 answers · asked by sd_andrea86 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

single guy, 43, white professional male, never married, no kids. I've suggested for us to see a show and a movie twice and both times he took me to dinner afterwards and we both had a good time. Does he know I like him?? Does he like me?? Why is he not asking me to do things with him?? I just had a fire at my house before Xmas and I'm stressed. If he were into me wouldn't he be asking me out on a weekend to have some fun and
de-stress a little? HELP!

2007-01-09 03:16:18 · 5 answers · asked by supergirl 5 in Singles & Dating

a) skinny
b) average
c) built/muscular
d) chubby (a little extra weight)
e) fat

2007-01-09 03:16:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last night my girlfriend and I were arguing over something dumb, and as she became extremely upset, she told me she was pregnant!! I asked her how she knew for sure and she said she took 2 home pregnancy tests; one 2 days ago, and one 8 days ago. She even said she would show me the tests. I went with it and asked her to come to the grocery store with me to get another test (i bought 2) to verify before we jumped into anything any further. I watched her take the test and it came up NEGATIVE! She refused to take a second test in front of me and said that her thyroid medication would effect the results. Now this morning, she says she threw away the first two positive tests, so now I could not see them. I am 99.9% sure she is lying to me about this "pregnancy", only because she has lied to me in the past. Why would anyone lie about such a thing though? Please give me your advice! Thanks!

2007-01-09 03:15:55 · 14 answers · asked by d c 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 03:15:18 · 6 answers · asked by dj 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 03:15:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I told him we would be ok if hed stop talking to his ex. He chooses to still talk to her. I am scared if I ignore him and leave him alone - he will just start sleeping with her cause he cant with me.

Should I just ignore him or try to make it work?

we have been together off and on for 6 years and we were living together until I found out he gave her his new number.
He says he dont want to be with her, but said he can talk to whoever he wants now cause we are broke up.

He said that a lot last time we broke up and he dated her and it hurt me really bad.
I cant stand the thought of him being with her again but im sure they will.
Will he ever see what a good girl he lost? ME!

2007-01-09 03:13:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife says NO to sex all the time, i had to beg her to have it, when we have it she enjoys it alot
I don't understand why she says NO?At times i get frustated and very cranky too

2007-01-09 03:13:28 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 03:13:17 · 4 answers · asked by dev d 1 in Singles & Dating

It seemed like she had started to pull away from me... she quit saying I love you back to me... I accused her of cheating.. She claims that she didn't, and that either of us has been happy since the move..I told her that I was happy to be with her, and that she is my world... Since then she has been dianogosed with depression.. Can she ever forgive me.. I don't know.. I love her.. I don't want to lose her, but how can I win her back..

2007-01-09 03:12:56 · 15 answers · asked by psycho247_2000 3 in Singles & Dating

i ended my 6 year relationship with my ex 6 months ago. he was controlloing and posessive of me. we grew to hate eachother in the end.

since the split, he has moved away. i dont see him anymore.

we have only just started speaking to eachother again and he came up to visit me last weekend.

i was nervous about seeing him again but we had a really good wekend!just like when we started dating. we couldnt keep our hands off eachother.

we ended up in bed together but we both agreed, that we dont want to get back together. we do still love eachother. we were best mates after all!!!

he wants to keep in touch with me and come and visit me every now and then.

is it OK to carry on like this???

2007-01-09 03:12:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating