so i have a problem, my boyfriends mom has never met me and she already hates me..she said that i sleep around and evryting and she doesnt want her son dating me,seeing me, or talking to anymore..what do i do?
2007-01-08 00:40:59 · 12 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's just jealous that you're taking her "man's" attention....she'll get over it....once she's dead. Nothing worse than a possessive mother!
2007-01-08 00:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think she's right and there's something you can do better, you may wanna consider that.
If her comments make no sense what so ever, then you'll just treat her like a farmer. Nod and be polite. Don't quarrel or upset her, don't go against her. Just be with and love your guy.
You can judge if people are being reasonable or not. Judge yourself and your actions. If people are complaining there may be something to it. Of course also there are muppets who rack down on just about anything for nothing, but in that case you may wanna consider moving to another town and have your boyfriend move with you :) Distance is real nice with favourite parents-in-laws...
If that's not an option just go for the nice version. Don't bother about her. If your guy loves you, that's it. She'll be gone sooner or later anyway. Just try avoiding ending up living together unless you end up liking each other. Otherwise it may not be that easy anymore. Enjoy~
2007-01-08 00:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by Hansinchina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have come from Africa. that's the normal behavior of mother there. Anyway don't mind her, she is doing her Job. Have in mind if her son truly love you. nothing can separate the relationship. You are going for the son not the mother so keep on moving with a matter of time thing will be OK.
2007-01-08 01:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by national don 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you shouldnt worry about it much, she isnt the one your dating, and as most mothers are, they protect thier children, so anything they hear they think its true, speak to your boyfriend and you should meet his mum, be nice to her and try and show that shes wrong, and if anything atleast you would hav tried, if she still hates you, then its her loss, its not really any of her business who her son sees, at the end of the day life is short, you should enjoy every sec with your boyfriend, with or without his mothers approval. have a good day, and good luck!
2007-01-08 00:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by *â??*à Æ?Æ?Ÿ*â??* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do nothing about her opinion of you right now so don't let her mean way of treating you make you strike back at her and cause you to act like her.Just know that if you and this guy get serious,you'll have a bitc* to deal with and she may not be worth the trouble of being with him.
2007-01-08 00:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change her mind by talking to her, she'll only learn better by your actions. If your boyfriend is still dating you, then just continue on; eventually, you'll prove or wrong, or right, as the case may be.
2007-01-08 00:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep seeing him
2007-01-08 00:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by V P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you've already had her son, what's she gonna do about it?
2007-01-08 00:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is sheltering him. Is he a "mama's boy"?
2007-01-08 02:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap a bit.ch and say your seeing him weather she likes it or not...
2007-01-08 00:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋