ok..i have these friends and they are kool to hang out with an stuff but all they do is talk about people and think of everyone they can to put down.... they are only friends with themselves becuase they are such b*i*t*c*h's to everyone.... i do alot with them b/c they are in alot of the activites i do... i can't take all the fussing and putting people down anymore but there is no way to handle it.... you either have to be their best friend or not their friend and i have to many activited with them to fight with them.... any advise?
2007-01-09 05:00:52 · 7 answers · asked by --Br0oklYn-- 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like to me it is time to find a new group of friends. Either that or just tell them to just shut the **** up.
2007-01-09 05:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by dyersburgdelilah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends. Sounds like these are the only friends you have right now. So gradually look for new friends. Usually when a group of friends constantly talk about other people, it's either because they're insecure or just trying to relieve boredom. You know the drill...all of you are looking at each other across the table, trying to find something to talk about. Then a passerby or schoolmate passes by, and becomes the subject of ridicule. Sounds like you're beginning to see how superficial they are. So keep your eye open for new friends, then gradually break away from that old group. Naturally, when the old group senses that you dont want to be around them anymore, they are going to talk about you like a dog. Your name will be mud. But they'll get tired of talking about you sooner or later, and move on to somebody else.
2007-01-09 13:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sam Darren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my friends and me are like that and it kinda wrong but i may be a bad person but @ my skool its all bout climbin tha social ladder so u do wat it takes but 4 u i'd say jus tell them u don't like the way the treat everyone and maybe get some new friends or keep them there when u need them and the rest of the time jus forget them
2007-01-09 13:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by BigBallerGurl2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore it. If you want to be friends with them, then do so. Just continue doing what your doing and trust me, people will notice that you are a good person. Who knows, maybe some of your morals will rub off on them sooner or later.
2007-01-09 15:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their really is no way out. If you just ignore, they will evenually start being snide to u,,, If u go away, they will start for sure. So u will eventually be one of THEM, or u will have to BITE the bullet & follow ur GUT...Be Nice, but firm...GOOD-LUCK
2007-01-09 13:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by Gertie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new group of friends to hang out with
2007-01-09 15:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dislike thier company, it's going to make you lose interest in those activities. search for replacement friends. Don't let them bring you down to their hate level.
2007-01-09 13:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by Waagosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋