Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

choose from the following and state why,

jacuzzi,
sauna,
snow,
car, or
infront of others

you choose

2007-01-08 01:35:25 · 18 answers · asked by jane w 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a mom of 2 great kids. I've been with this guy on and off for 10 years and he is the father of my kids. He's a truck driver and is home on the weekends and sometimes a day or two during the week. Here recently, he's been very distant towards me and my kids. He acts like he has better things to do and never calls and never helps me out with the kids. He's turned into a mama's boy. He'll go and help his mom, but not me. I've been talking to another guy that I used to date 6 1/2 years ago and he wants to hook back up again. There's a 16 year age difference between me and this guy. Everytime we talk or see each other, my feelings keep coming back. I'm sick of my boyfriend treating me and my kids like crap. The other guy treats me and my kids like a god. I love my boyfriend, but I don't know if I should hook back up with the other guy. Please help me with my problem!! Thanks so much!!

2007-01-08 01:33:53 · 12 answers · asked by Smilies 2 in Singles & Dating

Mine are small and a guy told me to gain some meat to make my breasts bigger

2007-01-08 01:33:48 · 27 answers · asked by ♡Ling♫ 3 in Singles & Dating

I really like her but she hates me...what should I do!?
There's a girl in my class who I really like. We used to like each other for a while even though we didn’t talk that much. Anyway, it now seems like she really hates me for no reason and I don't know if she likes me. When I start talking to her she tries to ignore me... well I don't know what's going on cause she asked me last week whether I hate her. Should I just talk to her and ask her whether she doesn't like me and tell her that I feel like she ignores me or is it a bad idea?!

2007-01-08 01:33:34 · 10 answers · asked by air1990 1 in Singles & Dating

I got finanicial problems, i bought a lemon from the car lot that im hoping i can return, I got so many bills to pay and it hard, my students loans went up higher. And no one is standing by my side during my hard times but when im doing good and is on top everyone wants to be my friend. Why is it always like that with people.

2007-01-08 01:33:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend used to lick me in that special place like his life depended on it. now that i had our daughter he wont go near it!!! i have tears in my eyes just thinking about it!! WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!

2007-01-08 01:32:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-08 01:32:00 · 19 answers · asked by Barbara Doll to you 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband spends all his free time On the internet. He says he is playing cards but I reently found that he is IM'ing several women. One in particular.I looked at her contact card and it shows two naked people embracing. When I clicked on line in his name she came back asking questiond like hey I thought you went hunting and such. It made me feel like she knows more about what is going on in his life than I do. Often I've walked in the room and he closes out their messages or either he keeps the door closed so our daughter and myself can't see what he is typing. He says it's just a game but I worry that if he is talking dirty to these women then comes to bed asking me for sex it makes me feel like second best and dirty.Am I just reading too much into it or does these things really happen.Sometimes I feel like throwing this computer outside. He spends more time with these people than he does with us. Does any one have any advice? Good ,bad , or indifferent. This is driving me crazy.

2007-01-08 01:31:21 · 17 answers · asked by rose v 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm attracted to elder people. I am a man. I'm not a pervert. I look for straight sex only. But, the problem is I find every female or almost all the elderly females attractive. I,m in late thirties.

2007-01-08 01:30:14 · 7 answers · asked by arawind_2000 1 in Singles & Dating

first thought that comes to mind

2007-01-08 01:28:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it possible to have two soulmates? i mean as lovers?

2007-01-08 01:28:25 · 8 answers · asked by lilbit 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this guy for 3 weeks now. We have not had sex. He told me that he cares for me and that his gf's in the past he treated like whores. He respects me and says he is scared to have sex with me until he sorts things out in his head. He said he hasn;t had sex with someone he cars about in a long time. Should I be worried?

2007-01-08 01:27:08 · 27 answers · asked by kimmerry68 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had 2 children by cs so left with scar and a tummy full of stretch marks, NICE.
i feel unsexy with my body, i feel so sexy with clothes on just without them, only my tummy that bothers me, i love getting dressed up, but hate my partner looking at me when im naked, he says i have a great body but i dont believe him as i can see for myself its vile, i really want a tummy tuck, has anyone got any advice or had one, please let me know and suggestions will help?

2007-01-08 01:27:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The problem is that about a year ago she kept avoiding him and not turning up when she made an arrangement to see him. A few months later she told him that she was with pregnant by another guy. Anyway she had the baby and a few months later she rang him and said the baby was his not the other guys.Then said the guy had a DNA test and its not his. Now she claiming that it's his kid Anyway months later she went to see him with the baby and didn't bring the proof of the test with her they ended up in bed. Three months have gone by since then he tells me, she always calling him and never turns up always making excuses. I told him to have the test but he said its too much money also the dates were wrong he thinks for him to be the father. Today he calls me telling me she said he should visit her and she's horny as usual but always lets him down. He later calls me and told me that she has just phoned him to say he should still come round but she just seen her monthly ? what should he do ?

2007-01-08 01:25:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anthony B 2 in Singles & Dating

thoughts of attraction or thoughts of wondering if friendship is what the other one wants..?

obviously there are some qualities that draw two people to a friendship..but have you ever wondered why the other one wants to be close with you? can there really be friendship without having this thought?

2007-01-08 01:25:42 · 13 answers · asked by Rock 4 in Singles & Dating

Right i really like this boy and hopeing he'll ask me out soon but last night i told a boy that likes me and i don't want to upset him...who should i stay with?
the boy that likes me says he loves me but when i talk to him it just feels like we're mates and the other makes me feel loved..

2007-01-08 01:25:17 · 17 answers · asked by Laura S 4 in Singles & Dating

is it the same as when he slaps it?? or have another meaning??

2007-01-08 01:24:59 · 16 answers · asked by Pepper 1 in Singles & Dating

In which rule book is it written that one has to act sweet and nice and not rock the boat all the time?

With acceptable societle standards who would you like to unleash some bad behaviour upon some time? when? and to who? Or are you just plum locked out of that behavior?

2007-01-08 01:23:45 · 5 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking bout doing that for my boyfriend, we're in a long-distant relationship, and I'm thinking of saying I'll be back in a min and then come down stairs and surprise him...how would you feel if your girl did that? I haven't done this to him before

2007-01-08 01:22:37 · 21 answers · asked by Angelina M 1 in Singles & Dating

i luv my classmate truly n deeply always thinks abt him n cud not think of any other guy besides him .he stare at me n whenever i luk at him i found him lookin at me too.i dont know why he hesitate to say that may be as we blong to different religion.i m really gettin crazy abt him day by day n its affectin my studies tell me what shud i do?

2007-01-08 01:22:30 · 3 answers · asked by a rodd fan 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for over 5 years now. Every so often if I gain some weight it becomes an issue. He says he is scared that once I am married I will have the mentality of thinking "oh well, nothing to work on anymore". Am I in the wrong for thinking that he should NEVER comment about me like this and just love me unconditionally? Or, do I do something about it

2007-01-08 01:21:49 · 27 answers · asked by almostabride 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A person that gave you that feeling of Purpose ?

Love & Blessings
Milly

2007-01-08 01:21:27 · 7 answers · asked by milly_1963 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My last name is beautiful,french,special,unique,etc.... but my boyfriend's last name is simple,plain and common. I want to marry him and have his last name like a wife is suppose to. If I tell him I am feeling this way it will hurt his feelings.

2007-01-08 01:19:12 · 14 answers · asked by La'Grange 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a guy in my late twenties who has the following predicament. I often start my relationships as friendships and then push the envelope. My bad luck is that for the third time now the girl has a birthday in the very early days - and I need to decide what to buy.

I can buy a 'friend's gift (e.g. book/cd) and forfeit my chances as a lover or I can buy a 'girlfriend' gift (e.g. jewlery) but risk overplaying my hand.

In the past two instances, I had two opposite results: one girl jumped into a relationship and another freaked out and iced the friendship. I don't want to lose this one or freak her out but on the other hand, I don't want her to think I am an uncaring cheap-skate.

So, what am I to get for a fun, smart and all-round great person with whom I currently have an ambiguous relationship with?

(While the ideal answer would be a joint experience - such as a golf outing with lessons plus picnic, hot air balloon, etc. - I cannot do so as I will be in another city)

Help me!

2007-01-08 01:18:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has already asked me to mmove in with him after i get out of high school he wants me to come downthis weekend and he also is 25 and he keeps getting texted by a 44 year old women. and he says he dosent want anything to do with her so what do i do?help me please.i think he is mr.right ?how do i know for sure

2007-01-08 01:18:09 · 10 answers · asked by KIMBERLY P 1 in Singles & Dating

I like to be spanked like hard and not just playfully! I asked a guy to do it the other day and he did and he seemed to really like doing it and even started telling him that "I was naughty" and getting into it. I was just drunk when I asked him and I hooked up after him doing that. He gave me his number and told me to call soon, does he want to do it again you think? I was just wondering if a lot of guys have done this or how they'd react. I hope this isn't too perverted, I just need some advice! I feel like a weirdo. Do you think I am?

2007-01-08 01:17:18 · 24 answers · asked by SHELTIELUVER 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife tells me she loves me one min and she wants a divorce the next min she is happy one min and tottaly pissed off the next. Icant understand it, and its really hurting our marriage every thing is ok now but what do i need to do i dont understand. I have never had to deal with this before does she really have a disorder. She is so loving sometimes then other times she is the coldest person i have ever met, and she tells me she is sorry she dont know why she does it, or she will say its just a phase or something like that. please only serouis answer i dont know what to do.

2007-01-08 01:16:56 · 15 answers · asked by jenny64093 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 01:15:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went on my boyfriends computer recently and saw that all he had been looking at were websites of girls, i know im pretty myself and most of them werent half as good looking without being bigheaded. It just makes me feel like im not good enough for him otherwise why would he look elsewhere. I dont understand why men do this i have no need to look at other men.

2007-01-08 01:15:34 · 14 answers · asked by noidea 1 in Singles & Dating

A high school girl

2007-01-08 01:15:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating