Having Sex and Dating A Man who has been in jail for 6 years?
I met this great guy but he has been in jail for 6 years for drug charges. He has made a total change in his life and he is working now as a truck driver. Today I slipped up and allowed our fondling to go a little father than it should.He gave me oral sex and then he made an attemp to have sex with me but he didn't fully penetrate me. I've only known him 4 days and this is not something I normally do, It just happend. I'm also getting over the death of my boyfriend he was murdered about a year and a half ago. I'm not sexually 'loose' Im almost 20 and have only had 1 real sexual partner(this guy I'm talkin about along with another really didn't penetrate me).My Q:
1)I'm so scared of dating a man who has been in jail for 6 years, cuz of the aids epidemic.He gave me oral sex, and even if he didn't fully penetrate me, should I be worried about it?
2)I feel guilty cuz I still love my last boyfriend, is this wrong as well?
2007-01-09 03:17:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am concerned about you. Please let this slow down. You do not only have aids to worry about, but Hepatitis B and Hep C to be worried about. People can change, my best mate used to use drugs and went to jail but now he is recovered.
Please slow down, if he likes you, he will get tested first for all infectious diseases and use a condom.Do not mess up your life at 20, he sounds more wordly than you . Give yourself time to grieve properly. I doubt you could have caught hiv from oral sex unless he had bleeding gums and you had cuts down there, but could be a small risk so be careful.
2007-01-09 03:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Abigail 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah this is pretty bad if ur already letting him eat u out after only 4 days of knowing him. how do u know he has changed? just cuz hes a truck driver? do u know what truck drivers do on there breaks? they bang women in there trucks! girl u just need to stay away from this guy, he just wants some sorta fresh meat and ur giving in pretty easy. u gotta earn some respect for urself. im not sayin dont date, cuz obviously ur bf passed away and u cant be with him anymore but u should find somebody that will give u a good life and not a hustling life.
2007-01-09 03:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by oc 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a million. he's a teenage boy. all of them want intercourse no remember what they might say. 2. If his status says "a million 12 months 6 MONTHS!" that is totally obtrusive that he's large siked to bone you. 3. he's a young person. want I say this lower back? based on the above statements, i think of he's rather attracted to having intercourse with you. I doubt he needs to attend that long, yet oh properly, that is finally your determination. sturdy success (:
2016-12-15 19:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by forgach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see troubles....
2007-01-09 03:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋