guess i'm just wondering if the person who does the dumping still thinks about thier ex, do they finding breaking up just as hard or can they just move on like nothing ever happened. Has anyone ever regreted it because they realised that person wasn't as bad as you made them out to be.
2007-01-09 03:24:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Once I turned down a guy because I didn't think he was intellectual enough for my taste. Later I found out that he had married someone else because she reminded him of me, but she definitely wasn't me, and he was miserable. I felt bad about that. Didn't do anything about it, though, and won't. Too much water under the bridge since then.
2007-01-09 03:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by cruztacean1964 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never regreted breaking up with my exes but if you really care about an ex then you still think of this person and care about them i know its very hard right now and maybe that person who did the "breakup" may feel horibble too. but with time it will be behind you and its not gonan be a big thing anymore its ok not to forget your ex or still think about them or even regret breaking up with them but you gotta think if it will be better after the breakup
some people can actually move on like nothing happened but that doesnt mean they really cared and they could get another you in a minute
best advice is to not think about it for now and to move on
2007-01-09 03:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dumping is a "high school" term. dependign on how old you are, thhe answer to this question can vary....Therefore take it from the stand point of your age. After 24 yrs. of age you should never look back on the past women you've had. All have things that you may have like about them but there will ALWAYS be another that has the same or better and the one the lacks which should be obvious to stay away from...Even if your choice was "A POOR ONE," do not go back to them unless you want to be the under-dog.
2007-01-09 03:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I devorced my Ex-Husband, 3 years ago, and when the devorce was final........ I didn't read the letter, and feel like "Partying" , if that's what you mean........ In fact, I've known him 1/2 my life, and it was more of a "Sad day" for me...... However, he would never give up his bad habits, and he changed on me, over the years.... He became very abusive, verbally & physically.... It became a very unhealthy marriage, and very unhealthy for out kids!! So, I had to devorce him...... I probably will always love him, and because of the abuse I am really scared to date again...... Plus , I am on the shy side of the whole dating game, period !!! I like to know them awhile, before getting involved..... And it really has effected me in more ways than one.. I'm afraid I'll meet another abusive man, or that if I date that I'll get to missing my Ex....... so, I stay single for now..... Plus, I dont want to confuse my kids, by dating. So, I thought once their grown in 4 & 6 years I'll start to dating then...... In the meanwhile I have "Guy-Friends"...... But, "Yes" the devorce did effect me, tremendously....... Even though I'm the one who devorced him !! And I think it still effects me, but my kids are happier for it !! I even saw him about 1 month ago, and he was wanting to get back together, and I told him "David, you know we're bad for one another, and you know it wouldn't be good for the kids if we got back together, so there's no way I can take you back, I'm sorry!!" He was really upset. But, that's the way the "Tumbleweed-Tumbles, I reckon." And its all sad, but I'm the better person for it, you know, and my kids have peace now...... Smile!!!
2007-01-09 03:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I be apologetic about I hadn't carried out it quicker. I surely experienced a 12 months of discomfort basically because I wasn't waiting to allow flow. at the same time as i eventually did, i began to love the most imporant human being, myself. He changed into an recommendations-blowing guy, yet he's growing someone i'm able to't be with. It wasn't honest to save him on because I often times beloved who he changed into. and albeit, the relationship has countless luggage on each and each and every side and wasn't healthful. Love isn't adequate. the human beings must be waiting for it. If one side needs something else, it would not count number number how tremendous that human being is. if you're actually not waiting for dedication it received't very last. it is not as in case you want once on your existence. it would want to take time, yet yet another will come alongside and with slightly of success you'd be waiting for that one.
2016-12-02 01:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by huehn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I almost lost the love of my life. I think I felt as bad as he, or worse! To the point I decided to try again. As for my other relationships, I felt very bad in ending things, you never want to put anyone through that kind of pain, it hurts too much, but I have no regrets.
2007-01-09 03:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by Aces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....it was out first love and until today we regret for not being together. Eventhough we both have our own families, we are still very much in love and are still in contact. We just hope we could be together again in our next life. The reality always hurts.
2007-01-09 03:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I regret until now.
I DUMPED my love 10 years ago.
At that time I didnot realise she is my true half.
She was hurt deeply.
But anyway she married other guy.
I also dated many girls like nothing happened ,
but in my depth she is still lingering , sometimes it hurts thinking of her.
Her innocent pure smile, maybe I ve hurt myself by hurting her
2007-01-09 03:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by earthlove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes i did the dumping and i regret it a million times a day ''must remind myself to keep strong''lol..hope that answers your question.
2007-01-09 03:32:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I missed him after the fact, but he is as bad as I thought. I see now that the woman he is with gets beat while she is carrying his baby.I did move on. But it is human nature to think about someone that was in our life at one time or another.
2007-01-09 03:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by ksk_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋