It seemed like she had started to pull away from me... she quit saying I love you back to me... I accused her of cheating.. She claims that she didn't, and that either of us has been happy since the move..I told her that I was happy to be with her, and that she is my world... Since then she has been dianogosed with depression.. Can she ever forgive me.. I don't know.. I love her.. I don't want to lose her, but how can I win her back..
2007-01-09 03:12:56 · 15 answers · asked by psycho247_2000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depression can be a very serious matter. Understanding how your partner is feeling is the best way forward. Try talking things over. Appreciate the good times and do not force the issue. Love may be the last thing on her mind if it is depression. I have known many people who have become withdrawn when they have depression so the last thing they need is to be told they are cheating. It only pushes them away further.
Patience is virtue.
2007-01-09 03:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by honeb1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure if u can win her back but the best thing to do is just treat her really nice give her space and time. Eventually she will come round and make up her own mind but dont keep going over it you have to be ok so that she can beat depression that is your main priority at the moment and then you can both figure out where to go from there. and next time make sure you have the facts before you accuse her. Good luck xx
2007-01-09 11:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologise and tell her that you love her and are very worried for her. She obviously has a problem she feels she cannot or is unwilling to share with you. How understanding have you been in the past? Maybe she feels in a rut as life isnt quiet going the way she expected. Talking and importantly listening is always the answer. Shouting never is. Good luck:-)
2007-01-09 11:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first things first.
she has to take her meds, let her get used to the feelings THEY will give her first.
you also need to remember that things wont suddenly, if at all, become rosy again between you two.
just be gentle and understanding with her.
just let her breathe and she will (hopefully) come back to you.
you dont sound like you believe she has been faithful ("she claims.......), rather than stating she hasnt and you made a mistake.
if you dont believe her then maybe its time to reassess your relationship.
a relationship is only a good one when you can trust someone completely.
good luck
2007-01-09 11:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is on medication now for the depression the best thing you can do is be there for her as her friend and not pressure her for any type of emotional commitment. Also she may want to consider seeing a therapist to talk out her issues. My heart goes out to her.
2007-01-09 11:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by Victoria F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her that you trust her....she is upset because you accused her of cheating without even proving it...make her happy again....if you want to keep this woman have faith in her...she prolly feels really low because of an accusation like that, i know i would be....you have to prove to her that you really do love and trust her...she deserves that much
2007-01-09 11:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time.. she has to get use to the meds an then maybe you can work it out.. Depression is nothing to play with that might be the reason she was pullin away to begin with.. I fight depression everyday but with my meds i can handle it..
2007-01-09 11:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by pruittsgurl_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny isn't it ..... I think a lot of girls can look perfectly fine .... but behind the eyes there is an absolute mess of depression and lack of confidence....
2007-01-09 11:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her get used to her medications to depression and then you two can work on communication and go from there HUGS
2007-01-09 11:18:00 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too late... You stepped over the line and made the ultimate boo-boo... Time to move on...
2007-01-09 11:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋