Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

hi . I lost a bet to a girl from my school and now she gets to choose my punishment. She wants me to go online and ask random people what they think she should do to me. She wants me to tell you that she wants to do the most disgusting nasty thing possible to me because I am a pathetic loser according to her, so what is your opinion?

For reference, the bet i lost was a wrestling match even tho i cheated by punching her boob and giving her a swirlie!

2007-01-09 05:04:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

had a dream about him last night we were back together and everything was fine. sadly it was only a dream but i've had lots about him after he broke up with me. what does this mean if anything and how can i stop it?

2007-01-09 05:04:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 30 and my wife has been very busy with her career,housework, and child care.I feel so neglected we barely had sex in months. Lest just say im no longer happy with her and want to divorce her but she looks after me when it comes to ironing my clothes and preparing food.This 18 y.o broke up with me because she said im still married and she said she will wait for me until im free again.This 18 y.o loves to spend most of her time with friends and barely stay home. I feel like in the long run she will eventually find a new one and i dont think i can live with that.I dont want to lose her.Right now i dont care if i lose my marriage over her because i love her.PLEASE HELP IM LOSING A LOT OF WEIGHT BECAUSE OF THIS..

2007-01-09 05:03:51 · 26 answers · asked by spyderedge30 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When the school year started this girl I didnt really like much, kept coming over to me and telling me storys, also during classes she would say stuff like "I went to that hotel", "you can build computer, COOL!", But saying I didnt like her I shrugged outta the conversation. Now she nevers talks to me and im wondering, how to attract who over to start talking to me again, I have a crush. Is there any way to get her to re-notice me and come over and talk?
She is never on her own, always with her friend, and I get shy easy! What made me change my mind was at first I though she was rude and saying I was shy, would make fun off me, but now I see she is not like that! Also I think she might be going out with another person now, because there was a note saying "(Her name) & Alan forever and ever", but I think her mates did it as a joke! HELP!

2007-01-09 05:03:22 · 15 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Singles & Dating

i split up recently with my boyfriend. we never married and had a daughter is 2 now. im living with my my mom and my son who is not his. im taking him to court for custody. what are the chances if he fights me for custody he will get it? i am a stable person and a good mom. and by the way he has a felony on his record. i know i will probably get custody but i just want reassurance.

2007-01-09 05:03:04 · 11 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When you love someone
you do anything
you do all the crazy thing that
that you cant explain
(like the song by:Brian Adams)

2007-01-09 05:01:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friends do not like him my family thinks he is great and i just found out that he is bein stationed in japan and i talk to him almost everyday i don't think i will be able to go without talkin to him i know he love s me to we are both stubburn we dated for like a year in half how do i get my friends to excpt the fact that i think he is the one for me

2007-01-09 05:01:39 · 7 answers · asked by simply me 2 in Singles & Dating

I have known him for 4 years but we just started dating 2 days ago. I really trust him and stuff since we were friends. But now that we are dating, I am afraid to tell him" I love you " and i really think i do. Alot. Any suggestions?

2007-01-09 05:00:57 · 16 answers · asked by MileyCyrusFan♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

ok..i have these friends and they are kool to hang out with an stuff but all they do is talk about people and think of everyone they can to put down.... they are only friends with themselves becuase they are such b*i*t*c*h's to everyone.... i do alot with them b/c they are in alot of the activites i do... i can't take all the fussing and putting people down anymore but there is no way to handle it.... you either have to be their best friend or not their friend and i have to many activited with them to fight with them.... any advise?

2007-01-09 05:00:52 · 7 answers · asked by --Br0oklYn-- 5 in Friends

me and this guy have been going through this for six months now and I feel like it's not going anywhere we both have feelings for each other and we are not speaking up about it so i want to just end the whole friendship because it's frustrating me when we see each other everyone thinks we are a couple when we talk we talk like we are in a relationship we do everything that people would'nt do if they were just friends. I like him alot and I know he knows how I feel because there has been soo much drama, rumors, because he's in the military my friends don't trust him they think he's lying everytime he talks. He has a problem with trusting girls because of his past, i'm from California his friends always tell him not to trust California girls it's really crazy what we're going through we are both afraid to move foward with our relationship because of all these issues. We still talk after all the craziness. What should I do about this? end it or try to work it out? no rude comments.

2007-01-09 04:59:00 · 7 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years (broken up once). The first time around he was the "lovey dovey" one, but it seems like after that short break up I've become the "soft, lovey" one. He means the world to me. We have talked about getting married and having kids...we've even picked out names. I've never met anyone more perfect for me. We were so happy together.

Here lately, though, he seems distant. If we're fighting and I ask a simple question he answers "I don't know." Once I even asked him do you love me and he said "I don't know." He has hurt me many times by saying things like that. I would jump in front of a bullet for him and I don't feel like he would do the same for me. I text him all day long and he won't text me back. He never wants to hang out with me, even on his days off. It seems like he'll make time for everyone but me, although every now and then he'll ask me over to watch a movie. The story gets more complex but these are the highlights. Help!?

2007-01-09 04:58:19 · 11 answers · asked by yellowcard0o9 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Bonsai trees are alot of work. Will that responsibility make her feel like I'm moving too fast? She really wanted to go but she couldn't and she's bummed about it so I thought I would give her something that's Japanese to cheer her up

2007-01-09 04:58:07 · 8 answers · asked by jumpin monkey 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to be with my girlfriends family this weekend and I need to ask permission to marry her. First of all, I've always heard I ask the dad's permission...but do I ask both? Also, should it be done with or without her present? She knows I'm asking permission already. Should I do it over dinner? Should I take her dad aside at some approprate time while we're just at her place hanging out? Help please!!

2007-01-09 04:57:44 · 30 answers · asked by someguy 3 in Weddings

I'm 29 and starting to freak out about turning thirty.......

2007-01-09 04:57:12 · 24 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

Flower Girl--

Ring Bearer--

Veil Holder/Carrier--

I know each is important, but with sibling rivelry, how do you let each know that one role is not more important than the other?

2007-01-09 04:57:12 · 13 answers · asked by ~2Sxy4u!~ 4 in Weddings

She started cursing me out and throwing my dishes that I bought at me so I got angry and lost my temper and I through a lamp at her that was hers. And it hit her and she fell down into a wall and started bleeding and crying and now I guess its all my fault even though she started the fight and she wants a divorce even though it was an accident.

2007-01-09 04:57:12 · 12 answers · asked by Afro-Joe the American Hero! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 04:56:37 · 23 answers · asked by deceiverII 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or you think better to call all the time instead of most of the time, and text? Thanks.

2007-01-09 04:56:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think a lot of this comes down to an oppertunist enviroment with many people who are against it not having been in these situations. Do you believe that certian industries attract it? ie. Armed Forces, nurses, police, entertainment industry, tourism......

2007-01-09 04:56:04 · 11 answers · asked by Andy N. 1 in Singles & Dating

the bride wants pink. what else would be a good color

2007-01-09 04:55:51 · 18 answers · asked by Jacqueline L 1 in Weddings

Me and my mother dont get a long at all and she expects too much from me and i cannot take it anymore. i dont know what to do , im not sure if i have any love for her anymore.

2007-01-09 04:55:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

beautiful women to go around.....?????

2007-01-09 04:54:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have found a wonderful new boyfriend who treats me like a queen. He is everything that I have ever wanted in a man except for one thing...sexual attraction. It's definately not that he is unattractive or smells or anything bad like that. It's not that I cannot get into it with my new boyfriend but I just do not feel the same spark and excitement.

My last relationship seems to have ruined me. It lasted a year and I experienced the best sexual relationship ever with this man. He was a complete turn on with everything from a simple touch to the more in depth. Unfortunately, he lacked in every other aspect of the relationship.

Has anyone else experienced anything similiar to this? I want my new relationship to move forward but I'm not sure what to do!

2007-01-09 04:53:53 · 7 answers · asked by Lt 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend and he told me that he love me and his willing to wait for me until I fell in-love w/ him too,then it came I fell in-love w/ him too,but he said that he doesn't love me anymore.It hurts as in it really hurts so badly.How will I able to cure it?

2007-01-09 04:53:52 · 6 answers · asked by Vardemorth 1 in Singles & Dating

A good, close firend of mine and myself are going through marital problems...we're both splitting up with our spouses!
We get along great, and I think we may have a future together (in the FAR future)
But right now, I think she worries about me too much and not about herself.
Should I tell her to stop worrying about me, or will she think that I am brushing her off? I really, really care for her and I want her to be happy.

2007-01-09 04:53:03 · 14 answers · asked by Paul L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 04:52:48 · 11 answers · asked by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3 in Friends

I enjoy wearing a Jar Jar Binks costume and mask all the time and having crazy adventures. Needless to say, i have had some run ins with the law. Anyway, there is this policewoman who i like so recently i kept calling in crimes so i could see her. I called in a stormtrooper invasion, a spaceship crash, a jedi attack. The police have become totally grumpy and say if i make one more fake call they will arrest me! Anyway, my neighbor put on a Yoda mask and came into my house and beat me and robbed me! He said he was gonna come back tomorrow for more stuff and more beatings!!! If I call the cops and say Yoda is beating me up, they will arrest me, and if I don't, my neighbor will beat me and take more of my stuff!!! What can I do? I have nowhere to turn!!! Please help me!

2007-01-09 04:52:45 · 13 answers · asked by Be Intimate with Jar Jar Binks!! 1 in Singles & Dating

Not all but some woman even me sometimes think that our man could read our minds. Why is that?

2007-01-09 04:51:49 · 30 answers · asked by Mz.Tweety 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 04:51:39 · 8 answers · asked by predourrodger@btinternet.com 1 in Friends

My mother owns a house - titled in her name only - since before she remarried.

She never had her new husband added to the house title. 22 years later, divorce is on the horizon and she wants to make sure she doesn't lose her house to him, or be made to sell it and split the proceeds with her husband.

Any thoughts on this?

2007-01-09 04:51:13 · 12 answers · asked by Agent99 5 in Marriage & Divorce