Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

i always argue with my boyfriend over stupid stuff but it just recently started. i dont know how to approach him with a problem that i have with whatever hes doing without it ending up in an arguement. HELP.. How should i approach him with problems that im having???

2007-01-08 00:53:05 · 16 answers · asked by alaina 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that really likes me, I like her to but she has a lot of problems. I really think i could help her. Any opinions?

2007-01-08 00:52:58 · 6 answers · asked by kyle 1 in Singles & Dating

my g/f's ex husband comes over when she and i are not at home to pick up or drop off his son. ive told her i dont like it and she has told him not to do it but he doesnt listen. he is also a crackhead, literally, and thats why i dont want him over there when no one is there. the son is on his dads side and will let him inside the house when we arent there too. my g/f has full parental custody. how do we stop this??

2007-01-08 00:51:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have 4 kids aged 4 months to 9 years. I can see them only once or twice a year.

2007-01-08 00:51:30 · 8 answers · asked by richeb 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 33 but look much younger and I'm not trying to flatter myself! I have fairly long blond hair, blue eyes, and a thin frame. I'm 5'8 and like I said, fairly thin but have large breasts for my size. Would a miniskirt with black hose and a slighty low cut top look too sleazy? Do guys like girls that wear jeans with heels? Also, should I wear my hair straight or curly? One more thing, I'm breaking out like crazy but don't guys hate it if you just try to cover blemishes up with gobs of make-up? I mean I'm preety and the guy doesn't have great skin himself, so he shouldn't care, right? What color lipstick and nailpolish do you like? RED, PINK, or NATURAL? For your first time, do you like thongs or like cute boy short panties and BLACK, PINK, RED, or WHITE bra and panties?

2007-01-08 00:51:18 · 31 answers · asked by SHELTIELUVER 3 in Singles & Dating

I live in Florida.I am in a relationship with someone for 7 years.Weare not married but have 2 young children together.I need to know if i decide to leave him because of his physical and emotional abuse and i take the kids can i get arrested for kidnapping?If so then how can i legally leave him?I dont know if i need to confer with a lawyer or if i can just up and leave with no legal reprocutions.If anyone knows please let me know.Its well appreciated.

2007-01-08 00:49:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dated this guy back in the 9th grade ((he was in 10th)) and he was really attached to me. i just found his number through my stuff yesterday so i tryed to give him a call.. he wasnt home but his mom called his phone and told him i called. he got on myspace and messaged me and asked for my SN.. well i told him and we talked till i had to go ((like a hour and a half)) he was going to go take a shower but he decided to wait till i got off first.. he told me it was because he likes to talk to me.. he also was asking me things like why i broke up with him.. and he emailed me a love song that sounding alot like our situation about us not being together and stuff and us still having the memories. but its all weird cause he has a gf and theyve been together for a year.i cant stop thinking about him either.. what do you think. and what should i do??

2007-01-08 00:47:58 · 12 answers · asked by amanda 2 in Singles & Dating

My husbands best friend of 16 years is having a baby. They were earning more than us,(she is now too pregnant to work), and have always/ still live well beyond their means. They eat out regularly, rent an aunts house which they haven't paid rent in 3 months, buy designer clothes for them & unborn, have spent $4000 on baby gear,(not including nursery gear)- despite being offered free stuff from a brother who had used his stuff on 1 baby & they just got a personal loan for $20,000- for a car, & a $2000 engagement ring. When we give them advice on how to save, get their own home, save money by buying good quality but less expensive baby items & clothes, buy 2nd hand goods- they brush it off. They say they want only "the best" and it makes me feel like they think we dont want the best for our child or they think their money makes them better than us. We are in a great situation- own home,car-no debt, and they are nearly $40,000 in debt. Should I ignore them & smile or say something?

2007-01-08 00:47:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend and I have been together 8 years (3 years of this living together) and I am having trouble with the fact he has not proposed to me yet. I keep questioning myself and the relationship because of this. When the subject is broached my boyfriend avoids the issue and wont talk about it. Any advice?

2007-01-08 00:47:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 00:46:32 · 10 answers · asked by rulethisworldman 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 24 yrs old and have been married twice already.My parents could not stand my first hubby who i met while in college at a club where he was an ultimate fighter.I fell head over feel and eloped with him after 3 months.Problems were numerous to say the least he had never graduated from highschool and he was participating in illegal fights to make ends meet.My parent continued to pay for my college tuition but cut off all ties with me and when i graduated college i was 3 months pregnant.After i gave birth to my daughter he became violent and in a fight with me over money broke my jaw.I divorced him and married my divorce lawyer who i thought i was in love with that marriage lasted only a year an half before i found out he was a womanizer and a con-man.At this point i am terrified of dating anyone or trusting people? I have moved back home to my parents and already my mom wants me to go on a date with her friends son?

2007-01-08 00:46:12 · 12 answers · asked by Mercedes C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was with him for 2.5 years and there's no hope of reconciliation. What's a sure way of making the pain subside a bit? Besides time.

2007-01-08 00:45:28 · 29 answers · asked by chiliboop 2 in Singles & Dating

well i have dificulty to find the right person for me, most of my relationship had a good start but it ended up with nothing,

2007-01-08 00:45:27 · 14 answers · asked by jennylyn p 2 in Singles & Dating

and i'm not being critical here, just an observation. but i always see "ugly" guys with very pretty girls hanging around them.
why is that ?

is there a connection somewhere ? is it mother nature's way of balancing things ?

2007-01-08 00:45:18 · 4 answers · asked by igottanoe 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 00:44:07 · 8 answers · asked by afrprince77 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 00:42:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

all this has happened in 3 days days n i dnt kno wot to do well ill start frm da beginnin da other day on messenger my m8 ditched me becoz she called me a fake emo bcoz i dnt cut myself now on monday 2day actually she turned all my m8s against me they now all h8 me on top of tht i got into argument with some gals becoz they started on me n it slipped out and i told her 2 shut up now i risk gettin beaten up i need help tell me wot 2 do plx

2007-01-08 00:41:41 · 6 answers · asked by Nikki.babessssxoxo 1 in Friends

so i have a problem, my boyfriends mom has never met me and she already hates me..she said that i sleep around and evryting and she doesnt want her son dating me,seeing me, or talking to anymore..what do i do?

2007-01-08 00:40:59 · 12 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Singles & Dating

Like when she holds her arms above her head on a hot day as she relaxes. Or she is tieing her hair up in a knot. Do you find that seeing her armpits is a turn on and if so why?

2007-01-08 00:40:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 00:39:48 · 13 answers · asked by one 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys who are kind, funny, honest, chritable, nice.....basically someone that is a dream come true.....id love a guy like that

2007-01-08 00:39:26 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 00:38:53 · 11 answers · asked by babychamjo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 17 and never had a first love? why???? any physics or mother hens wanna shed any light on this, in think im a really nice person please help M -x-

2007-01-08 00:38:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago and said that she wants her space. If I truly believe deep down in my heart that we belong together, is it better to just let her have her space and then when she's ready to talk again try and convince her that we belong together by showing her how much I have changed? Or is it better that I just move on and try to find someone else?

2007-01-08 00:38:12 · 13 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1 in Singles & Dating

Ever since I was a young child, i never really like my mother. My older brother told me that when my mother yelled at me when i was younger, i use to take it on my teddy bears by punching them. But ever since then, we can never get along. She complains way to much, and she always act like I'm not good enough, even though I am the only one out of my siblings who went to professional school (law). Is there something wrong with me? when I graduated from college, I moved out the house because I can't stand her bickering, complaining and negatvitiy. When I first told her I wanted to go to law school, she said its a waste of time and that I should become a psychiatrist. She doesn't even respect my dreams! is this normal that I feel this way?

2007-01-08 00:37:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

(a folder that keeps all records of his msn messages)
In it I found that he was still chatting to his ex whom he for me , he was asking her to come over to live him him from france, he still tells her he loves her and that he misses her and cant wait to see her again. AS U CAN IMAGINE IT WAS VERY HARD FOR me having to read all that, I mean I understand that he misses her mayb he wants to be with her afterall, I can only move on after that, But I dont even know how to tell him I know about it, I just find it do hard now to even kiss him or do anything with him cause I know what he has been up to, I asked him last night if he still talks to her he denied all this. what should I do (apart from leaving him of coz cause thats what ill be doing) but how do i let him know.
I wasnt excatly reading his emails, I was browsing received files cause I was looking for the pictures I had sent him. SO technically it wasnt even his messages.

2007-01-08 00:35:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

10 years, a few ups and downs, but we are a steady happy couple with two kids, and one on the way. so i thought. apparently, he's been having a 'friendly' relationship with one of his colleague for the past two years, visiting her at her place, exchanging presents, getting to know the kids really well, etc. my husband is not the kind to make friends that easily, so this person must have been special for him to behave like this. i discovered all about it after seeing a new year's SMS on his phone in which she was sending her best wishes and her love... when i asked questions, he said she was just a colleague and also a good friend and he did not want to tell me because i would be jealous and start making noise about it. I did make a drama for each of the girls who were not ONLY friends but girlfriends and he was cheating. i never made any trouble for any other female friend he introduced me to, or whom he would talk about in conversations. the fact that he hide this one is suspicious.

2007-01-08 00:35:04 · 27 answers · asked by Lisa 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 00:35:01 · 23 answers · asked by Signlady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 00:33:04 · 5 answers · asked by stressed 2 in Singles & Dating

I told this guy i love him but cannot wait for him to be ready for a relationship. He said he doesnt know what he wants so i told him i would mve on even tho i still have these feelings for him and he then said he wants me in a way!!! What does he mean??? Please help!!!
Please dont gve me any nasty answers coz it hurts enuf not being with him!!!
Thank you in advance for all the helpful answers xxxxx

2007-01-08 00:32:09 · 46 answers · asked by ♥ Jodi ♥ Kaydi's Mummy ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating