Ive been in a relationship with her for about 3 years now, and she is a great girl, she has an awesome personality but I am just not physically attracted at all. I mean for the longest time ive told myself that I can just get over that part and move on but as much as I hate to admit it I dont want to be with her any longer because im not sexually attracted. I see women at the beach, at the malls, in public in general and they all look at me and I look back and I dont do anything, I feel tied down.
I hate to admit it but as shallow as it seems I just cant love her.
2007-01-09 04:24:45 · 4 answers · asked by Afro-Joe the American Hero! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shallow as you are perhaps those girls are looking at you because you are walking in front of them. Hate to break it to you babe but your shallowness will come back to you and just think how you will feel when a beautiful girl says "oh im sorry im just not attracted to you". Go crawl back under the rock from which you came.
2007-01-09 04:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question was funny. Asking if it is wrong to hurt her if you are not attracted to her physically. Like as if it were right to do so if you were physically attracted towards her.
Anyways if you are not attracted to her, then probably you don't have a relationship going. If you are not physically attracted and you are still physically involved with her... she must have noticed it a long time ago and should have confronted you about it.
If you two are not physically inviled then unless you have promissed to marry her, you are friends. I can't say what she might be thinking about this relationship, but probably she is not attracted too. If she were and you were not making any progress then probably this relationship of yours would have concluded a long time ago.
Anyways do look around and see if you can find someone with whome you are attracted to. If you can't live along in this relationship why increase her expectations and drive her to a point where she will be more hurt than what she will be if you broke off today.
2007-01-09 13:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by AnSID 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always wrong to hurt another person, but it's worse to consciously hurt yourself, which is what you seem to be doing. Tell her you want out and later on, when you have been apart for a while, figure out if you want to continue being friends with her. Maybe you don't and that's okay too. Put yourself first.
2007-01-09 12:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow--3 years and no physical attraction? get out before it gets worse. she'll get over it--it's my opinion that she would rather not be with someone that doesn't want to be with her.
2007-01-09 12:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋