2007-01-09 04:56:37 · 23 answers · asked by deceiverII 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because 2 wrongs don't make it right!
2007-01-09 05:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by mvas800 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs do not make it right. You tried to get back at your wife and hurt her and all you did was hurt yourself. Did she really care that she cheated on you? But you did care that you cheated on her. Revenge , never solves anything. Move on with your life and try and put it behind you . If not then get a divorce . Both of you need counciling.
2007-01-09 13:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by springer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is it with you people? You both have a problem in the maturity department! It is so clear that neither of you have respect for the other and neither are you showing her love. I think you married fro the wrong reasons. If you care for her buy the book LOVE AND RESPECT by DR EMERSON EGGERICHS and become accountable to your wife but for you both to commit adultery is pathetic and childish and the consequences you reap from such stupid choices is the result of total immaturity on both your sides. Maybe you should both separate and think this thing through very carefully. If you cannot be accountable to one another you should not be together foeroever!
2007-01-09 13:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must still care for her. You both need some counseling. If you both want to save the marriage, you need to stop cheating. It was already said, two wrongs dont make a right. Now you have to live with your own guilt along with her betrayal. Sounds like a soap opera in the making.
2007-01-09 13:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're a better person than she. But you should have been even better and walked away from the marriage if you felt like you couldn't forgive her for what she's done instead of swashing your own morals and cheating. Maybe getting some outside help for your relationship will help. Best wishes!
2007-01-09 13:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by Susan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a real man. A woman or man that cheats is not in love anymore and you obviously are. I doubt if deep down you will ever get that out of your heart it will never completely go away. But inside you will never feel right about cheating yourself.
2007-01-09 14:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by patriot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your the better person! (2 wrongs don't make a right) !! work it out or get divorce if your not able to get past it. If she cheated something is wrong with the relationship or her.
Good Luck!
2007-01-09 13:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by pinkbubbles282004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cheated with the wrong woman, thats why! all you did was even the playing field, and thats not enough for a man to feel better. you need to shorten her side of the field and lengthen your side. my guess is that the woman you cheated with wasn't pretty or not as pretty as your wife. find a chic hotter than your wife and do the deed...then you will feel better. an easy way to accomplish this is by hiring a hot, young, female escort. good luck!
2007-01-09 13:04:11 · answer #8 · answered by beechjb 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Besides that fact that you both obviously had no business getting married in the first place if you weren't going to be monogamous, I suggest you both get marriage counseling to save your marriage if you're committed. You can go to a church or any facility that can assist in restoring your marriage. Happy couples play with each other, not cheat on each other. Best wishes!
2007-01-09 13:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 wrongs do not make a right and instead of trying to even the score you 2 should be figuring out why she did and work on your marriage not getting revenge try marriage counsling. You feel bad about it because it was wrong of you to do and you know it.
2007-01-09 13:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by wendy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well because two wrongs don't make a right!!!
What you did is creates even more of a problem to the issue. You basically told her if you can so can I...where will it stop?
Good luck with that
2007-01-09 13:03:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋