Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

if you could change the past would you still go the same path to where you meet them and fall in love with them or would you not want to feel a broken heart all over again....also would you fight for them and what you truly believe or give it time and let them figure out what you already know

2007-01-08 02:07:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the rule for cheatin? i mean how can you define it is whether cheating or not......

2007-01-08 02:06:54 · 17 answers · asked by Love cake:-) 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and i don't live together, we in a long distance relationship. I invited him over for Christmas and he chose to go to Jamacia for two weeks.... ever since he was there he calls me. I ask him when i was coming back and he said Tuesday, i call him Saturday the phone not working so by accident my hand press his cell no. for ny and it rang. Now why i lied about coming later than earlier.

2007-01-08 02:06:38 · 1 answers · asked by darkangel 2 in Singles & Dating

If a man is messing around with an ex, will the other woman make sure that his current girlfriend/wife finds out? What would the point be of still messing with a man who has someone else?

2007-01-08 02:06:15 · 1 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

I forgot that I spent some money last night. this moring my hubby took the card to get something to eat on this way to work. But their is no money on his card? and I can't call him. What should I do he is going to be SOO MAD!!!

2007-01-08 02:04:36 · 23 answers · asked by cc 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you guys like a girl who is making you work for it or do you like it when she just gives it up?

2007-01-08 02:04:24 · 27 answers · asked by *~loveyouall~* 1 in Singles & Dating

We are married with four children 3 months through 11 years old. Mom has a great deal of pent of anger and takes it out by bieng mentally abusive on the children. She calls my 10 year old step daughter the "B" word all the time. She calls the 3 month old a stupid piece of "S". Three of the four children are terrified of her, I am scared to leave her home with them. I am concerned that she has already done severe emotional damage and I am not sure about any phisical damage. Dad needs help and advice. Does anyone have any?

2007-01-08 02:04:06 · 6 answers · asked by In_search_of_bliss 1 in Family

she could even be ugly..........still big boobs = dumb

2007-01-08 02:02:42 · 29 answers · asked by spit on it 1 in Singles & Dating

your'e only 20

2007-01-08 02:02:30 · 2 answers · asked by jrdnick1 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you agree? And if so, why? Or why not? Just curious...

2007-01-08 02:00:59 · 12 answers · asked by godsmacksun23 3 in Singles & Dating

if you split up with sum1 and had a kid together, would you take the child away from them never to let them see the child again?

I never did anything to deserve this but it happened to me. and i think its very unfair.

2007-01-08 02:00:38 · 11 answers · asked by mech_warrior172003 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a guy has been chasing you for a while, but then after you have met up he ignores you (we havent slept together), what is this about?am i supposed to chase him now???

2007-01-08 01:58:46 · 18 answers · asked by Special Lady 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who I would do anything for. She and I have been through a lot together and I have ALWAYS been there for her when she needed me. I recently got engaged and my parents announced it to a bunch of friends over for dinner one night (herself included). Her entire demeanor changed and she ended up leaving early. She didn't even really congratulate me. And ever since she hasn't called me as much (eventhough I've called her) and has been really distant. The last time we talked she was telling me how people shouldn't even bother getting married because everyone ends up divorcing anyway and how people in general should be "really sure" if they want to get married in a church to someone. This really hurt my feelings as I felt she was totally saying this to me indirectly. Why would you say that to your best friend? I have been with my fiance for 3 years now and she, if anyone, knows how happy we are. Then why is she acting so mean to me? What should I do?

2007-01-08 01:58:37 · 33 answers · asked by Mimi 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 01:58:35 · 23 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 01:58:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he wants me to lose weight for him (when he first wanted it i weighed about 125, at 5', still wants me to lose more n im 115). we have these awful arguments where he never backs down, no matter how wrong he is, bc he needs to win every argument ever, and somehow he does bc i get sick of crying over it. he calls me stupid a lot... he kinda 'rapes' me- i'll tell him that i really don't want it cuz it hurts sometimes after too much u know, but he still does it. , he's an overly friendly person, meaning he's very touchy feely w/ his female friends. but he's also the sweetest guy i've ever met. he says he cares about me and loves me and he is just the best bf i've ever had, and i love him to death. there's so much good in our relationship, but the bad stuff just makes me cry soo much. oh, and if a gf slaps her bf, should the bf slap back? idk, i guess its ok. just want some opinions. oh and he's like my only friend at my college and if i lose him i will really have no one at all.

2007-01-08 01:57:32 · 11 answers · asked by NoOne 2 in Singles & Dating

reading some of the questions on "answers have found just about all the women who are in a relationship find it diffacult, if not impossable to let there loved one in on there there desires. This is especalley true for the women whos husbands are on the internet cam sites

2007-01-08 01:56:21 · 11 answers · asked by tonyflorida2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 01:56:10 · 21 answers · asked by Lisa B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I cant seem to find any.Are they hiding somewhere in a secret place?

2007-01-08 01:55:59 · 22 answers · asked by sandra b 5 in Singles & Dating

after being with my life bf for 3 year, after he has been with his gf for 3 years. We met... being friends, talking about everything but mostly physically attracted ( he got into my mind during the time me and my bf was on a break).

he told me he like me a lot, he found a lot of things different on me, which he wants his gf to have, but she does not have.

But when i asked him about what is the kind of thing between us, like or love? he answered me....there is no room for us right now. you have your own private life ( me and my bf got back with each other after summer), and i have mine... so there is no room for us...even to find out and think it out.. so don't think about it... we take it easy and see how it goes.

Then he just started to kiss me and touching me... and showing he wants me bad.....

What is that????

2007-01-08 01:55:53 · 6 answers · asked by Love cake:-) 1 in Singles & Dating

I wish to dominate my boy friend. To enslave him as my personal slave but I am not sure what to do or how to go about it.

2007-01-08 01:55:47 · 5 answers · asked by Mrs Lisa 1 in Singles & Dating

You should eat breakfast. You should try harder in school. Get a job. You need to act more responsibly. Your not making me proud. Im ashamed of you, why don't you fix the situation. and it goes on. People who judge you hardly look at the mess that they are. How do you put people like this in their place. Spare the rod spoil the child. i know... but what is the Rod?

2007-01-08 01:55:39 · 3 answers · asked by kirk b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And if so, what did you get them? What can I get for my fiance on our wedding day. We both don't want to spend much money.

2007-01-08 01:55:03 · 15 answers · asked by Katie Beth 2 in Weddings

There is a guy that is from a different stereo type than i am but i really like him. He is one of my good friends, but i am pretty sure that he doesn't like me. How should i handle/ work this out?

2007-01-08 01:54:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found her cheating on me. We have children a new house lots of bills and 15 years together. How do you just walk away?

2007-01-08 01:54:45 · 26 answers · asked by ted j 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if there is nothing positive about an affair, why would someone have one unless they were in some way driven to it? Look at how hard it is to start one, and what is at risk for having one. Is any affair really worth it? If not, then don't people have to be extremely desparate to have one? What would make them so desparate?

Let's list the negatives and any positives you can think about an affair, and see what out weighs the other.

2007-01-08 01:54:27 · 42 answers · asked by JRSK007 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my girlfriend/fiance for two years. She pushed me to getting the ring, saying she wanted to be married, but ever since then it has been a disaster. Since then she has thought about moving to go back to school, once we set a date she bailed ten days before the wedding (it would have been very small wedding), and everytime there is an arugment about anything she wants me to move out so there is not so much pressure...
I do not talk about marriage with her anymore, she brings it up, she pushes for it, I am not pressuring her.
I remember early on in the relationship she told me not to let her push me away. I also remember her saying how every guy she has ever been with has proposed to her and she "couldn't understand why". To me it must be a pattern of hers. What do I do from here? I feel that she really loves me, am I mistaken. If I try to draw her close and let her know things will be ok, she says it is clingy. I think it is natural. What do you do?

2007-01-08 01:53:54 · 9 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I was wondering how does a person move pass the death of a loved one without having any closure? I have tried to find out how he passed but I did not succeed. I guess it wasn't meant for me to find out what really happened to him in the first place. I'm moving passed this but not knowing what happened really frustrsates me. I just hope and pray that he is in the kingdom of GOD and that's about all that I can do. Respectful anwers appreciated, thanks in advance.

2007-01-08 01:53:24 · 7 answers · asked by friend 3 in Family

When my husband and I each get on our separate laptops, it seems like we disconnect emotionally from each other. The other night, the kids were gone for the weekend, and the next thing I knew, we had been on the internet for four hours just surfing and not talking or anything. We finally went to bed at 3:30am, and that screwed the next day up. We normally are with the kids and we cherish the time we have together. However, we have had a lot of fights about our individual "obsessions" with the net; he complains about me as well. Sometimes porn is involved, and I'm trying to be okay with that, but it hurts my feelings if he looks at it shortly after we have sex. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough or he wasn't satisfied. Thanks for any input you can give me.

2007-01-08 01:52:43 · 7 answers · asked by Skye7112 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone says that you should always stand up for the girl you love and always be there for her. But, can it actually be applied to a teenager as young as fourteen? I mean is in what way a boy at that age can stand up for the girl he likes? If they are just friends can he stand up for her? In what way?

2007-01-08 01:52:32 · 3 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Singles & Dating