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I was wondering how does a person move pass the death of a loved one without having any closure? I have tried to find out how he passed but I did not succeed. I guess it wasn't meant for me to find out what really happened to him in the first place. I'm moving passed this but not knowing what happened really frustrsates me. I just hope and pray that he is in the kingdom of GOD and that's about all that I can do. Respectful anwers appreciated, thanks in advance.

2007-01-08 01:53:24 · 7 answers · asked by friend 3 in Family & Relationships Family

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I had a friend that hung himself when I was 18. I agonized over it for 2 years, because a few days before he had called me and I didn't have the chance to call him back because my husband was leaving for Afghanistan (he's Army).

The only thing you can do about a death with open ends is to accept what you can't change or find out.

Always understand that there IS a God above, and He knows all. He knows the reasons why this person died, and He probably has His reason for not allowing you to know. Perhaps it's something that your soul isn't strong enough to handle, or maybe you'll find out down the road after you've healed more emotionally.

I'm sorry I couldn't help more, hun, but I know what you're going through.

2007-01-08 01:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sometimes, the prayer is just - "Lord have mercy upon me."

I need closure and peace concerning my loved one and let the Lord understand that you know that He knows how to mend this.
Let the Lord know that you are asking for comfort, peace and understanding concerning your loved one.

Keep praying this prayer until He answers. He will eventually answer. Trust in the Lord with all your heart.

2007-01-08 10:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 1 0

Every individual has their own process of dealing with the loss of a loved one. No one can tell you how you should feel or handle the situation. Losing someone you love is probably the hardest thing in life, especially if you are not familiar with how they passed.

Put your faith in God and know they he is in his hands now.

2007-01-08 10:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by Nunya 4 · 0 0

I AM sorry for your loss, although there is no way of simple closure in mourning of the loss of a loved one. Just pray to God for help through this diffucult time, He will help you through it.

2007-01-08 09:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by Julie 2 · 0 0

It's hard not knowing, but you have chosen to trust in God and that's the best thing you can do, and really the only thing that you can do. Good Luck and God Bless.

2007-01-08 10:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you some day may find your answer but you should be prepaird for something you may like to here death is not a fun thing for you or the person

2007-01-08 09:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by shea77or 1 · 0 0

will knowing how the person died
really bring closure - I mean really

2007-01-08 09:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Elvis 7 · 0 1

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