When the school year started this girl I didnt really like much, kept coming over to me and telling me storys, also during classes she would say stuff like "I went to that hotel", "you can build computer, COOL!", But saying I didnt like her I shrugged outta the conversation. Now she nevers talks to me and im wondering, how to attract who over to start talking to me again, I have a crush. Is there any way to get her to re-notice me and come over and talk?
She is never on her own, always with her friend, and I get shy easy! What made me change my mind was at first I though she was rude and saying I was shy, would make fun off me, but now I see she is not like that! Also I think she might be going out with another person now, because there was a note saying "(Her name) & Alan forever and ever", but I think her mates did it as a joke! HELP!
2007-01-09 05:03:22 · 15 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To be honest, this is one of life's hardest lessons - you don't know what you've got till it's gone.
I know this doesn't help you much but if you like her, let her be happy and don't upset her or her new guy by making it complicated. What you could do is make friends with her then you'll be there if/when she splits from the new guy.
Find out what her interests are then gel up on a few facts so you'll find it easier to join in when you see her chatting next.
2007-01-09 05:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know me as a girl, I kind of know how that happens. We girls say things which we really think though those things might be insulting. Not everyone thinks 3 times before they say something.
The only way to solve this problem is to go to her and ask her if you two could talk (only you too). Go to some quiet place where no one will disturb you, and explain her and ask her about that Alan guy.
Or if you are too shy, write her a letter telling her everything.
When she finds out how you really feel, she'll think about you more.
I hope you'll have luck!!!
2007-01-09 05:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by Enchy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aye! well i don't really know this from a guys point of view but from a girls, she had a crush on you first and you kinda pushed her away by not talking to her.you sorta we're ignoring her. about the her and Alan thing, maybe shes moved on. depending on how old you guys are, maybe if you build enough courage to ask her on a date, she might just get those feelings back. shyness isn't a bad thing but sometimes you have to go out on the limb and do something outta the ordinary.
good luck! try not to hurt her feelings or try not to mess up L]
2007-01-09 05:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by jessica_stay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being her friend. Remember what she was saying to you and try to pick up on that conversation again, ask a question and see if you are interested in her really. She may want to be friends only but time will tell, and if you have things in common things will progress in the right direction for you both.
2007-01-13 02:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by freephoenixuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile and say Hi next time you see her.
Then the next and the next, then one day just say I miss our little chats and I'm sorry I didn't talk to you much before, or apologise.
Can't say I blame her for going off you if you told her you don't like her. Also be sure you don't want to get going with her again just because she has lost interest in you or that she may be together with another. That would be very selfish on your part.
My suggestion would be only attempt to be friendly with this girl again if you are prepared to be genuine about it and don't expect her to dump Alan if he exist, just because you are now showing an interest again.
Think about what you would like to achieve, what your intentions are and go for it.
2007-01-09 05:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jewel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,you made a mistake but you can always makeup for it,it's never to late.I can understand that right now she's trying to get over you,if she hasn't already have.If she has, then I'm telling you that it's pointless as you have already hurt her feelings.But if she's still in to you(you can ask to know that)you should go and tell her if she's with a friend that you want to talk to her privately.Then tell her that you make a terrible mistake and ask he to give you one more chance.If she ever liked you she will certainly reconsider your situation.
2007-01-09 05:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it, Go and talk to her who cares if she is always with a friend You never no you might like the friend better, Just get on with it or you'll regret it for the rest of your life. You can't go through life like that or your not going to have a life
2007-01-09 05:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by x_wee_x_ems 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she was rude to u in the first place forget her and find some 1 better but if u still like her if u do get with some1 else e.g. some1 she knows that will make her jealous and she will pay more attention
2007-01-09 05:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by roxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are pining after her because you like the idea of someone having a crush on you. Now shes gone you are missing the attention not her. Shame on you!
2007-01-13 03:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by "*♥*Nafisa*♥*" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its important for you to become more confident in yourself. to do this you have to force yourself to do things youre afraid of doing. if youre shy of talking to her, talk to her anyway. the way to get her to re notice you is to act the same way to her as she did to you. stay cool bro, you can do it!
2007-01-09 05:13:40 · answer #10 · answered by john9999999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋