I have a friend and he told me that he love me and his willing to wait for me until I fell in-love w/ him too,then it came I fell in-love w/ him too,but he said that he doesn't love me anymore.It hurts as in it really hurts so badly.How will I able to cure it?
2007-01-09 04:53:52 · 6 answers · asked by Vardemorth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
time.....itll be ok....try to get a hobbie
2007-01-09 04:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not a disease to be cured, it is a an emotional bond that you form towards someone and if they feel the same and reciprocate than you two grow the bond together. There is no quick fix, the only thing you can do is grieve and allow yourself time to heal from the wound so that the pain does not manifest itself later in life with some sort of mental complex. For example there is a girl I know, she got into a relationship and her and her boyfriend broke up. She immediately went into another relationship. She broke up again and immediately went into another relationship. I call it relationship jumping. What had happened was she was scared to be alone to allow herself time to heal from the emotional pain of each broken relationship and would just go into one relationship after another after another until she had so much stuff she had never dealt with her heart would no longer allow her to open up or be close to any man she was with out of fear of being hurt again because she couldn't take anymore pain. Than she had to deal with the pain of multiple failed relationships at one time. The point is anything other than allowing yourself time to recover and heal is not a "cure" since love is not a disease. I know this does not directly answer your question but I hope it helps you understand what needs to happen and good luck.
2007-01-09 13:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by J-Dub 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't cure it. You just have to get interested in someone else that takes your mind off it. So here's what you do. Get on some really attractive clothes and go to a place where you can dance. Get out there and shake what your mamma gave you. Before the night is finished you'll find a "one night stand" you need to take advantage of his offer to knock your rocks off. That's all you need, a good stiff...... stiff right now. Love will find it's way back to you.
2007-01-09 13:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by 35 goodlookinmalefrombalt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The cure is quite simple.
Find another guy that you can really love and whom will love you back with all of his heart.
2007-01-09 13:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no magic pill; time will lessen to that feeling.
2007-01-09 12:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find another one
2007-01-09 12:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by killer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋