i am 17 and never had a first love? why???? any physics or mother hens wanna shed any light on this, in think im a really nice person please help M -x-
2007-01-08 00:38:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love my dear is something which can come into your life at any time. You don't have to prepare much about it, but you have to have in mind what sort of partner you would love to have so that you can screen those who don't appeal to you. However, sometimes it is those whom you don't appreciate that turn out to be honest partners.
Love has qualities, so you should also have the right qualities in your mind; for example, are you looking for one with a sense of humour or one who is beautiful, slim, fat or average, older or younger. But sometimes you don't have time to peruse through your quality bag as you may find yourself madly in love with someone whom you will have met for the first time.
The best thing you can do is to just be yourself and feel confident when you are with someone, but don't be desperate.
2007-01-08 00:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by marizani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay firstly I dont know what gender you are so I dont know exactly how to approach this... I am the same age as you and I will explain my best: You are entitled to your actions take things slow and be carefull #1 who you try to grow attraction to. It is important that you understand what it is you really truely are looking for. That right there slims love down to only a certain amount of people. Then there is the ones that are interested in you. (I am sorry if this offends in anyway [remember I dont know what you look like so I am not make any inclinations] but looks in a way does matter about 30-40% of the relationship, I mean your not gonna wanna wake up to the crypt keeper or a blimp (unless you are yourself or your interested in that sorta stuff.)) However I do believe looks are just a small portion So all these things slim things down a great amount. Love shouldnt be easy or quick. Patience and an open mind and option are the key ; )
2007-01-08 00:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by Frater K.H.A. Zelator 1°=10□ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 17. Do girls feel worthless unless they have a boyfriend? If you're not happy with yourself, why would anyone want to be in your life? If you're desperate, it shows. Think about that.
Love isn't something that's promised at birth, you know? It could happen in the next ten minutes or it may never happen. You need to be "in love" with yourself. If you're confident and happy with yourself, people (of the opposite sex...if that's what you're looking for) will see it and want to share your happiness. On the other hand, if you're walking around all desperate and negative, people will avoid you like the plague.
2007-01-08 00:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked the same question when I was 13; I dreamed to fall in love with someone one day and "live happily forever" and right now I still live that dream. I know it sounds too romantic and "sweet" but I could not help but think in that way. Right now I am 14 and I have falled in love with a girl; unexpected person, unexpected time. I love her very much despite she said that she just want to be friends. I love her. My conclusion is that love comes when you LEAST expect it; mine came during the long semester holiday.
2007-01-08 00:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the right person hasn't come along, thats why!
Plus, your 17, give it a couple of years, if you are going to uni, you never know, you might meet someone there!
Good luck with the love thing, I'm sure you'll find someone!
2007-01-08 00:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by Saz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, 'Why the hurry'?
We are capable of falling into love a number of times. We are also prone to mistaking one set of emotions for another ~ and thus make GRAND mistakes.
I may have Loved my ex wife, but I was in my late 30's when I FELL into 'Love.'
17 years old! Nothing, kid, your hardly out of your nappies. Just wait, use the time to learn, and be patient.
Sash.
2007-01-08 00:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by sashtou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The right person just hasn't come along yet and you need to STOP looking for it.... it will happen one day but we never know when that one day will come. Your young, you have plenty of time so don't go rushing into anything!
2007-01-08 00:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by The Weird One! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you find the right person, you'll fall in love. try a cafe or a library. you're still young. you might find the right one in college, too. a lot of folks do. good luck! :)
2007-01-08 00:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by allisonaddicted 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you will find love when you are least expecting it. stop looking for love and start enjoying yourself. Love is just around the corner!
2007-01-08 00:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll fall in love when you are ready to, and of course when you have met someone special. I guess thats all there is to it!!!!
2007-01-08 00:42:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋