Wife says NO to that all the time?

Question

My wife says NO to sex all the time, i had to beg her to have it, when we have it she enjoys it alot
I don't understand why she says NO?At times i get frustated and very cranky too

We are married 2 yrs ago, No Kids, I do talk to her regularly on this, she says nothing about it.she jus changes the topic
I don't ask her to have it everyday, atleast in the week ends.

Answer 1

you might be catching her at a bad time.
and you can't beg her to have with you - that's not attractive and not a turn on at all.
try seducing her all day while the two of you are apart % xy emails, text messages, photos, etc.) and then she'll be in the mood when you get home.
if this doesn't work, then try talking to her. don't try to get her to have x with you after the conversation, but just ask her why it is that she doesn't seem to be "into you" anymore. if she can't give you a reason, don't push it and just give it time.
its hard to tell without knowing your exact situation, but hope this helps!

Answer 2

There could be lots of reasons.
1. a hormonal imbalance. If a woman has no sex drive then she needs to go to a doctor and see if there is a medical problem

2. Could it be that you have a grooming or hygiene problem? Not trying to be mean just asking.

3. In my case I turn my husband down sometimes. I know he's tired from work but so am I . As soon as he walks in the door he starts yelling at the kids (we have 4 under 10 yrs old) He yells at the kids, gripes about the house, eats his dinner and puts his dishes in the sink which I have to wash. So I'm not usually in the mood to be romantic to with someone who does not deserve it.

Good luck.

Also, Have you tried asking her what the problem is? In a nice, caring way.?

Answer 3

Talk to her about it. Maybe there's something going on with her. I went through the same thing but I too realized that it was the best thing once I did do it. Women tend to lose their sexual feelings when something is going on in the home or at work. But we also need to realize that sex is a very important part of a relationship so regardless of what's going on we should try and make time. On the other hand, men need to learn how to look at a woman's emotional side sometimes and know that sex is not everything.

Answer 4

I'm in the same boat to this last year i Mark how many time my wife and i have sex and the number i came up with was 20 ooh man that sucks i have ask here how many time the average married couple have sex and it was in the 50 to 60 range a year for my age level. AHHHHH. my wife has a low sex drive and i have normal sex drive so i have try everything from goat weed to hormonal treatment and nothing works. the funny thing when she really in the mood it after a good romantic book but i have to wait until she done before i get any. and yes i have tried roll playing with her.

Answer 5

Could it be possible that you are asking at times that are not really conducive to sex? I know that is hard to imagine, but there are those times. If you are asking her when she has her mind on laundry, taking care of the kids, cleaning the house, etc. you may want to jump in and give her a hand. Once these things are taken care of you might get a different answer. This is especially true if you are just sitting around on the computer or in front of the TV waiting for her to get to a point when you can ask her for sex. She needs to know you are her partner in EVERYTHING, not just for sex.

Answer 6

It all depends on how long yall been together too. If u been together awhile u might want to spice things up.It might be boring or routine. Ask her why as well. Maybe its somethin that she goin through. But she shouldn't Say no all the time. Thats shelfish. Isay she gotta change up or come to some agreement to when to have sex, or u might get really frustrated and find someone who will like sex as much as you.

Answer 7

No one should ever have to beg for sex. you need to sit her down and let her know that there is no possible way she could have thought that sex was just going to end when you to got together and that it's really important to you and that maybe she needs to take a look at whether or not she truly wants to be with you if she doesn't want to have sex. I hate hearing anyone say there begging for it. YOU shouldn't have to. It comes with a relationship, marriage, partnership, etc. She should be single then.

Tell her your done with begging and if she can't tell you why she doesn't want to have sex and your still not happy then go out and but a bunch of porn and see what she sais!

Good Luck My Friend!

'-)

Answer 8

I have the same problem with my husband. I dont have an "appetite" for sex, however, I like it when we do it. We fight alot because I say no all the time too. My doctor prescribed me some meds that are susposed to speed up a womens libido. There are several different ones to suit the woman. Have her go and see a doctor.

Answer 9

your wife might have alot on her mind and sex isn't one of them. Maybe you should wait for her to come to you, it's not that it's not good,sex does play an important role for some strange reason when women get in their 30 they look at sex,marriage.family in a whole different way. when women are stressed out they don't want to speak on it you can tell cause if you were sexing her before know the sudden change she's just going through the changes i don't believe it's abuse...

Answer 10

Ha! My boyfriend is the same way. But really women think about sex less that is why they want it less. Women think about it at least once a day, while men think about it several times a day. Me on the other hand..I have to beg too. Damn them! You should tell her it bothers you. Intimacy problems sometimes leads to cheating. I have seen it happen. Good luck!