Ive been on quite a few dates, but its always puzzled me as to when to try for a kiss. Sometimes you get a perfect moment and you just know it, other times its akward and you talk forever and then start worrying about it and it becomes a big deal. Ive got this hand holding method I use to see how she feels about me and if I can sense that shes ok with that after I while I stop and hold her other hand and kiss.
Anyone else have any kiss-breaking methods?
2007-01-09 03:19:42 · 15 answers · asked by Afro-Joe the American Hero! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it feels ok to be in her personal space move in for a kiss. Go slow and if you sense she is't up for it break off and smile. say something like you're really cute.
If she doesn't seem to mind as you get close go for it. the biggest mistake is not taking charge and following through. Girls like a guy to take charge, but only if you don't get any negitive signs. If you start to kiss a girl that wants to be kissed and you start but don't follow, she will get turned off.
Things get awkward if you just flirt around the issue. Go for it and you will know right off wether is wil be accepted. Trust me if you are to the point you thnik it's time 90% of the time it is.
2007-01-09 03:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by bal z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...
I find myself leaning towards kissing the guy that i have a crush on. You will know it because you get this weird feeling. If the time is right then it will just happen. I find myself looking at their lips when i feel like i want to kiss them and i think sometimes they get the hint. If you are comfortable with her than go for it. If she seems as though she is comfortable with you then go for it!!! Good luck!! :)
2007-01-09 11:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss her on the first date. Nothing fancy, just a quick peck. Once you break the ice, she will be less inhibited to initiate a kiss next time.
2007-01-09 11:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by wuxxler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to kiss when you see the path is clear to go straight in for a kiss, and when she is looking right at you, so when she sees you coming, she'll be prepared to act on it.
2007-01-09 11:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by sarabmw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to feel the vibes between you. If not, you can put your face kinda close to her shoulder, and see what she does. If she leans a little toward you, then you know you got a Bingo!
2007-01-09 11:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i havent establishd 1 but u wait to see if she makes the first move i always end up bein the one to do that weird huh a girl on first move duty!
2007-01-09 11:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the mood is right, and her body-language is saying "Kiss-Me!!" Then, I reckon that's the right time!! Smile!!!
2007-01-09 11:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is my advice, look into her eyes and slowly go in for the kill.
She will appreciate your romantic side.
2007-01-09 11:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by U Luv It 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right your lips will know.Keep talking and be nice.
2007-01-09 11:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go if it feels right...if she backs away...you're bunrned...do not force it, but you got o go for it if youfel it is right.
2007-01-09 11:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by silverback487 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋