I got finanicial problems, i bought a lemon from the car lot that im hoping i can return, I got so many bills to pay and it hard, my students loans went up higher. And no one is standing by my side during my hard times but when im doing good and is on top everyone wants to be my friend. Why is it always like that with people.
2007-01-08 01:33:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Now is the time to pray for strength. No, I'm not a religion freak, just reminding you to bring it down to basics... and if you read the Bible, try Job. It will really put your problems in perspective.
Have you tried consolidating your bills or using a Credit Counseling Service? Be sure to check with the BBB first... But you put yourself in this financial situation, now you must find a way out, and pray for strength to get through it.
2007-01-08 01:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Diana T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You often find out who your friends really are in the "tough" times.... Not sure where you are from, but most places have to give you a comparible car that will pass inspection, "lemon law"-- You may have to get another job to tread the bills for a while... and it is life, not bad luck, nor good luck...its the learning curve of life that's all...don't take it personal at all..
2007-01-08 09:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel your pain. i have been down that road many times. but let me 1st tell you what my dad always told me: " if you are looking for a helping hand, look no further than the end of your arms". no matter how bad things get, it will ALWAYS come to pass. so you must pick yourself up. dust your knees off, and fight the good fight. what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. there are always people that are alot worse off than you, soyou must keep things in perspective. if let things keep you beat down, eventually you can't get up. so just get up and STAY up. you are god of your world. trust in yourself. lean on yourself. you are all you need to get through this. trust me. i have been down some dark roads, and i walked those roads to the end, dragged myself sometimes, but i made it. you can too.
2007-01-08 09:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by beechjb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Count it all joy when you go through trials. God is preparing you.
Very young you have found out something very valuable that often takes much longer. Trust God and not people.
2007-01-08 09:46:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋